Getting back with "the one that got away"

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

First of all don't fall into that feminist game of males and females are equal and their behaviors reap the same consequences. That's bs. I'm not hating on you or anything dude I'm telling you this for the best and I've been where you've been and I know it's practically impossible to reject a chick you had a crush on (those are fukking rare). I'm telling you the fact that the chick left the relationship at her discretion for the sole reason of jumping on dikk shows she has no respect for you and trust she never will if you get back with her. If you're in a relationship and a chick leaves for the cited reason of exploring dikk that's DISRESPECT IN ITS PUREST FORM. Listen to me. I understand this is your crush. Game her and smash as long as possible then bounce. Trust me.

I hear you breh. That's basically how I'm approaching it...swear to God if it ended tonight I'm not tripping. I'm not in my feelings like that. No where near where it was years back. Would take a hell of a lot of her showing and proving over time before I'm even remotely getting near that stage.

She's the one pursuing, I'm going along to see what's up...I have the upper hand. She knows I have a lot going for me and have pretty much had my pick of ladies. She was surprised when I told her I wasn't in a relationship currently.

 

[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

I hear you breh. That's basically how I'm approaching it...swear to God if it ended tonight I'm not tripping. I'm not in my feelings like that. No where near where it was years back. Would take a hell of a lot of her showing and proving over time before I'm even remotely getting near that stage.

She's the one pursuing, I'm going along to see what's up...I have the upper hand. She knows I have a lot going for me and have pretty much had my pick of ladies. She was surprised when I told her I wasn't in a relationship currently.

You don't have the upper hand. You lost that when you met up with her on her time and fukked her on the first.

A nikka that knows his value makes others prove theirs.

 

[unit321]

Lemme get this straight

bytch kicked you to the curb and when she felt like getting back with you on her terms you are accepting her back in?

Plan B players are dime a dozen. Women know that too. Men have plan B partners lined up too. It goes both ways.

And now, she's played the field and Plan A dudes aren't so good. Fast forward to last week, and she done initiated plan B... with Plan B dood. Surprise, surprise.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

Honestly you should break it, just on some real man shyt.

Real men don't run to a woman's every beck and call. If you're the commodity, she should be trying to cater to you. You think smashing on the first night was an achievement, but that's the goal she manifested. You were just simply a piece on the checkerboard (women don't play chess lol).

Be a man homie. Know what position you want her in, not trying to figure out what she wants from you.

It's funny you say you have your own mind but you're doing everything she wants you to do and she already played you before.

I went into that get together not knowing what her motives were, and I had no expectations except to catch up. I smashed it out just out of principle after I saw that she was jockin 15 mins into our get together. Ever since she had been the one pressing to hang out more. She's thirstier than I am, her maternal clock is ticking and she knows I'm an A1 catch and I think she doesn't wanna fukk that up again. But as I say, we shall see.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

You don't have the upper hand. You lost that when you met up with her on her time and fukked her on the first.

A nikka that knows his value makes others prove theirs.

She's pursuing me, not vice versa. And we met on my time.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

4 years ago is a long time and her thought process is probably way different. I was in a similar situation wit a chick but I'm the type of person where if you dot want me than Im not gon want you later.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

We are Groot!

Spoiler: I am Groot...

I Am Groot...

No matter what happens...









WE
ARE
GROOT

 

[RealAssanova]

4 years ago is a long time and her thought process is probably way different. I was in a similar situation wit a chick but I'm the type of person where if you dot want me than Im not gon want you later.

get into a relationship with a reformed hoe brehs.

that girl done seen more dikks in her life then nikkaz have seen jail.

and you tryna hint at the possibility of ya'll being something?

if a girl ignores me today and hits me up tomorrow, she is tossed into the bushes permanently.

and you talmbout 4 years later

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Let me clarify a few things:

I'm not tooting my own horn here, but I'm 6'2, 200 lbs, good looking and make 6 figures. I've been had more than my fair share of women, and very diversified women at that. I've walked away from ladies that my buddies have told me I was crazy to leave. I don't simp, never had to.

I met her when she was 23, and I was pushing 30. Definitely different stages in life. I sure as hell wasn't tied down at her age and I understood that she wanted to have that experience and I don't fault her for that. She was straight up about it and I respect that vs trying to play both sides of the fence.

She now lives alone in a condo, really been progressing in her career, and most of her friends are now married and popping out kids. She's at a different place in her life than she was 4-5 yrs ago.

This ain't some bootycall thot that hollas when she doesn't have some dikk for the night. I legit think she's wanting to settle down and came back to me cuz she knows I'm better than these other clowns she's dealt with. But we shall see.

I'm not in the best position because I am a simp for my son's mother. That's it. However, if you're so raw then you should have some self-respect instead of making excuses for her. You obviously like her more than she does you. fukking different dikks and chilling with other men to find themselves isn't what most women want. Wtf did she really have to learn? She went on to find a dude better than you. She failed miserably like most women do and is settling for you. You can do whatever you want. It is your life mister $100k but I am telling you the facts. Most people settle but to know you're second-best is a different story.

I don't want any man to be miserable but more important I don't want any man to get less than what they deserved.

 

[Groot]

No matter what happens...









WE
ARE
GROOT

We are Groot!

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

I'm not in the best position because I am a simp for my son's mother. That's it. However, if you're so raw then you should have some self-respect instead of making excuses for her. You obviously like her more than she does you. fukking different dikks and chilling with other men to find themselves isn't what most women want. Wtf did she really have to learn? She went on to find a dude better than you. She failed miserably like most women do and is settling for you. You can do whatever you want. It is your life mister $100k but I am telling you the facts. Most people settle but to know you're second-best is a different story.

I don't want any man to be miserable but more important I don't want any man get less than what they're deserved.

 

[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

She's pursuing me, not vice versa. And we met on my time.

You dumb to male-female dynamics. Do you tho homie.

 

[GPBear]

She left me brehs....twice!


I've only fallen for one chick though, so. Everyone gets one

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

To add to my original comment if he makes $100k then she went to bust it open for dudes who make $1M+. Likely got fronters. Dudes didn't want her ass but guess who does? I know how the game goes, though.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

To add to my original comment if he makes $100k then she went to bust it open for dudes who make $1M+. Likely got fronters. Dudes didn't want her ass but guess who does? I know how the game, though.

OP doesn't realize she thought she could do better than him. He trying to blame it on her age that she didn't want a relationship. When a woman thinks you are top tier, you don't gotta try to convince her to settle down. She'll be trying to convince you to settle down.