not even like she didnt support him.
She just asked him a question
I cant make this stuff up man. All he had to do is explain to her that he is working at becoming a manager, and how much money he would make etc.
its obvious she didnt know.
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not even like she didnt support him.
She just asked him a question
I cant make this stuff up man. All he had to do is explain to her that he is working at becoming a manager, and how much money he would make etc.
its obvious she didnt know.
So he should continue to be with someone he doesn't love anymore because the Coli says so?
If a woman came on here talking about she doesn't love her husband anymore but won't divorce him and instead will cheat on him it'd be like turning over a hornet's nest. Be unhappy brehs.
He is the one saying this breh, not her.
No shade breh, but $12.50 an hour?
I kind of have to side with her. if I was your homie, id probably tell you the same thing.
congrats on being manager, but please enlighten us on whats so great about being manager at best buy? I mean it kind of has that "Im manager at mcdonalds" type of vibe to it...like what you making? $17/hr? c'mon man. it sounds like you overreacted. It not like she left you when she found out where you wanted to work. she just asked you a question and you ready to throw her in the bushes
I could understand if you wanted to be a musician, or an athelete, or anything profession that you had dreams of being and she shytted on you...
but I refuse to believe you had dreams of becoming manager at best buy
Maybe you just need to give us more details of this situation, because from what you posted, you sound irrational.
your happiness is definately more important, but I'm just lost at how something like that could make you unhappy.
I'll break it down for you...
I'm not 35. I'm 28. Her argument was that in 7 years I'd be making $12.50. Disrespectful to me as a man, a worker, and a planner as there is absolutely NO way I start a career that ends with me making fukking 12.50 after seven years...
I was making MORE than that at 22 years old BEFORE we were married. The money I was making allowed me an apartment, transportation and the ability to take her on trips, buy gifts, and other shyt. My initial plan was always to make General Manager, run my own box (store) and eventually move to corporate. I got a little bored with retail once I left Best Buy to become a Manager and I joined the Army. She was around for all of this. She knew my mind set and that I very much enjoyed working there. So none of this was out of left field...
Your "Best Buy Manager is the same as a McDonald's manager" analogy couldn't be more wrong. However you are entitled to your opinion. I suggest you look up Salaried Best Buy manager pay (including bonuses)
So many clowns on here... 
Y'all don't know when to cut your loses. I can't be with a woman who looks down on me either.... When the struggle gets real people will expose themselves for who they are. Breh didn't feel supported so he did the right thing.
Y'all don't know when to cut your loses. I can't be with a woman who looks down on me either.... When the struggle gets real people will expose themselves for who they are. Breh didn't feel supported so he did the right thing.
Exactly. You all are stating he stay in a marriage with a person he doesn't love and that's not fair to either of them. If a woman said she was going to stay with a man she doesn't love "just because" nikkas would be mad as fukk. When you're out of love, just leave.
Keep searching for perfect humans brehs
Think you will find a woman more loyal at 30 than the woman you knew since HS brehs
Claim how manly you are but fall out of love because you got critiqued brehs
Think you will find a woman more loyal at 30 than the woman you knew since HS brehs
Claim how manly you are but fall out of love because you got critiqued brehs
why dont you just tell me what the salary expectations are?
Like I said, I didnt know so thats why I asked.
I personally dont see that question as her looking down on you. if my old lady told me she wanted to work at walmart id also be concerned.
But at the end of the day man do you.
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I'm happy for you, dude.
I got divorced last year and my ex left me in a completely demonic way, and part of her story was about how I was just slumming it and not doing anything.
Yet, now I'm a cook at a national recognized bar/restaurant making more money than she ever was. fukk people like that, breh. Life is a fukkin marathon, not a sprint. Glad I'm free to do as I please and not have some unstable person holding me back.
I got divorced last year and my ex left me in a completely demonic way, and part of her story was about how I was just slumming it and not doing anything.
Yet, now I'm a cook at a national recognized bar/restaurant making more money than she ever was. fukk people like that, breh. Life is a fukkin marathon, not a sprint. Glad I'm free to do as I please and not have some unstable person holding me back.
no one is saying he should stay with a woman he doesnt love. we are all just puzzled at how her being concerned about his career choice would make him fall out of love with her. maybe he's not telling us the whole story but when I hear "im working at best buy" im thinking $13/hr. so it could be that she was thinking the same thing. so in that case all he had to do was educate her like he educated me.
and the fact that she felt he could do better then work at best buy shows that she doesnt look down on him at all. she actually thinks he could do better for himself.
its all in how you look at it I guess.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure he went more in depth with his wife than some Coli nikkas.
The problem with people is they just want to see the receipts. They don't care about the planning, the effort, or the struggle. Would you want someone like that as your wife?
What's so good about it is that it's what I want to do. I can't explain to you how much I enjoy the business, it would be the equivalent of whatever you have a passion about and are exceptionally good at. I enjoy the work, I enjoy technology, I enjoy helping customers. Assistant Store managers start at about 60K and General managers can get upwards of 102K.
I'm a Geek Squad Manager. Which is actually hourly. It's the only hourly manager position within the store. I make $20.17 Hourly not including overtime and monthly bonuses (those bonuses
)So I went from $11.40 in December. Worked my ass off to two promotions and the third promotion was to Manager. I did that in 6 months AFTER the company with through a restructure (which took away positions)
I couldn't really relate to you how much work I put into it. How I worked open-close every single day for a three week stretch, legs so tired they felt like I was walking on Jello. How I got up at 5am every day to take the marta and be on time and let her take the car. Rain, snow, hail, whatever I made its mission to be right there at the store even before the opening manager was. I was the last one out of the door. The one who led all employees in sales after two weeks. I couldn't really relate that level of commitment and grind to you because in your ignorant mind this is a position that equates to McDonald's. You could never understand nor walk in my shoes....
But SHE knew. Because she saw me do it all before. Before we were married and I Was doing the exact same thing to be successful. She witnessed it first hand. She KNEW here was no way in HELL I'd ever allow myself to be "35 and making 12.50". Because no matter WHAT I do or where I start, I will ALWAYS end up successful.
She spit in my face when she made that comment. She took everything she'd ever seen me work myself to the BONE for and shyt on it. That it is NOT the woman that deserves my last name nor my forever. That is a woman who deserves exactly what she got.
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure he went more in depth with his wife than some Coli nikkas.
Breh im going by what he posted. and from what he posted, he didnt go in depth with her at all. thats why I'm like, ok well maybe he's not telling us the whole story.
But to answer your question, if I was 28 and I told my gf that I wanted to go work at futureshop I would understand her concern.
now, if I explained to her that I plan to work my way up and become manager and then move to corporate, and she shytted on that, or didnt believe in me, then yeah I'd have a problem. Because as my wife she's suppose to believe in me and support me.
But even that can be tricky too because lets say I was 45 years old and I told my wife I was gonna quit my job where im making 90k and become a rapper. is she suppose to support that too? where do we draw the line?
I just think they need to work on their communication.
a murda
Depression is real brehs
I'm might be next brehs :mjsmurk:
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