#GMB: Bride tells Pastor FOH during vows (EDIT: PT 2 :wow:)

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

U married? Got kids?

Respectfully it's your thread but I have nothing to communicate with you further. We don't agree and you can't have a grounded conversation.

 

[Apprentice]

Respectfully it's your thread but I have nothing to communicate with you further. We don't agree and you can't have a grounded conversation.

Lmaoooo I rest my case

 

[HARLEM AL]

I mean it's the coli. A dude can't have one divergent view point without being labeled. I'm not here for group think. Obedience is a very strong word and needs to be omitted. I agreed with the girl. Call me whatever you will.

It's ok if brehs don't agree on everything but the be a feminist I'd have to have consistent feminist views. This ain't it. Dudes on this forum have no middle ground. Nobody said marriage was a game. Nobody said anything you inferring about women having no responsibilities.... I'm a major outspoken proponent of women carrying their weight in modern marriage not the man doing everything. My point was pretty clear about a vow that's it. No room for confusion. Lol at feelings having no place in marriage.



The perfect woman for a coli bro is someone that doesn't exist and most dudes here have little to no experience with women but all these opinions. So be it.

I very much doubt this.

Most dudes dont have experience with women period. Not just on here. You aint saying shyt. nikkas want the same thing. Men havent changed, they want the same shyt. You just one of these nikkas that are female Identified. Which is cool, it is what it is.

Most nikkas just want a woman thats going to love them. shyt black men are the most liberal when it comes the relationships. Our mommas and grandmothers taught us how to cook and clean. shyt ill go out on a limb and say we are the most domesticated . Funny shyt is a white feminist idea of a man is a black man.......

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I very much doubt this.

Most dudes dont have experience with women period. Not just on here. You aint saying shyt. nikkas want the same thing. Men havent changed, they want the same shyt. You just one of these nikkas that are female Identified. Which is cool, it is what it is.

Most nikkas just want a woman thats going to love them. shyt black men are the most liberal when it comes the relationships. Our mommas and grandmothers taught us how to cook and clean. shyt ill go out on a limb and say we are the most domesticated . Funny shyt is a white ideal of a man is a black man.......

Nothing to doubt. Year after year people have reported on here not even having had sex in years let alone a relationship. But always have strong views about women. So a lot of men here don't even speak from experience. Take from that what you will

 

[Apprentice]

Nothing to doubt. Year after year people have reported on here not even having had sex in years let alone a relationship. But always have strong views about women. So a lot of men her don't even speak from experience. Take from that what you will

Well u ain’t talkin to one of em, nikkas gotta prove they get p*ssy or sumn?

Stop acting like nikkas don’t settle for disrespect because they kno in their heart of hearts they can’t handle a woman.

Whether u believe in them vows or not this woman was combative wit the pastor at the wedding in front of everyone over sumthin discussed prior

No man with a respectable self esteem is standing for that regardless of what y’all sayin to cape for this

 

[baltimore]

Those vows are ancient they need to be updated at some point. That's my point. Nothing else about hypernated names and all that. I've been to several wedding in my time and I haven't heard obey used in vows once in my era. People been editing their vows for a while now ..if they had an agreement then the pastor should have honored it

who are you following for customs? who breaks the tie? Acting like it should take financial dominance to lead a woman when its not necessary. Gotta get the woman who wants to be up under and trusts you not making concessions to women who doesn't buy into your path. But I see your examples are guys that I haven't had sex or relationships in years so I see why your advice is to allow women one foot in and one foot out of the marriage.

You not for the group think but all your reasoning in this thread is 'everyone else is doing it!' 'this is your new reality' whole time you out here preaching for change away from the status quo.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Nothing to doubt. Year after year people have reported on here not even having had sex in years let alone a relationship. But always have strong views about women. So a lot of men her don't even speak from experience. Take from that what you will

I’ve not been without p*ssy for more than a month since losing my virginity and I have live in p*ssy and I’m telling you right now that what you’re saying is disinformation. Your view of relationships will not last.

If you or anyone truly understood women, you would know they talk a lot of things but they can’t hide the way they move.

No heterosexual woman wants an indecisive man that can’t take the lead in the vast majority of things. I’m talking 95%. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

No heterosexual woman wants a man that earns less than her. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

No heterosexual woman wants a man that will not put her in her place when she’s out of line. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

You can’t treat a woman as your equal because they deep down know that they’re not. That doesn’t mean to disrespect them or abuse them. It means they are meant to be lead, by us. They are literally biologically programmed to follow a strong man.

