#GMB : Cameroonian-American kills his WIFE after she cheated on him with an OYINBO and divorced him

[Turbulent]

Those laws already exist, he had a shyt lawyer. I can’t imagine that scenario because I’m not a man. I understand the scenarios where the older wife who payed for her husband to attended law school was divorced for a younger woman once he became wealthy. If I was in that situation, I would not kill him. People like that are horrible but the minute but the minute you pull the trigger, you became far worse.

He will never see his fukking kids now because his dead and she is too. Now the only memory of their father will be that he was a murderer not that he worked hard to pull himself together if their mom left him for a White man. Material possessions aren’t worth more than your life, legacy, and the wellbeing of your kids.

No one is saying he did the right thing. Not even that many people sympathizing with him. But there's a difference between sympathizing and just understanding what he felt.

I could imagine getting in America, grinding for YEARS (maybe getting bad wages,maybe breaking my back), white supervisor talking shyt every day, saving every penny to get my wife here. Have kids with her then watch her cheat, use the kids as hostages in divorce proceedings, have the next man sleeping in the bed i paid for, under the roof i paid for, fukking the p*ssy attached to the woman I sacrificed so much to get to America. Mix in alchohol, court proceedings, bytch ass judges not giving a fukk. Plus men are less social so they typically have less people to listen to them. Plus getting another girl when you are broke and thinking negatively is hard, not like he could fukk any girl.

I wrote all this and I know it might not have been as bad but that's probably the scenario in his head and he kept playing it over and over. Having said all that. I'm pretty sure i wouldn't get to that point, i disagree with what he did... BUT, i could see how a weaker mind could fukk everything up....

 

[generic-username]

That’s YOUR experience.



The entire thread is calling a colonised people c00ns & bedwenches but my calling the men possessive is what triggered you?

At least you got your priorities in gear

Are you African?

 

[generic-username]

I'm not cosigning it but you're wrong. It's culturally accepted in some of these other countries to stone women or men to death who commit adulteress acts.

Africans, Middle Easterns.

They see it as bringing great shame or dishonor to their household.

But I get what you're saying. You have simps here in the states who snap and do the same thing.

That is more of a religion (Islamic) thing.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Adultery is wrong but I’m really disturbed how supportive Coli is of beating/killing female partners for cheating.

They were divorced, he had no right to kill her. He could have just moved on.

Edit: I just read the article. What the fukk is this? You all dive deep for bullshyt.

you are a woman. you are surprised men are tired of being used as come up schemes?

I'm telling you right now I'll burn my own house down before i give it up in a divorce.

he could have just moved on without his wealth or assets or life?

delusional.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

yes.. she used him like a stepping stone. he lost everything and was supposed to be the one suffering while she profited from adultery

couldn't be me #GMB

be outraged.

Yall cats can't be serious sympathizing with that psycho ass dude. Look it's messed up she cheated and left him after he brought her to the states and built a life with her. But killing the woman and leaving their children with no parents is way more fukked up.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

@MischievousMonkey this explains why you took offence.

My interpretation of someone’s nature is what comes naturally to them.

I don’t have the power to rob ANYONE of their agency or their ability to change.

You’re triggered because you assumed I had a low opinion of Africans which in itself is understandable considering the pie charts, lists and insults throughout this thread.

I agree that values vary from country to country and tribe to tribe and I should’ve specified in my original post.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Man, imagine me making a thread saying I completely understand Betty Broderick murdering her ex-husband and his new wife.
You’d say I was a psycho bytch that hates men.

The language of your post shows that you think it’s justified. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes is a racist Cac slogan. fukk off with that

if she built a life for her man and family and uplifted him from the bottom then he acted foul and took everything. yes I would ride with her.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

The reason for so called "wenching/c00ning" as put in this thread by Francophone countries is the policy of assimilation employed by the French in African countries.
The policy stated that Africans, through adoption of French values could ultimately turn to "Frenchmen" which is essentially a code for an oreo.Such people were the highest and respected in such societies.

Now, the British never had anything like that, we who were colonised by them were black africans and that was that, regardless of the level of education, English you spoke, your intellect etc. you were beneath them by default and could never be seen as an Englishman.

I once had a Togolese tell me proudly that French is the language of love, I told him it was the language of his colonisers, nothing more.

I'm lowkey avoiding shading my French Africans but on average they are the least woke to racism on the continent. I meet a lot of congolese in Canada and they LOVE france.

