You should also jaw at your mom for being a piece a shjt to her step dad
Never be a step dad
GMB..... raise ungrateful step kids
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And continue on with what life? People be saying the stupidest shyt. The man lost everything already because you can be damn sure the wife was plotting to remove him from the picture anyways, then soon would come the kids to not fukk with breh anymore.
What a fukked situation. I'd have to orange juice that situation.
Eh... He fukked up when he put his hands on her. When she confessed, he should have told her to leave.
I feel like I need to tell the story of my exes family it’s semi long and fukkkery filled.
Ok my exes mother is a very sweet lady. But she did do her ex husband foul. She met her ex husband after she already had 3 kids all girls. Hard working dude. Together they had 1 more daughter (my ex).
Her Baby father ended up doing hard time for attempting murder and robbery. He never had much interaction with his kids because he was in jail most of their childhood and college years. So the ex husband basically raised all the kids from toddlers through college even payed for two weddings.
Things turned left when the baby father (biological father) was released from prison. His family owned a construction business and he worked for them and became a pretty successful contractor. He started reaching out to his kids to begin a relationship. He started reaching out to his BM.
One day the ex husband comes home and finds a brand new bmw in his driveway with a bow on it. Baby father bought his wife a brand new car. They argued about it because he thought it was out of line but she argued back by saying “it was a gift for raising his kids” and called him “insecure”.
A couple weeks go by and he finds out his wife has been going to dinners with her baby father. Once again they argue she calls him insecure. Until one night dude comes home from a night shift and his wife isn’t home. He had her location on his phone and she’s in a hotel downtown. She comes home, they argue and she confesses she’s been sleeping with her baby father. They get into a heated argument and he threw her across the room.
She called the police and he was locked for domestic violence.
Now the kids are all upset about it because he’s a man who put hands on their mother supposedly. They all yapping and telling the mom she need to leave him etc.
Now ex husband can’t go back to his house, his step kids and his blood daughter (my ex) are refusing to talk to him. The wife files for divorce and basically is given the house and brehs military retirement
The Baby Father then moves into ex husbands houseSmashing his now ex wife and hanging out with his kids.
The second youngest daughter is getting married. She doesn’t invite him to the wedding. This is the same daughter he put through college and raised since she could walk. That one really hurt Breh. I was at the wedding and her Bio father walked her down the aisle
Now the ex husband only has contact with his biological daughter and me. It even took a lot of convincing from me to get my gf to speak with her father who now lives alone in a one bedroom apartment. I went over there one day with her and he broke down in tears. He spent the last thirty years of his life building a family that abandoned him. Spent hundreds of thousands he won’t recoup and they won’t allow him to see grandkids.
Breh caught covid and was on his deathbed they still ain’t call him.
Now I’m not gonna lie the bio pops is a cool dude for an ex felon. He’s also paid because of family business. He’s making up for lost time and is always on the go. Him and his BM always taking trips and buying luxury stuff her ex husband couldn’t afford. His kids love him too. But I could never shake how bad I felt fit the ex husband. He’s become a recluse and a hoarder now. I had to lend him some money and he was too ashamed to ask His daughter. This took place during the 6 1/2 years we were together. He also did a lot of SIMP shyt to try to win her back.
GMB and wife single moms brehs.
Yeah...that dude LAWST lost. Gotta move a lot smarter and control our emotions much better in general.
Don't save these single mother hoes, no matter how much their miserable counterparts attempt to guilt trip you into being a "real man".
If she has kids, tread wisely or simply smash and throw her in the bushes.
I feel like I need to tell the story of my exes family it’s semi long and fukkkery filled.
Ok my exes mother is a very sweet lady. But she did do her ex husband foul. She met her ex husband after she already had 3 kids all girls. Hard working dude. Together they had 1 more daughter (my ex).
Her Baby father ended up doing hard time for attempting murder and robbery. He never had much interaction with his kids because he was in jail most of their childhood and college years. So the ex husband basically raised all the kids from toddlers through college even payed for two weddings.
Things turned left when the baby father (biological father) was released from prison. His family owned a construction business and he worked for them and became a pretty successful contractor. He started reaching out to his kids to begin a relationship. He started reaching out to his BM.
One day the ex husband comes home and finds a brand new bmw in his driveway with a bow on it. Baby father bought his wife a brand new car. They argued about it because he thought it was out of line but she argued back by saying “it was a gift for raising his kids” and called him “insecure”.
