Girl at my job asked me why so many men have zero interest in a relationship

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Personally I’m incredibly busy, and that really stymies my ability to develop a healthy relationship and give her the time/attention she needs.

That’s true for a lot of men, especially the ones working 10-12 hours a day or with multiple jobs.

Thankfully my girl is just as busy as I am, but when she wasn’t, it caused friction because she suddenly had more time than I did :yeshrug:

A lot of women are busy too, and they’re the ones you find whine a lot less about men not dating :ehh:
 
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The majority of the men in this thread would kill for a fulfilling relationship with a quality woman. Seems like most have experience with women who don’t bring anything to the table. I was always taught you attract what you allow :sas2:


And the fact still remains that women choose the men. I'm always for self improvement in fact I prefer a man get himself together before he open his mouth about women. I think what you see in this thread is just men figuring out way to survive in the jungle of courtship. The thing is most men have been on both sides of the coin.

Sad part is this men have grown accustomed to nobody hearing their side of the story or understanding their point of view. For that matter most understand that women don't care about out mental health as well ...society women included look at men like a beast of burden.
 

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Relationships only benefit women nowadays

All we get is consistent p*ssy (if she dont start losing attraction for you outta boredom :mjlol:)

They get unlimited validation
An emotional punching bag
A protector
A provider
Someone they can fullfill their need to argue with for no reason
All while still having their options open cause nikkas dont care if a bytch in a relationship
:preachbruh:Yup, it's the unnecessary baggage that benefits a woman while hindering a man that prevents us from wanting a relationship.

If being in a relationship, financially benefited me as a man, I'd love to settle down but I like my money and p*ssy is too easy to get.
 

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In a relationship now but when i was single it was because i was balancing closing a deal on a house and a tough semester at school on top of my job. Once things were less chaotic i was down to date again:janice:

We all got different reasons for not wanting a relationship. Cant do blanket statements for all men:yeshrug:
 

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She was telling me how she went on a date with a dude from an app, and he straight up told her he ain’t doing a relationship

She asked me why would he not want a relationship. She seemed genuinely confused

I told her

“Half of Y’all suck d*ck and f*ck on the first night. Why on earth would he need a relationship?”

She looked at me like I took a sh*t in the office coffee maker or something

Are y’all really confused? :dahell:



Your friend must not be fine because dudes are trying to cuff and simp fine women immediately :unimpressed:
 

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....yup cause the guy that's usually blowing her back out is a man that she know anit relationship material which why most women try to make the dude that IS relationship material jump threw hoops. I mean the guys who don't have incentive to change and be better men when it comes to women is because women anit put they foot down. Think about if what you doing is working and you dont have to put in as much as the guys who want relationships would change ? Most women aren't going to change until they in they 30s and by then it too late. Take it from a guy that been on both side of the coin .
Of course..women are allowed to be stubborn and not change. It's plenty of middle aged women out there who still act like petty ass teenagers that refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

Unlike men..we suffer if we don't break our bad habits..we deal with the consequences when we're lazy,no discipline, are terrible people.
 

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Truth is, women are attracted to unavailable men so her perception is skewed. The dudes that were looking for a relationship probably got ghosted because “she just wasn’t feeling it.” Women are emotional creatures and they want a love story to develop out of improbable circumstances so that they can reminisce on it later and feel special.
No lies told :unimpressed:
 

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tell her to tell her friends to stop dressing and giving out the pssy 5 times a day, then a man will know there is nothing better out there for him than her.

but nah her and her friends will be in yoga pants with no gym membership down the street to keep attracting NEW dikk not the same one, so its womens fault. imagine wifing a chick who got by opening her legs for sel;f-benefit talking about 30+ year olds.

fake pillow talk, i like this news if its true. men should keep shytting on these sluts so they can keep that behaviour discreet and behind close doors. tired of getting a semi everytime i want to buy some groceries.
 
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