 

[Family Man]

All of this was unnecessary, ol boy should've just got another wife and moved on. If his best asset was a path to US citizenship he could have used that. Get a new cuter wife, a younger wife, a wife with better qualifications from the jump, a more mature wife that was better established in a well-paying field. There were many lanes that would've matched his speed to choose from. Matter of fact, with the internet he wouldn't have been limited to Cameroon, even though for giggles he could have searched for a new wife in his ex-wife's hometown. The new wife is coming to meet zero assets, so if they split and they divvy their assets in half, guess what happens?

He could've have done some serious slow soul burning and fukkery for decades on the gram posting all kinds of pics with his new bae and their glamourous life. But now he's dead and the children may end up in foster care with God knows who.

Why the fukk would he make that same mistake twice?

I can see how the nikka would murk her cause honestly I can't call what I would do if I was in shoes. Murder would probably pop into my head though I probably wouldn't go through it because I love my kids too much.
Imagine coming to this country as an immigrant, working your ass off and putting up with all types of shyt just to make a decent life for yourself and your woman. You bring her up here and put her through school and then she turns around and cheat on you, wipe you out financially, take the house, and get primary custody of the children. On top of that she's laid up with a fukking WHITE MAN in the crib you lost and have that CAC around your children. What planet is a bytch living on if she does some foul shyt like that and think there wouldn't be a chance that she'll end up stanking in a field somewhere?

You want to fukk around? Cool. But at least have the dignity and compassion to not wipe the poor b*stard out completely. This is a stupid game stupid prize situation. Consequences - repurcussions. That's one cold bytch. I can't even call that man a simp because he was providing for and looking out for the grimey bytch like society conditions men to do.
I feel sorry for the kids but that's about it.

 

[Thethirdpew]

I'm lowkey avoiding shading my French Africans but on average they are the least woke to racism on the continent. I meet a lot of congolese in Canada and they LOVE france.

In Congo they even have a term for mulatto called "metise" and its supposed to be a compliment .

 

[Thethirdpew]

Why the fukk would he make that same mistake twice?

I can see how the nikka would murk her cause honestly I can't call what I would do if I was in shoes. Murder would probably pop into my head though I probably wouldn't go through it because I love my kids too much.
Imagine coming to this country as an immigrant, working your ass off and putting up with all types of shyt just to make a decent life for yourself and your woman. You bring her up here and put her through school and then she turns around and cheat on you, wipe you out financially, take the house, and get primary custody of the children. On top of that she's laid up with a fukking WHITE MAN in the crib you lost and have that CAC around your children. What planet is a bytch living on if she does some foul shyt like that and think there wouldn't be a chance that she'll end up stanking in a field somewhere?

You want to fukk around? Cool. But at least have the dignity and compassion to not wipe the poor b*stard out completely. This is a stupid game stupid prize situation. That's one cold bytch.
I feel sorry for the kids but that's about it.

Exactly my point. It seems that @BrownBunny doesn't understand that the husband's life was over. A house is one of the biggest investments someone can make. The wife just took ol boy from middle class to barely getting by all becuase she got bored of him. Who cares if she cheated; at least let him have his property. What she did was theft ; she shouldn't be entitled to his property all because she was bored. All she had to do was divorce without taking his stuff.

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

I'm lowkey avoiding shading my French Africans but on average they are the least woke to racism on the continent. I meet a lot of congolese in Canada and they LOVE france.

Yeah, I don't judge black people too harshly considering I learnt the history of most of them at school. People downplay colonialism and even wonder why Africans are angry at certain slurs, not knowing that those stereotypes that are jokes to them were used by Europeans as an excuse to dehumanize and brutalize us, just as certain stereotypes were used to dehumanize and brutalize them and they do get angry, justifiably so, if Africans use them.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

He went out of his way for and invested in that?

Unattractive and unfaithful. Terrible.

 

[the bossman]

I'm cameroonian
This story made quite some noise here.
I've heard some testimony from friends of the guy saying he'd been on the edge for quite some time and that situation with his wife had covered him in ridicule in the community over there.
Also heard the wife's family state he didn't pay for her nursing school like that. That people exaggerated things they paid for her travel to the US...etc
So 2 sides to the story I guess
Anyways sad situation especially for the children...3 I believe
Hope they don't end up in Foster Care and some relative can take care of them in the US or elsewhere instead

I heard that they had already been married originally in Cameroon an he was just the first to come over to the states. Brought her and the first kid over few years after

 

[Family Man]

you are a woman. you are surprised men are tired of being used as come up schemes?

I'm telling you right now I'll burn my own house down before i give it up in a divorce.

he could have just moved on without his wealth or assets or life?

delusional.