#GMB : Cameroonian-American kills his WIFE after she cheated on him with an OYINBO and divorced him

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I'd say it's different here because most of us are not speaking from a place of irrational hate against women like white racists do with black people, looking for justifications of murder at all cost. People are saying the situation she put him through makes his folliwing actions a bit more understable, without condoning the qct of murder.

Breh, there is plenty of irrational hate of Black women on these forums and some of it is clearly making its way into this thread. People out-and-out spewing hate at the entire female populations of numerous African countries.
 

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I've heard of this too.

Top 10 African bedwenches by country (not in order):
1. Rwanda
2. Both Congos
3. Kenya
4. Ethiopia
5. Nigeria
6. Cameroon
7. Angola
8. Zambia
9. Senegal
10. IVC/CIV (However, I don't know about the dating habits of Ivorian women in the UK)

Breh you just labeled 60% of the women in Africa. :dead:
 
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:hubie: not going to do the whole disingenuous back and forth shyt.

People in this thread criticizing cultures and attitudes in the light of colonization, some bringing up good points on how it can affect black people mentally.

You out here jumping from the culture straight to people's genes talmbout "it's their nature" because of your bad experiences. If you can't see how that's fukked up and how that's racist talk, nothing I can do for you.

Nothing I said came from a place of malice and it wasn’t my intent to insult.

There are various degrees of possessiveness and if colonisation is the root of this why didn’t you enlighten me?

I’m not Miss Cleo.
 

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I've heard of this too.

Top 10 African bedwenches by country (not in order):
1. Rwanda
2. Both Congos
3. Kenya
4. Ethiopia
5. Nigeria
6. Cameroon
7. Angola
8. Zambia
9. Senegal
10. IVC/CIV (However, I don't know about the dating habits of Ivorian women in the UK)
Hehee, I don't think Kenyan women are "wenches" like that, they are just more responsive to foreigners if the opportunity arises, be it Nigerians, Americans etc even in their own country as a lot of the media we consume is from without. They also claim we are cheap, since Kenya is a no trick zone.
 

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:mjlol: This is nothing cultural, this is 1 man who snapped and killed his wife there are black american men who killed their wives.:unimpressed:


I'm not cosigning it but you're wrong. It's culturally accepted in some of these other countries to stone women or men to death who commit adulteress acts.

Africans, Middle Easterns.

They see it as bringing great shame or dishonor to their household.

But I get what you're saying. You have simps here in the states who snap and do the same thing.
 

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Nothing I said came from a place of malice and it wasn’t my intent to insult.

There are various degrees of possessiveness and if colonisation is the root of this why didn’t you enlighten me?

I’m not Miss Cleo.
I can't judge your intent; just assess the implications of your words. When you put an attitude or behavior on people's nature, you deprive them of their agency and their ability to change. It's set in their DNA, so nothing culture, education or personality can do about it. It's no different than saying that black people are inherently violent, lazy or "unintelligent". That's what I took issue with.

Colonization is not the root of every behavior that we perceive as African... Even if it obviously changed and turned upside down a lot of the cultures on the continent. But not only do the attitudes of men regarding women vary across the different African cultures to this day, we have recorded history that contradicts the "it's in their nature" narrative. Here's one piece:

This is really interesting and should put to rest the idea of Muslims having one monolithic tradition/culture, especially when it comes to Africans; because West African Muslims were more "Liberal" than their Middle Eastern counterparts. Explorer Ibn Battuta notes that Western Sudanic female Muslims had much more freedom.

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The Massufa were devout Muslims who said their prayers, learned the law, and memorized the Qu'ran. But their women were "not modest in the presence of men" and did not wear a veil. Although people married, "but the women do not travel with the husband, and if one of them wanted to do that, she would be prevented by her family." Each was free to take other sexual partners from outside the "prohibited degrees of marriage" [father, brother, son, etc.]. "One of them would enter his house to find his wife with her companion and would not disapprove of that conduct."

At first Battuta wanted to leave immediately with a group of pilgrims from Walata, but then decided to remain and visit the Mali capital. Battuta ultimately spent about 50 days in Walata, and left this description of the town: "The town of Iwalatan is very hot and there are in it a few small date palms in whose shade they plant melons. They obtain water from the ground which exudes it. Mutton is obtainable in quantity there. The clothes of its people are of fine Egyptian material. Most of the inhabitants belong to the Massufa, and as for their women--they are extremely beautiful and are more important than the men."

Again, I'm not mad at somebody saying African men are possessive, or the most possessive, even if I would challenge that opinion with my experiences and historical/cultural knowledge. No biggie. It's the "in their nature" talk that caught my attention because of the vicious implications.
 

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I'm not cosigning it but you're wrong. It's culturally accepted in some of these other countries to stone women or men to death who commit adulteress acts.

Africans, Middle Easterns.

They see it as bringing great shame or dishonor to their household.

But I get what you're saying. You have simps here in the states who snap and do the same thing.

Leave Africa out of this nonsense. Albeit can’t speak for North africa(Arab north), Horner Africans particularly Somali (they are a different breed, although even then I don’t think they do that).

but that’s not an acceptable practice in black Africa. Black African muslims are more civilized than these Arab savages.:hhh:
 

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His timing for killing her is all wrong. He should have killed her, put her somewhere where she won't be found right away, and caught a flight back home. Breh couldn't take it anymore and couldn't think to wait until borders started opening back up. That poor man buckled under the pressure and snapped.

That's one grimy and wicked bytch. Before you fukk someone over think long and hard about what you're doing. She obviously felt the risk was acceptable. You win some you lose some :yeshrug:

One lesson I'll be sure to teach both my son and my daughter is not to build anyone up. Marry someone that is already on your level. The relationship might still go south but at least you weren't used like a sucker.
 
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I never said all the women from the countries I mentioned are bedwenches. What I meant is that the said countries tend to have/produce a large proportion of bedwenches.

equally distributed between men and women. Francophone countries are are screwed ip mentally unfortunately.
 

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Leave Africa out of this nonsense. Albeit can’t speak for North africa(Arab north), Horner Africans particularly Somali (they are a different breed, although even then I don’t think they do that).

but that’s not an acceptable practice in black Africa. Black African muslims are more civilized than these Arab savages.:hhh:
People pulling stuff from their asses or intuition. Where in Cameroon, or for that matter West Africa, or Africa, is it culturally accepted to stone women to death for cheating? :dead: Is it a law? A common cultural practice? Is it all over the continent? Or just some parts? Does every ethnic group do this or have you heard of one incident that turned into an indictment of the whole place? I swear lol
 
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