Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[semtex]

I adapted to this practice at the tender age of 16. Now I am so good at ignoring chicks they start to question their own existence

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

It is sad what human relationships are turning into and people think it's okay too

I would never play somebody that I know has feelings for me because when the shoe is on the other foot it is not fun at all.

You get what you give out here

My feelings are gone. My heart been pumping freon. "Ghosting" is just a part of the game now.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Lol @ ghosting u just got curved

Let's not make this a new phenomenon.

With apps like tinder you can meet people n never even exchange numbers before you see em making it easier to dip. Ain't nothing new

Don't waste time chasing cuz if the attraction ain't mutual somebody is loosing.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

2016 the Summer of the Ghost.

The game is different now, people just quit easier. Everything needs to be gratifying 24/7 or else people gonna dip. Social media and the internet makes it so that there's so much stimulation you can find, a lot of people in this generation gonna die alone. Having a lot of options is a gift and a curse, the more choices you think you have, the harder it is to choose just 1 thing. People's perceived options is why ghosting so popular.


The ugliest woman on a dating app is gonna have at least 100 messages in her inbox, mad perceived options, until they too old to realize that 98% of those messages from dudes that have no intention of being in a long term relationship/ marrying them.

Real talk

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I ghost

The older i get the more selfish and self centered i become

I figured out i dont owe a a girl im casually dating anything. If we don't have a committed relationship then she is always in danger of getting the

I dont owe closure or even a text. If i give it then take it. If not then k.i.m

I dont feel obligated to explain anything. Now if we progress past a casual stage then i will adapt.

Mills you that nikka when it comes to the tales, but this gon' be a no for me dawg.

If you are involved with someone beyond pals, and you are done, I genuinely believe it is better to state so clearly.
We are all so different as people, that you never know what effect it has when you just ghost on a person. 99% of people may just shake that shyt of and kim - but I can imagine there are people who would take a rejection like that hard. I think if you can be polite before things start -unless she crazy af- you can just honestly say, at least this way things are clear and you can at least tell her: this is not about looks or you, it's eg about compatibility. That's my pov.

 

[General Mills]

Mills you that nikka when it comes to the tales, but this gon' be a no for me dawg.

If you are involved with someone beyond pals, and you are done, I genuinely believe it is better to state so clearly.
We are all so different as people, that you never know what effect it has when you just ghost on a person. 99% of people may just shake that shyt of and kim - but I can imagine there are people who would take a rejection like that hard. I think if you can be polite before things start -unless she crazy af- you can just honestly say, at least this way things are clear and you can at least tell her: this is not about looks or you, it's eg about compatibility. That's my pov.

honestly breh. You are right. i realize i am being a a$$hole.

not really my nature...kind of realizing i have been doing this and to be real... im getting worse. Ghosting new chicks after a great convo.

Leaving them

 

[DarkHorse23]

Also I might ghost I might tell you I don want you. Depends on my mood. But once my mind made up.....it's made up

Apparently you do that on the coli as well

 

[PeridotPuss]

Apparently you do that on the coli as well

 

[4North1Side2]

To make a long story short, recently I had a chick I was seeing pull a slight ghost move on me one night (she invited me to an event, when I texted her telling her I was gonna come through, she didn't reply til over an hour later and said the event was already over) The next day when I saw her I told her (in a calm way) I thought what she did was kinda shaky (she ALWAYS kept her phone on her). I guess this chick took that as me being OD. She ghosts out again and a week later she tells me "oh I can't give you what you're looking for, I'm not being fair to you, I'm so busy, yada yada" Bihhhhh, I never even told her what I was looking for as far as us dating.

Where I'm from and the era I grew up in, if you acting out of character people will tell you and it ain't about catching feelings or being confrontational. It's just about being an adult and keeping it funky with the people you rock with. This new "millennial" generation scared to chip they teeth.

Trust me, she was with another guy. I've gone thru almost the same exact shyt with a friend with benefits.

I was fukking with this deaf chick for a few months. Thing with deaf people, they always check they phones when it vibrates.

This chick invited me to come thru to this event she was helping set up. At the time i noticed our text conversations became shorter n shorter and she took longer n longer to reply to me. Something came up where I couldn't make it but prior to the event I was able to.

She came up with this bullshyt excuse of its better I stay home because she'll be so busy at the event she won't have time to hang out with me. I already knew what it was so I said cool. Ever since that moment she became real distant but I didn't care because I was fukking other chicks.

I don't know how I came across it but months later I saw pictures of the event with her all boo'd up with this dude who she had a major crush on.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

. It's not that serious.

It is though. People shouldn't treat each other this way. Doesn't matter how "unserious" things are.

 

[platinum f1a$k]

honestly breh. You are right. i realize i am being a a$$hole.

not really my nature...kind of realizing i have been doing this and to be real... im getting worse. Ghosting new chicks after a great convo.

Leaving them

embrace it. it's fair game.

 

[platinum f1a$k]

Says the nikka that was cheating on his wife and posted pictures of her with nut on her face.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

It is though. People shouldn't treat each other this way. Doesn't matter how "unserious" things are.

What way?

They don't owe you shyt.

 

[audemarzz]

I've had a few chicks do this, its strange to cause the convo be going good and poof . . like why waste my time . .

 

[3rdWorld]

I understand.