You think what the last 40 - 50 years of feminist programming is going to upend millions of evolutionary traits? Keep dreaming.

 

[Marco Zen]

It’s not even about being obedient. It’s the attitude. She said that with her chest in front of everyone. I would’ve ate some wedding cake, Cupid shuffled, then canceled the marriage.

I wouldn't go that far to cancel the bytch, however she was being extra and she knows it. Any grown up withhalf a brain knows the wife acknowledges the husband's leadership in their marriage. That vow "to obey" is just a play on words that translate "acknowledge his leadership"...

Her being all "I don't think so" like one poster said might be a bad sign. If she's willing to blatantly let everyone know at the WEDDING her man is not her leader, might be a problem going forward for the breh

 

[HARLEM AL]

I’ve not been without p*ssy for more than a month since losing my virginity and I have live in p*ssy and I’m telling you right now that what you’re saying is disinformation. Your view of relationships will not last.

If you or anyone truly understood women, you would know they talk a lot of things but they can’t hide the way they move.

No heterosexual woman wants an indecisive man that can’t take the lead in the vast majority of things. I’m talking 95%. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

No heterosexual woman wants a man that earns less than her. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

No heterosexual woman wants a man that will not put her in her place when she’s out of line. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

You can’t treat a woman as your equal because they deep down know that they’re not. That doesn’t mean to disrespect them or abuse them. It means they are meant to be lead, by us. They are literally biologically programmed to follow a strong man.

You think what the last 40 - 50 years of feminist programming is going to upend millions of evolutionary traits? Keep dreaming.

Your Post is spot on but the BOLDED is fukkin Facts!!! This is exactly why is said Men want the same shyt. And will continue to want the same shyt.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

There's some brehs in here who I really used to respect talking like hoes.

"Expecting a woman to obey a man is outdated "


Y'all negroes and cacs are insane. Who's going to lead the household if she feel like she's a co-leader?

And I'm not saying you treat your wife like a slave. But I'm saying that when decisions need to be made, Imma get her input on it; but the final choice rests in my hands.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Sauce Money the rapper?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

A lot of officiants ask permission now in advance if you want it in your wedding vows or will flat let you know they don't do it. I find it weird this was in.

I know this got to be a woman with these dumb takes.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I’ve not been without p*ssy for more than a month since losing my virginity and I have live in p*ssy and I’m telling you right now that what you’re saying is disinformation. Your view of relationships will not last.

If you or anyone truly understood women, you would know they talk a lot of things but they can’t hide the way they move.

No heterosexual woman wants an indecisive man that can’t take the lead in the vast majority of things. I’m talking 95%. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

No heterosexual woman wants a man that earns less than her. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

No heterosexual woman wants a man that will not put her in her place when she’s out of line. Otherwise she will resent him and disrespect him.

You can’t treat a woman as your equal because they deep down know that they’re not. That doesn’t mean to disrespect them or abuse them. It means they are meant to be lead, by us. They are literally biologically programmed to follow a strong man.

You think what the last 40 - 50 years of feminist programming is going to upend millions of evolutionary traits? Keep dreaming.

You can be a leader without having a spouse that acts like a servant. I need respect not obedience personally. I'm not agreeing with you dudes at all. Let's leave it at that. I need a woman that see my vision not follow me without question. That dynamic is for fragile egos in my opinion. A lot of men have women who have nurtured their careers and given them direction in life but we don't speak on that while pigeon holing what a wife should be. No one dynamic works for everyone. Not every man is a born leader. It's a lot of people here consulting in their partnerships.

 

[Digital Omen]

Meh, It's 2023, that shyt ain't flying. Ya'll nikkas really think ya'll wife should obey your orders huh.

It's part of the vows breh u supposed to review that shyt before hand and mutually agree what your vows will be
MFs getting married with google vows

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

There's some brehs in here who I really used to respect talking like hoes.

"Expecting a woman to obey a man is outdated "


Y'all negroes and cacs are insane. Who's going to lead the household if she feel like she's a co-leader?

And I'm not saying you treat your wife like a slave. But I'm saying that when decisions need to be made, Imma get her input on it; but the final choice rests in my hands.

Just say my name. I don't care how you feel about me on an anonymous forum brother. I will always be honest about my viewpoints. It's normal for people to not agree on everything. Its not normal for you to turn hostile over one point of contention. Yes obedience is not the word to use in vows today. Outdated.

Let me talk my hoe shyt then. What I'll never do is be scared to be honest over posters not liking me. That's just dumb.