Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[At30wecashout]

This is the woat I think it happened to me the next day

I think they expect you to hit it right after the club

I meanThat is one reason to not sweat barely knowing someone who does it, even if it is inconsiderate as hell.

However, people have the right to change their mind at any time so it is what it is.

 

[Turk]

I done learned the game about ghosting over the past year or so I don't even give girls my real phone # to begin with. There are multiple apps that will allow you to get an alternate one. If i find out shorty is crazy, controlling, etc I simply delete the alternate phone # aint no way of contact ever again

 

[platinum f1a$k]

I ghost, they ghost...who cares
I don't have time to explain to each chick why I don't want to hangout...and it's not that serious
you should have better things in your life going, so shyt like this doesn't even phase you.

If it was serious however, like an actual relationship, then yeah that's foul/ fowl

 

[platinum f1a$k]

I done learned the game about ghosting over the past year or so I don't even give girls my real phone # to begin with. There are multiple apps that will allow you to get an alternate one. If i find out shorty is crazy, controlling, etc I simply delete the alternate phone # aint no way of contact ever again

fax

The suicide rate for this generation once they hit 40 and up is going to be

 

[Marti]

Also I might ghost I might tell you I don want you. Depends on my mood. But once my mind made up.....it's made up

Thats law

 

[newworldafro]

 

[old_timer]

communication is over-rated..

And I say that as someone with a history of successful relationships

Communication is used as a blanket to cover up flaws
To justify anything and everything
wasting people's time with endless explanations

 

[TheIsleofMan]

People have thier phone on them 24/7 no reason why in a span of 24 hours I can't get a text or call. "I was busy" is bullshyt

I'm actually an anti phone dude but yeah, bytches always looking at their phone. if you find a chick that ain't and she's cute, def pay more attention

 

[Mr swag]

I get ghosted on and I have ghosted before by accident

Girls I don't like, I tell

Ghosting is the worse because you do not know what happened

 

[El negrito de tejas]

Ive had it go both ways.

Ive had a chick go ghost on me then a week later text me acting like nothing happened then got mad when I confused her with a another chicks number I deleted.

If you interested be interested but don't think I'm not out here exploring my own options. I give my attention to women that put out the same attention.

Had a woman make plans this past sunday and when sunday came around she was nowhere to be found.
I randomly get on instagram and see shes posting videos of her sons birthday party.

Luckily for me I had made up backup plans just in case.
My back up plans(first time meet up) ended up turning into a easy lay.

Ol girl who made plans hits me up yesterday on snapchat talking about, "Hey I havent forgot about you we need to link up when I get back from NY"
bytch please

 

[Arishok]

Only happened to me once but I do think it's happening for a second time Crazy thing is, me and this current guy weren't/aren't dating.

 

[the bossman]

2016 the Summer of the Ghost.

The game is different now, people just quit easier. Everything needs to be gratifying 24/7 or else people gonna dip. Social media and the internet makes it so that there's so much stimulation you can find, a lot of people in this generation gonna die alone. Having a lot of options is a gift and a curse, the more choices you think you have, the harder it is to choose just 1 thing. People's perceived options is why ghosting so popular.


The ugliest woman on a dating app is gonna have at least 100 messages in her inbox, mad perceived options, until they too old to realize that 98% of those messages from dudes that have no intention of being in a long term relationship/ marrying them.

this. shyt is gonna look ugly in the next 20 years.

 

[Randoug]

I've gone full HOH...don't even care about being ghosted on by any broad..just move to the other chick in my hit list..life too short to worry brehs

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Lot of our generation gonna end up alone. People dont understand that mad choices aint always a good thing The more choices you have, the harder it is to make the right decision often, like a gameshow where a new car is behind 6 different doors, less choices would make your life easier.

Let her upgrade, let her keep 'upgrading' until ain't nothing left for her except the streets. I understand why people ghost, it's part easy and part powerful feeling. Personally if I'm leaving or she leaving, then I want that smoke. I want that arguement or fight or fukked up moment that's real. That's the moment you get tested to be your coldest or your weakest bytch-made self

Real underrated post

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Or just have shyt going on in your life where women are secondary.

thing is you can have shyt going onn in yo

They may actually be giving a breh a shotI've chopped it up with some girls who seemed real cool at the time, we exchanged numbers, then I realized I was more in the moment
so I had to make it a point to tell em I ain't feeling it. Then again im not a punk bytch so I don't need to pull tricks.

Women might change their mind after giving the number, or alternatively, are trying to avoid conflict. There is this weird assumption every man might be ready to slap them up for
saying no, so a number is a quick way to get it over with. I knew a guy who once was given the number to a girl's boyfriendhis cheesing after getting the number and speaking

to "a bad bytch" made the entire fallout hilarious.

that's cooold, I would never be able to get overr that. daamn!