Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[Jean toomer]

2016 the Summer of the Ghost.

The game is different now, people just quit easier. Everything needs to be gratifying 24/7 or else people gonna dip. Social media and the internet makes it so that there's so much stimulation you can find, a lot of people in this generation gonna die alone. Having a lot of options is a gift and a curse, the more choices you think you have, the harder it is to choose just 1 thing. People's perceived options is why ghosting so popular.


The ugliest woman on a dating app is gonna have at least 100 messages in her inbox, mad perceived options, until they too old to realize that 98% of those messages from dudes that have no intention of being in a long term relationship/ marrying them.

In a singular post you've perfectly encapsulated today's generation. I tip my cap to you sir. Good day.

 

[Giselle]

2016 the Summer of the Ghost.

The game is different now, people just quit easier. Everything needs to be gratifying 24/7 or else people gonna dip. Social media and the internet makes it so that there's so much stimulation you can find, a lot of people in this generation gonna die alone. Having a lot of options is a gift and a curse, the more choices you think you have, the harder it is to choose just 1 thing. People's perceived options is why ghosting so popular.

You're so dramatic I can tell it has happened to you before a few times.

Idk about males, but most women who "ghost" do it bc the guy cheated on them. Both males and women do it to girls/guys they don't care for much or was just casual sex partners with and don't really owe an explanation to. It is simply just cutting off contact with someone without an explanation to the person. It has been happening for years, the only thing new is the slang/trendy name for it.

 

[John Reena]

Real talk, a chick don't owe u a explanation when she ghost you. Just charge it to the game and throw shawty in da bushes. Ion chase nothing that ain't trying to be caught.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I have ADHD so I'm prone to ghosting anyone

I have a 2 week rule. If no contact is made of any kind after 2 weeks, I'm ghost.

that's not healthy but if you can survive like that i'll let you cook

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Excuses based on real experiences though. Whenever you point out to someone why you not fukkin with them anymore and why, they just don't accept it. They'll tell me I'm bugging, I'm too sensitive, I made it all up, etc. There's ALWAYS alot of resistance and sometimes at the end of it all (when they see I'm not budging), they start to realize what they did was wrong....and even when they do realize they are in the wrong, they'll pledge to change but usually don't.

They'll attack you verbally or physically, slander your name, etc. all in an attempt to get you back??? What sense does that make? Sometimes they'll go through all these phases just to say "you were right. I'm sorry". Lmao you just showed me the worst side of you and now I'm suppose to want you back?

Tell them you ain't feeling em and then ghost. It's that simple. That's simple courtesy, doesn't take much time and if you don't want to lay the smackdown face to face you can just text and block their number afterwards.

That's reasonable and respectful. If the other party doesn't want to accept it then that's on them. You have done your part.

What dudes in here are PISSED about is when everything seems to be going great and then all of a sudden somebody just disappears ...

 

[the bossman]

Lol this is why you dude needs to make sure you're talking to more than one girl.

Co-sign. In today's dating world this is the only way to be until one separates herself from the pack to be your main.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Lol this is why you dude needs to make sure you're talking to more than one girl.

that's really the only solution for brehs. i'm sure the guys here who say 'just deal with it' had a rolodex full of hoes anyytime this happened to them.

if you are just talking to one chick and she managed to reel you in and you start to think you have a relationship in your hands, and she just poofs ... I don't know about you brehs, but the thoughts that were going through my head ...



just copy and paste texts and spam your hoes. one of em is gonna have to bite

 

[Dad]

I've been doing that for years before it had a name. Chicks start talking crazy or getting so comfortable that she just becomes inconsiderate. I address it twice after I address it a third time I disappear. Your not gonna learn.

Breh, I swear I needed to read this! I was supposed to visit this youngin while she's on business.
Copped the tickets & she gets sick while over there. Since she's gonna be over there for a min, I tell her I'm THINKING about rescheduling & she went through the roof! All of our arguments have come from me either saying, "i'm thinking about..." or "I might..."

After this last time, I had to peace her out, so now I'm chillin in this regal a*s hotel, eating like a king & about to see what these clubs are bout.

 

[cocoabutter27]

that's really the only solution for brehs. i'm sure the guys here who say 'just deal with it' had a rolodex full of hoes anyytime this happened to them.

if you are just talking to one chick and she managed to reel you in and you start to think you have a relationship in your hands, and she just poofs ... I don't know about you brehs, but the thoughts that were going through my head ...



just copy and paste texts and spam your hoes. one of em is gonna have to bite

But when women do this.....they get called all types of names. And what is wrong about being single? Why are people always trying to make sure they have someone on deck? Reeks of insecurity, both men and women.

 

[iBrowse]

a lot of people in this generation gonna die alone

 

[iBrowse]

business days

So you give them more leeway on holidays I'm assuming ?

 

[Gold]

I thought this was a thread about mechanical keyboards


But yeah, too much work just to avoid someone. Online interactions make people act cowardly, this is facts.

 

[audemarzz]

I just miss realness, I had one chick be upfront about not being interested it was a breath of fresh air . . .I had to compliment her because I hadn't seen a real woman in so long it felt like finding a unicorn in the safari We both joked a bit and kept it moving she didn't take my number and go thru the "girl look at this thirsty nikka" I didn't get hers and stunt to my homies "ay bruh look at this bytch hitting a nikka" This was the kind of black woman I could respect she was mature about it didn't get petty we even walked away both laughing, but you other bytches .. .ya'll need jesus

 

[ExodusNirvana]

The suicide rate for this generation once they hit 40 and up is going to be

Is this the solution to the social security issue that will be coming

 

[ORDER_66]

There's alot of Flaky bytches out here.... Partially why I dont date anymore in these days.... if it's one thing i hate is a bytch who's a flake who aint about her word.