Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[HopeKillCure]

You're so dramatic I can tell it has happened to you before a few times.

Idk about males, but most women who "ghost" do it bc the guy cheated on them. Both males and women do it to girls/guys they don't care for much or was just casual sex partners with and don't really owe an explanation to. It is simply just cutting off contact with someone without an explanation to the person. It has been happening for years, the only thing new is the slang/trendy name for it.

Not a few times, because I like a romantic relationship or being alone. If we don't have some hardcore love story going, then I'd rather be single and not in the dating pool. I did date a few people this summer, coming off a relationship, and those were civil. When we went our ways it was through conversation, no arguing just a lot of agreement.

The only situation that was a legit ghost was a girl who went out with me, thought we had a good time, she jumped me for sex 1st night, then had me leaving her spot like a thot in the night. We talked next day, and she said she didn't want a long relationship, but wanted us to continue "hanging out", that went on for a couple more times, then *poof* we haven't texted or talked in about 2 months, Which is good timing since I'm back in a relationship.

I'd hate to seriously be in the dating pool looking for a wife right now in this generation and this toxic play or be played atmosphere

 

[YaBishh]

I ghost

The older i get the more selfish and self centered i become

I figured out i dont owe a a girl im casually dating anything. If we don't have a committed relationship then she is always in danger of getting the

I dont owe closure or even a text. If i give it then take it. If not then k.i.m

I dont feel obligated to explain anything. Now if we progress past a casual stage then i will adapt.

post them L's u been taking cuzin

 

[the bossman]

Breh, I swear I needed to read this! I was supposed to visit this youngin while she's on business.
Copped the tickets & she gets sick while over there. Since she's gonna be over there for a min, I tell her I'm THINKING about rescheduling & she went through the roof! All of our arguments have come from me either saying, "i'm thinking about..." or "I might..."

After this last time, I had to peace her out, so now I'm chillin in this regal a*s hotel, eating like a king & about to see what these clubs are bout.

But when women do this.....they get called all types of names.

only immature dudes would shame a woman for having multiple brehs she dealing with. It's actually expected nowadays especially if she looks decent. But women will naturally cancel out all other dudes they're dealing with when they come across one guy they really want.

And what is wrong about being single? Why are people always trying to make sure they have someone on deck? Reeks of insecurity, both men and women.

so just cause you're single you shouldn't date or have fun with the opposite sex? don't you ever get horny?

 

[LoMax30]

I'd hate to seriously be in the dating pool looking for a wife right now in this generation and this toxic play or be played atmosphere

Yea, dating right now and amongst this current generation is for the birdsI be torn because I'm human so of course I like companionship/buns. On the flip the whole process of meeting someone and trying to feel them out to see if they're even worth a damn is getting annoying Most of the time now I'd rather just mind my business and keep to myself

 

[Deathstroke]

People have thier phone on them 24/7 no reason why in a span of 24 hours I can't get a text or call. "I was busy" is bullshyt

Idk breh. I used to think that with some chick that would forget shyt and respond 2 days later. She's legit bad at texting according to what her friends told me. I kept it cool cause her replies had at least a lot of content and were pretty fun. Couple months later now she's my girlfriend.

She still fukkin suck at texting though.I gotta snapchat her when I want a quick reply.

 

[folasade]

Aren't men known for dong this for decades now? They'd get romantically involved with a woman and once they'd have sex they would disappear?

 

[Regine Hunter]

Guess it's over for me then.
Before all this even started too

 

[ORDER_66]

Aren't men known for dong this for decades now? They'd get romantically involved with a woman and once they'd have sex they would disappear?

I'd rather have a chick who let me pipe then a chick who just use me to pay for her fukking meal or be a fukking Flake when we made a date... and the bytch doesnt even show up... Inconsiderate bytches...

 

[HideoKojima]

You got some serious problems with yourself if you cant simply say "Yeah, I dont think things are going to work out. you're a great person but we just dont click" instead of fukking people feelings up by dropping out of nowhere making it seem like theyre a horrible person.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I got it done to me once.
My first love...
After months of dating heavy and raw-dogging everywhere we went, she just up and disappeared.
Didn't hear from her for 2 months straight.
Was heartbroken and suicidal those 2 months.
Then...out of the blue...I get a call from a connecticut number I never seen before.
IT WAS HER!!
Turns out her family abducted her from manhattan to connecticut because they didn't want her with me. They had some other guy they wanted her to marry and apparently I was in the way. She loved me and refused to marry him but she was being held hostage in connecticut pretty much and had to call me from a payphone once she convinced her family she could be trusted to go out of the house.

fukked up shyt.
These foreigners have some fukked up tradidtions.
Needless to say, she was the first and LAST foreigner I ever dated/sexed/went out with.

 

[ORDER_66]

I got it done to me once.
My first love...
After months of dating heavy and raw-dogging everywhere we went, she just up and disappeared.
Didn't hear from her for 2 months straight.
Was heartbroken and suicidal those 2 months.
Then...out of the blue...I get a call from a connecticut number I never seen before.
IT WAS HER!!
Turns out her family abducted her from manhattan to connecticut because they didn't want her with me. They had some other guy they wanted her to marry and apparently I was in the way. She loved me and refused to marry him but she was being held hostage in connecticut pretty much and had to call me from a payphone once she convinced her family she could be trusted to go out of the house.

fukked up shyt.
These foreigners have some fukked up tradidtions.
Needless to say, she was the first and LAST foreigner I ever dated/sexed/went out with.

What in Thee fukk?!!?

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

YOU nikkaS IS SAVAGES.

 

[Bless't]

That Paak album nice?

Going to listen to it this weekend.

 

[iBrowse]

That Paak album nice?

Going to listen to it this weekend.

Very much so

 

[Bless't]

Very much so