I feel u, in other words I won....
Given up on your future, is one of the smartest things u can do
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HabitualLineSteppa
....Fuh Q.
I'm literally listening to Sway interview Amber Rose and she word for word just said, "...don't give af anymore and when I stopped giving af, that's when I was truly enlightened...". Not saying she's by any measure a source of encouragement in MY life, however, it's ironic that I'm reading this thread, listening to her, and waking up this morning having a sense that I've lost sight of the AWESOMENESS in fully living without a fukk to give if it aint righteous, productive, and fulfilling. Basic keys to life long happiness in my opinion.
Funny thing is, I came to a life altering conclusion when my mother died suddenly 5 years ago...My therapy was in detachment from what was always said to be considerate and kind and cordial and decent among others and in certain spaces/places. My moms was my go between in the physical form between "playing the game" and being your YOU and living YOU out to the fullest (within law abiding, self-defined, and well informed reason) and being unapologetic for doing so.
I lost sight when my son was born 2 years ago...I felt that I had to somehow revert to certain ideologies behaviors (materialism, having considerations for otherwise menial people, going along to get along ect.) simply because I have a kid and lady. I'm raising my kid the same way I would if I didn't revert so why make ME unhappy to do it? My lady got with me cause of how well I balanced not giving energy to flat out stupid and ultimately worthless people, contrived dialogue, and things. I ain't hurtin' or harmin' me, my family, or others with my actions, so why try to conform to what the world tells you is a success or a failure or is "acceptable". Only YOU can define that for your life. "Not giving a fukk" means, to me, not giving up on YOUR ACTUAL YOU because something exists to the contrary or someone says, "nah, THIS is what you should be doing/saying/acting" and not giving IN to anything or anyone that is not satisfactory or conducive to your happiness.
I'ma rep you OP when it comes back cause I know you've gotten some varying opinions but on this one, I co-sign the point of the thread..
Funny thing is, I came to a life altering conclusion when my mother died suddenly 5 years ago...My therapy was in detachment from what was always said to be considerate and kind and cordial and decent among others and in certain spaces/places. My moms was my go between in the physical form between "playing the game" and being your YOU and living YOU out to the fullest (within law abiding, self-defined, and well informed reason) and being unapologetic for doing so.
I lost sight when my son was born 2 years ago...I felt that I had to somehow revert to certain ideologies behaviors (materialism, having considerations for otherwise menial people, going along to get along ect.) simply because I have a kid and lady. I'm raising my kid the same way I would if I didn't revert so why make ME unhappy to do it? My lady got with me cause of how well I balanced not giving energy to flat out stupid and ultimately worthless people, contrived dialogue, and things. I ain't hurtin' or harmin' me, my family, or others with my actions, so why try to conform to what the world tells you is a success or a failure or is "acceptable". Only YOU can define that for your life. "Not giving a fukk" means, to me, not giving up on YOUR ACTUAL YOU because something exists to the contrary or someone says, "nah, THIS is what you should be doing/saying/acting" and not giving IN to anything or anyone that is not satisfactory or conducive to your happiness.
I'ma rep you OP when it comes back cause I know you've gotten some varying opinions but on this one, I co-sign the point of the thread..
BTW OP, read or listen to this book called "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I think this philosophy lines up with your current life approach in someways.
CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
i've never spoken to him, just keep seeing all these threads that are all over the place. seems bipolar to be honest.
A better way to word it would be that you surrendered, gave yourself fully to the moment.
life is a journey, so why follow arbitrary rules? chase arbitrary success? what is success really?
life is all about defining what makes u content....
CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
bro, i know it seems like i'm clowning you, but i'm not. if you are serious, then you need to change your mindset. a loser is what you've shown in your original post from what i've read. 'oh, the world is hard, people don't like me, people are racist, circumstances are standing in my way. IT'S BEST TO JUST GIVE UP.' No mufukka, it's best to die if that's how you feel. If you honestly feel that you can't find a single reason for existing and cannot summon the will to go after that reason, knowing full-well that you will suffer and fail along the way, then it is best for you not to exist. You will just live a bitter and unfulfilling life. That is a loser imo. Losing is not failing because everyone fails. A loser is someone who makes up his mind to be a loser. He internalizes failure and so he becomes one. It seems also like you want to just 'take whatever comes' or whatever, which is the same as what i said above. You must reflect, you must plan, and then you must execute. This is how you become a success, not by accident. And this is what a winner does. If you disagree with me, then that's cool, ,just ignore my comment. Don't type up a rebuttal because this is the truth and there is no changing it. You must rise or fall to your level, and be content with what you have. If you want to be somewhere or want to have something and you're unwilling to work for it bc you fear failing, then you're unworthy of being called a man.
edit: you did say some good things about not being tied to material possessions and trying to put life into perspective, but society doesn't work by everyone just 'doing their own thing.'
Rollo Goodlove
Palestine Titty
An og once said respect the game and the game will respect you back.
Rollo Goodlove
Palestine Titty
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
I get it
But accept it if you plan to live a lonely, lowly life
To each their own
It's natural to always want more and lying to yourself about not wanting more seems dangerous
One day you're gonna wake up sad, depressed more so and shoot up a mall or some shyt
Hope you smoke weed man
It has a numbing affect
But accept it if you plan to live a lonely, lowly life
To each their own
It's natural to always want more and lying to yourself about not wanting more seems dangerous
One day you're gonna wake up sad, depressed more so and shoot up a mall or some shyt
Hope you smoke weed man
It has a numbing affect
Bay Area
Raiders/Warriors/A's
Please dont advise an ambitionless man to smoke weed.
ndthentherewasx
El Capitan
It'll be only thing that can keep him from hurting himself or others.
His outlook on shyt will burn him when he's old and alone
yardman
Afro-pessimist
Go take a vacation before you commit that. Pick up a new hobby. 
If you give up after fukking some times you need to re strategize. Money is screaming out here to be made. Shut the fukk up and handle your business.
Complaining is very vaginal. Especially about something that is fixable.
If you give up after fukking some times you need to re strategize. Money is screaming out here to be made. Shut the fukk up and handle your business.
Complaining is very vaginal. Especially about something that is fixable.