Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

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The real reason is because traditional dating and monogamous relationships are dead now. Women will date a man but secretly keep an eye out for the next best thing because women have an unlimited number of options compared to before thanks to social media.

Women have no incentive to commit to one guy for a long period of time because she believes her Mr. Perfect is just one DM away. At best the modern day woman just uses men for attention and entertainment until the next best thing shows up and then will self sabotage the relationship and she's out.

Men have started to peep game and realize that the juice isnt worth the squeeze and we just get what we want and we good. Men just see dating and women as a waste of time and money in 2019 and we adapted to the times.

It is what it is :yeshrug:

its true all of it. As well to add to what you wrote chicks nowadays can always get the high the honeymoon period or just he cavorting period, they don't hvae to deal with the low because just aroud the corner is someone new

even whwen i was dabbling in old and i was recently like i'd chat up with a chick even meet but then id come across a hotter girl with bigger boobs, a bigger ass, younger and rinse and repeat and even when I could have taken things further with a chick id back off because I enjoyed the taste testing so to speak

its a tough generation we are in brehs
 

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Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.

Bingo!
 

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Hell even my mentor sent me this . If this is going with white people with dating and marriage then you can just imagine what is truly going between black men and black women

The future of men and marriage is bleak

Most underrated post on the thread. If cacs men arent wifing up cac women then you know its a problem. Its been said by cacs that if you want a future prediction of what the game is gonna look like, look at the relations between black men and black women and they're right. When it comes to being "woke", we were the first to catch on to the bullshyt. Thats why black women have been the least married for DECADES and its even worse today.

Keep cooking breh. All imma say to expound on your comment is that in the next few years, I think black women will lead the charts in terms of mentally ill. Especially when this IG generation of chicks get to about 33-37. Just watch.
 

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Your first mistake is going out to find them. I'm lazy, so ain't going nowhere:mjlol: Secondly if they all act the same, dress the same, etc. That just makes your decision easy:manny:

Me personally I don't care. Too busy trying to get money, buy cars, and travel. shyt, I might find me an African woman:mjgrin:


Ghana:wow:


Learning to speak twi right now:mjgrin:
 

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The price of puzzy seems to be rising if you pay attention to Thot Hop

But

For the average Breh with average females in his orbit, the price of puzzy has plummeted

At one point in history

THEORETICALLY

you had to marry a chick before she would spread. At least you had to court, play the role, meet the parents, and if you got her pregnant... your ass was getting hitched

Again, IDEALLY or whatever but it was nothing like now.

Now

You can fukc her in... even if she's conservative with the puzzy ... a few weeks? At the OUTSIDE. A lot of times a few dates is enough even among the slower -to spread - females.

I stopped counting long ago, but I'm at around 100 sex partners over around 30 years of sex life.

I only cuffed a handful for any amount of time. I only fukced a minority of them more than 2x.

So that means most of them were a one, two shot kinda deal.

That's cause women are giving away puzzy like never before. Wellllll I did most of my damage prior to 2002, so maybe the 90s was different... but I went hunting in the early 2010s for a couple years and I found another dozen that was wit it.

So that's it. The price of puzzy has tanked.
 

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I'll read the rest of the thread later but OP was going for shock value.:gucci:
Men want relationships.
I'm not joking. We do.:mjgrin:
The God's honest truth is that most women think they're relationship material and they're just not.:comeon:
Doesn't mean that they're bad people, but their mentality and personal traits are not conducive to a successful long term relationship.:unimpressed:
So in order to get laid on a consistent basis, we have to deal with women who don't have the qualities that make us want to commit.:steviej:
If we only fukked women we wanted to commit to, we'd be dry as hell.
Either you're an asset or a liability.
We don't want liabilities.:hubie:

TL;DR: Chicks think they're Clair Huxtable (wifey status), when they're really Nene Leakes (bird). So we fukk until we find.:ehh:
 

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it is what it is... :manny: When I was out there young and looking for a female to settle down with I got rejected left and right, and even in a relationship, the female sabotaged that shyt constantly...

If I could fukk a chick and get what I want now, why would I settle down, why would any man settle down... these females out here fukking jojo on the block he aint gotta work for it or nothing, so why we gotta follow the same rules... fukk you...:stopitslime: Y'all fukked up the game, we just adapting to it...

If the females REALLY want a serious relationship then find the right dudes who WANT a relationship... don't play any thot games about it. :dahell:
 

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Damn the dating game seem pretty cut throat in 2019. A lot different than just 5 or 6 years ago. I think when I am ready to start dating again I'll just get me a foreign women. Based on what I've seen it seems like both men and women nowadays are jaded and have unrealistic expectations.
 
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Most underrated post on the thread. If cacs men arent wifing up cac women then you know its a problem. Its been said by cacs that if you want a future prediction of what the game is gonna look like, look at the relations between black men and black women and they're right. When it comes to being "woke", we were the first to catch on to the bullshyt. Thats why black women have been the least married for DECADES and its even worse today.

Keep cooking breh. All imma say to expound on your comment is that in the next few years, I think black women will lead the charts in terms of mentally ill. Especially when this IG generation of chicks get to about 33-37. Just watch.


...yeah I've been had a theory for awhile now that black men probably was the first red pill men. Way before it was en vouge to be. We have always had to deal with the harsh realities, so it's really no hiding anything from us.
 

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Alot people think they're bentleys but selling price at a Chrysler. Yung Souf nikkaz aint goin fa it. From da H to Nawf cop-a-sak
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Shoutouts to dem boyz up nawf
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West Coast I see yall
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Aint forget bout yall in da midwest
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HotBoyz up 3-1, wit a trip dub
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They have a movie playing in they heads that most men don't want to star in but keep trying to MAKE certain men fit that role . It always the guys who anit relationship material ...but women know this thoe upon dealing with the guy a couple of times.
Due to society changes women can afford to make shytty dating choices in their 20s.
Pop out a baby or 3 to different men and still get rewarded by finding someone to still wife her down the road.
 

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The game is fukked.

Women openly live their life in a way that makes any man that eventually cuffs them a fukkin sucker. lol @ being the boyfriend of the bytch with the booking info, the sugarbaby sucking fossilized dikk, the bytch sending nudes on snap etc

Nor do they live a lifestyle conducive to settling down. Like how did hoes convince yall that a thot treating men as disposable role players lying and fukking multiple dudes will just magically transform into betty homemaker if only you cowardly misogynists would give her a ring :mjlol:
 

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That was kinda harsh, breh. I mean we want women to suck dikk and fukk on the first date. What are you saying that like it's a bad thing? I blame judgemental clown like you when women feel like if they fukk us too quick we wont respect them. I wish all women would fukk on the first date. It's something that shoudl be celebrated. Not used to slut-shame

So true,

Then people get mad when relationships turn into nothing more than a hoe and trick relationship
 
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