#GMB: Bride tells Pastor FOH during vows (EDIT: PT 2 :wow:)

[Ohnoits]

Meh, It's 2023, that shyt ain't flying. Ya'll nikkas really think ya'll wife should obey your orders huh.

A lot of officiants ask permission now in advance if you want it in your wedding vows or will flat let you know they don't do it. I find it weird this was in.

 

[Apprentice]

Normally you discuss with the officiant what vows you want to omit prior to the ceremony. The "obey" vow is antiquated and is not used by most. The officiant was out of line to include this if it was not cleared by bride and groom in advance. For my wedding, they let me know up front that they would not include it (they had a personal view against it and I had no problem with it). It's strange that they would go there without prior authorization in advance or if both parties did not discuss it earlier--would not have chosen the officiant. "Obey" has been getting taken out since the '60s in a lot of places.

It was cleared, and he clearly acknowledged it too, don’t do that why would the pastor lie in the congregation when both the wife and the husband can call it out?

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I'm not one to support feminists but that line is outdated. Let's be honest, the modern family dynamic is not based around A man being the sole bread winner with a meek housewife. Just accept that times have changed. They should have got their vows on point before the ceremony though.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Breh should’ve called the wedding off right there

 

[JoelB]

This wasnt the first red flag he saw, but he chose to wife her anyway. Foolish decision but I wish breh the best.

 

[Apprentice]

I'm not one to support feminists but that line is outdated. Let's be honest, the modern family dynamic is not based around A man being the sole bread winner with a meek housewife. Just accept that times have changed. They should have got their vows on point before the ceremony though.

Bro obeying your husband isn’t just about financial disparity

She’ll obey him if an intruder enters the crib and he tells her to hide in the closet while he go see wassup

We gotta stop tryna sugarcoat shyt to protect these women feelings, if obey sounds like an insult to your lady she ain’t a Christian woman like she portraying

They ain’t need a pastor to do them vows, she shoulda got the bytch who wrote Pound Town to do em

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Bro obeying your husband isn’t just about financial disparity

She’ll obey him if an intruder enters the crib and he tells her to hide in the closet while he go see wassup

We gotta stop tryna sugarcoat shyt to protect these women feelings, if obey sounds like an insult to your lady she ain’t a Christian woman like she portraying

They ain’t need a pastor to do them vows, she shoulda got the bytch who wrote Pound Town to do em

Obey is a strong word. I'm not sugar coating shyt. I'm telling you the reality. That's not the dynamic today. Anything a man says goes type shyt is not reality, it was when at one point in society. We should stand by each other. Obedience goes without question, it is blind. No intelligent human being has blind allegiance to anyone. It's just outdated in concept. Again I'm no feminist but I can be honest about that.

 

[Apprentice]

Obey is a strong word. I'm not sugar coating shyt. I'm telling you the reality. That's not the dynamic today. Anything a man says goes type shyt is not reality, it was when at one point in society. We should stand by each other. Obedience goes without question, it is blind. No intelligent human being has blind allegiance to anyone. It's just outdated in concept. Again I'm no feminist but I can be honest about that.

Ard bet, intruder pull up, tell her it’s Everyman for themselves

Lol this feminist western shyt done gone too far

How u wanna spend your life wit a man but u don’t trust his decision making

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Ard bet, intruder pull up, tell her it’s Everyman for themselves

Lol this feminist western shyt done gone too far

How u wanna spend your life wit a man but u don’t trust his decision making

Again I'm no feminist for the third time but you have to accept certain past concepts are outdated. Or you become outdated yourself. As others have pointed out that part of vows is not even commonly included anymore.

Your analogy is just ridiculous. Who said it was ever man for themselves? I can't have conversations with people who need to use hyperbole or embellish to make a point. Doesn't mean she can't take your lead. Obedience means no questions just follow. I don't need no one that doesn't question me when I'm wrong in my life. If you can't understand that then you haven't learned to curb your ego. You won't always be right just because you are a man. A good partner will most surely check you when you error. Not just follow you right and wrong.

 

[Elim Garak]

Dude that's a sign not to get married.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

lol at having to use scare tactics just to get your spouse to stroke your ego .... so romantic

"well if someone tries to kill you i'm going to handle it"

"ok fine i'll do whatever you want"

yall sound crazy insecure rn but enjoy yall monday

 

[Apprentice]

Again I'm no feminist for the third time but you have to accept certain past concepts are outdated. Or you become outdated yourself. As others have pointed out that part of vows is not even commonly included anymore.

Your analogy is just ridiculous. Who said it was ever man for themselves? I can't have conversations with people who need to use hyperbole or embellish to make a point. Doesn't mean she can't take your lead. Obedience means no questions just follow. I don't need no one that doesn't question me when I'm wrong in my life. If you can't understand that then you haven't learned to curb your ego. You won't always be right just because you are a man. A good partner will most surely check you when you error. Not just follow you right and wrong.

Breh u caping for these hoes a concession and refutation claiming u not don’t mean u not.

Obedience has nothing to do with blind following, that’s a definition u made in order to cape family

o·bey
/əˈbā/

verb
comply with the command, direction, or request of (a person or a law); submit to the authority of.
"I always obey my father”



Many relationships still have this dynamic, and it’s also a Christian principle. If these women claim they kno God then why is this such a hard thing to agree with?

 

[Apprentice]

lol at having to use scare tactics just to get your spouse to stroke your ego .... so romantic

"well if someone tries to kill you i'm going to handle it"

"ok fine i'll do whatever you want"

yall sound crazy insecure rn but enjoy yall monday

Dont start your logical fallacies, that’s a strawman, who said that we gotta tell her that?

She say a Christian woman right? She should inherently kno that

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Dont start your logical fallacies, that’s a strawman, who said that we gotta tell her that?

She say a Christian woman right? She should inherently kno that

if she is a righteous woman she would be getting the strap as needed as well
yall cant scare the p*ssy out of women no more with illogical hypotheticals bro, its 2023 where most of yall scary ass dont even open your front door to strangers

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/do-you-open-the-door-when-strangers-ring-your-door-bell.987248/

yall cry about women being logical then rely on shyt like 1 in a million chances to make relationship demands

 

[Serious]

lol at having to use scare tactics just to get your spouse to stroke your ego .... so romantic

"well if someone tries to kill you i'm going to handle it"

"ok fine i'll do whatever you want"

yall sound crazy insecure rn but enjoy yall monday

how did i know you'd be in here talking smack