A couple weeks go by and he finds out his wife has been going to dinners with her baby father. Once again they argue she calls him insecure. Until one night dude comes home from a night shift and his wife isn’t home. He had her location on his phone and she’s in a hotel downtown. She comes home, they argue and she confesses she’s been sleeping with her baby father. They get into a heated argument and he threw her across the room.
She called the police and he was locked for domestic violence
Now the kids are all upset about it because he’s a man who put hands on their mother supposedly. They all yapping and telling the mom she need to leave him etc
Now ex husband can’t go back to his house, his step kids and his blood daughter (my ex) are refusing to talk to him. The wife files for divorce and basically is given the house and brehs military retirement
The Baby Father then moves into ex husbands house
The second youngest daughter is getting married. She doesn’t invite him to the wedding. This is the same daughter he put through college and raised since she could walk. That one really hurt Breh. I was at the wedding and her Bio father walked her down the aisle
Now the ex husband only has contact with his biological daughter and me. It even took a lot of convincing from me to get my gf to speak with her father who now lives alone in a one bedroom apartment. I went over there one day with her and he broke down in tears. He spent the last thirty years of his life building a family that abandoned him. Spent hundreds of thousands he won’t recoup and they won’t allow him to see grandkids.
Breh caught covid and was on his deathbed they still ain’t call him
Now I’m not gonna lie the bio pops is a cool dude for an ex felon. He’s also paid because of family business. He’s making up for lost time and is always on the go. Him and his BM always taking trips and buying luxury stuff her ex husband couldn’t afford. His kids love him too. But I could never shake how bad I felt fit the ex husband. He’s become a recluse and a hoarder now. I had to lend him some money and he was too ashamed to ask His daughter. This took place during the 6 1/2 years we were together. He also did a lot of SIMP shyt to try to win her back.
GMB and wife single moms brehs.
Aye dog......this shyt is INFURIATING.
I would like a movie on this shyt SO BAD just to see the amount of juelzing going on.
Problem is in this situation, it's money and 3>1 (3 kids with felon and one with new hubby).
But for every fukked up situation like this, there's plenty that are perfectly fine, but I know the Coli focuses on the horror story ones.
That being said, this would be HARD to swallow.
We need a movie on this ASAP. Reverse Burning Bed type of shyt.
That family is psychotic as fukk and I highly doubt they'll have great lives down the road. Like honestly if those people did all that shyt to him there is no way any of those b*stards can truly love anyone else for who they are outside of their immediate family.
LiveFromLondon
Superstar
Maasn its that bad
CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
if some shyt like this happened to me, i would hire a prostitute to find the ex-con, flirt with him enough to get him to take them home, then when he was asleep, inject him with hiv and vanish into the night. would do this as many times as possible as i needed to to get the job done.
Makes me wanna leave my girl smh
So much to unpack here. Where to begin?
Additionally, don't simp.
- Don't wife a single mom. You never know if she still has feelings for the baby daddy that are unresolved. As soon he enters the picture... it's free fall
- Don't wife a single mom. Just because you raised her kids, that doesn't mean they won't play the "you're not my real dad
" card as soon as you upset them or act stern
- Don't wife a single mom! It automically lowers you're value. Here's the sad truth: despite all the mumbo jumbo about not shaming single moms and thots, etc. Women themselves think less of you if you date a single mom - especially if THEY are the single mom you're dating. Because why would a high value man spend money dating a single mom and raise some other guys kids? You are dating someone that doesn't respect you.
Just because women have shorter than you, weaker than you, and have soft faces and curves... that doesn't mean they are more angelic and nice. A woman can still be a cheating scumbag like any man. They can still do you dirty - especially since the law is on their side when it comes to abuse. NEVER forget that
Women barely think much of regular good, egalitarian men, let alone simps(PDF) Reactions to gender egalitarian men: Perceived feminization due to stigma-by-association
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Mastamimd
Ain't shyt
I'm just tired homie. Rather just keep to myself.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I could never call her that. She’s been nothing but kind to me. Just a messed up situation where she was dead wrong. But it also didn’t help that the ex husband gained weight and looked like Carl Winslow. Her bf came out of prison in much better shape and with a hairline
More to the story. You should have included all this in the OP, OP.
Almost had me feeling sympathy for domestic abuser Carl Winslow
Men aren't buying women cars unless they are trying to fukk. Period.I disagree about the car. On one hand it’s an underhanded gift but dude was locked and wanted to gift his BM something for appreciation
No man is that kind.