Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[Goat poster]

The suicide rate for this generation once they hit 40 and up is going to be

Agreed
once the people in this social media generation get fully old and is gonna be the saddest thing ever.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Sometimes I just speed up the process in identifying a ghoster by stopping texting them first when I realize that it's always me initiating the conversations .... i'm still waiting on some texts from 2012

i started doing this a month or two back. some ppl just get used to you being the 'punk' - i only tolerate it to the extent that the individual in question is furthering my goals. sometimes you got to put your ego out of the way to get short term Ls for long term Ws.

that being said im a lot better these days at cutting out douchebags

 

[Marezzy]

exactly, if a girl wants you she'll find time to not only respond but also see you no matter how busy she is, unless it's some family emergency. I was talking with some homegirls about this that nikkas need to know that if a chick don't respond quick it's over @Big Boss, they all laughed and agreed

What makes it worst is when your their presence the phone is in arm length ALWAYS.

Too old for those games.

 

[DrX]

humanity is over....u have to detach yourself from people....

people are totally for self

 

[↓R↑LYB]

yea, i mean even the mental exertion is removed if the call or text never reaches you in the first place. that's why it kills me when ppl act like ghosting is a useful tactic they've come to rely on after years of careful planning and experience. nah .... it's just lazy as fukk.

It's not lazy. Some of us just don't give a fukk

And it's not like bytches respond better to you telling them to kick rocks. I told this one bytch don't call me again after like 4 days and she kept asking for an explanation like her feelings mattered to me

 

[DrX]

really dating with our generation is causal NSA sex and a good weekend....its a numbers game really...everybody swapping fluids, sharing each other, passing std's back n forth

dont nobody want a damn relationship

 

[VertigoKnight]

what if the person starts to send vague messages , too busy for sex meet ups and you know deep down they really want a baller
to ghost or not to ghost, that is the question

Ghost, as they've probably started seeing someone one else. Which if you and her aren't serious is fine with me. Gives me an easy out. Leave on good terms and look forward to that 1am text in a couple of months when she's alone again and in the mood...

 

[cocoabutter27]

What happened to being nice and kind to people? What happened to respect? I'm glad I'm married...I have no time for this type of cowardly behavior. How does it hurt you to say "I'm not interested" to a person that you are sharing bodily fluids with? Do they suddenly have some power over you because you were respectful? Are you now weak because you showed yourself to be a kind and mature person? This is ridiculous...who raised some of y'all??

 

[Arcavian]

This shyt happened to me a few weeks ago but luckily this other chick i was talking to p*ssy made me feel better. It's all in the game though, don't put all your eggs in one basket and you'll be fine.

 

[Koba St]

This shyt happened to a few weeks ago but luckily this other chick i was talking to p*ssy made me feel better. It's all in the game though, don't put all your eggs in one basket and you'll be fine.

Or just have shyt going on in your life where women are secondary.

 

[SheWantTheD]

really dating with our generation is causal NSA sex and a good weekend....its a numbers game really...everybody swapping fluids, sharing each other, passing std's back n forth

dont nobody want a damn relationship

Nah, most women want the top 10-20% of men in terms of looks, social status, wealth etc. So you got like 5 women sharing the same dude while playing the average, regular dudes. The top sought after men dog these women out, don't call them back, ain't gonna commit, etc.

 

[At30wecashout]

Or just have shyt going on in your life where women are secondary.

Like dropping pennies on the street after a while. I ain't bending over to pick that shyt up.

 

[Larry Lambo]

I don't see why it's hard to tell somebody you aren't interested. It literally takes 5 seconds to send a text.

I don't understand the concept of only being courteous to people you are in relationship with. Like it's ok to completely disrespect somebody because you don't know them well. Who even wants to meet new people and explore new relationships with people if the game is like that.

 

[Dre Space Age]

ghosts until they come back with yo surprise kid

 

[mortuus est]

Ghost, as they've probably started seeing someone one else. Which if you and her aren't serious is fine with me. Gives me an easy out. Leave on good terms and look forward to that 1am text in a couple of months when she's alone again and in the mood...

you right

a shame it had to turn into this