GMB..... raise ungrateful step kids

[YeahN1ggaImmaLurker!]

I would like a movie on this shyt SO BAD just to see the amount of juelzing going on.

Problem is in this situation, it's money and 3>1 (3 kids with felon and one with new hubby).

But for every fukked up situation like this, there's plenty that are perfectly fine, but I know the Coli focuses on the horror story ones.

That being said, this would be HARD to swallow.

We need a movie on this ASAP. Reverse Burning Bed type of shyt.

Yo imagine Denzel playing the husband…Jus take out the wife beating tho

 

[Peak]

Them hard lessons


I commend any man who takes on the role of stepfather. Couldn't be me though

 

[Steel]

More to the story. You should have included all this in the OP, OP.

Almost had me feeling sympathy for domestic abuser Carl Winslow

 

[Still Benefited]

I assure you it’s not. The domestic violence issue is what broke the camels back. Apparently it wasn’t the first time he put hands on her too.

I knew damn well it wasn't. Its a reason that your own girl(his biological daughter) don't want to talk to his ass either
Sounds like a story with a happy ending to me.

But with that said,you should already know if a woman split up with her dude because he went to jail,and that was the only reason? You are possibly just a replacement until Yayo comes home.
This happens a lot,even though their may not be kids involved. There is a reason it you never look at or raise kids as your own. I've dated women with a child before,never once cared about the child more than I would a child of a cousin. Whats so hard about being nice to kids and not getting emotionally involved when they aren't yours? Even when they start talking that "I love you daddy" stuff,you do realize they are just kids right?

 

[Steel]

I would like a movie on this shyt SO BAD just to see the amount of juelzing going on.

Problem is in this situation, it's money and 3>1 (3 kids with felon and one with new hubby).

But for every fukked up situation like this, there's plenty that are perfectly fine, but I know the Coli focuses on the horror story ones.

That being said, this would be HARD to swallow.

We need a movie on this ASAP. Reverse Burning Bed type of shyt.

Yo imagine Denzel playing the husband…Jus take out the wife beating tho

A middle aged Denzel would be more accurate for the Baby father. Ex-husband would be Forest Whittaker.

 

[Mosiah Supreme]

if some shyt like this happened to me, i would hire a prostitute to find the ex-con, flirt with him enough to get him to take them home, then when he was asleep, inject him with hiv and vanish into the night. would do this as many times as possible as i needed to to get the job done.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Homie putting hands on her more than once is kinda fukked up tho

But 3 kids with a nikka in jail and you save her.

Not 1 kid and shyt didn't just work out... But a felon who gave her 1,not 2, but 3 kids?

nikkaz keep ignoring the red flags @TradePascalSiakam and not doing their hoemwork

 

[number21]

Black men. Have respect for your manhood.

No p*ssy is worth playing daddy for some b*stard kids imo.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

I knew damn well it wasn't. Its a reason that your own girl(his biological daughter) don't want to talk to his ass either
Sounds like a story with a happy ending to me.

But with that said,you should already know if a woman split up with her dude because he went to jail,and that was the only reason? You are possibly just a replacement until Yayo comes home.
This happens a lot,even though their may not be kids involved. There is a reason it you never look at or raise kids as your own. I've dated women with a child before,never once cared about the child more than I would a child of a cousin. Whats so hard about being nice to kids and not getting emotionally involved when they aren't yours? Even when they start talking that "I love you daddy" stuff,you do realize they are just kids right?

There's something called emotions, you can't turn on and off at whim

 

[Still Benefited]

There's something called emotions, you can't turn on and off at whim

Would you fall in love with a known ho? If not why allow yourself to love a child that isn't yours? To the point you are blind and not prepared to deal with the inevitable that often come with being a step father? Maybe expecting the worst isn't the best way to think,but it can save you a lot of heart ache in life. Expecting to be betrayed doesn't stop me from loving or caring about people.

 

[Red Shield]

I feel like I need to tell the story of my exes family it’s semi long and fukkkery filled.

Ok my exes mother is a very sweet lady. But she did do her ex husband foul. She met her ex husband after she already had 3 kids all girls. Hard working dude. Together they had 1 more daughter (my ex).

Her Baby father ended up doing hard time for attempting murder and robbery. He never had much interaction with his kids because he was in jail most of their childhood and college years. So the ex husband basically raised all the kids from toddlers through college even payed for two weddings.

Things turned left when the baby father (biological father) was released from prison. His family owned a construction business and he worked for them and became a pretty successful contractor. He started reaching out to his kids to begin a relationship. He started reaching out to his BM.

One day the ex husband comes home and finds a brand new bmw in his driveway with a bow on it. Baby father bought his wife a brand new car. They argued about it because he thought it was out of line but she argued back by saying “it was a gift for raising his kids” and called him “insecure”.

A couple weeks go by and he finds out his wife has been going to dinners with her baby father. Once again they argue she calls him insecure. Until one night dude comes home from a night shift and his wife isn’t home. He had her location on his phone and she’s in a hotel downtown. She comes home, they argue and she confesses she’s been sleeping with her baby father. They get into a heated argument and he threw her across the room.

She called the police and he was locked for domestic violence .

Now the kids are all upset about it because he’s a man who put hands on their mother supposedly. They all yapping and telling the mom she need to leave him etc.

Now ex husband can’t go back to his house, his step kids and his blood daughter (my ex) are refusing to talk to him. The wife files for divorce and basically is given the house and brehs military retirement.

The Baby Father then moves into ex husbands house Smashing his now ex wife and hanging out with his kids.

The second youngest daughter is getting married. She doesn’t invite him to the wedding. This is the same daughter he put through college and raised since she could walk. That one really hurt Breh. I was at the wedding and her Bio father walked her down the aisle

Now the ex husband only has contact with his biological daughter and me. It even took a lot of convincing from me to get my gf to speak with her father who now lives alone in a one bedroom apartment. I went over there one day with her and he broke down in tears. He spent the last thirty years of his life building a family that abandoned him. Spent hundreds of thousands he won’t recoup and they won’t allow him to see grandkids.
Breh caught covid and was on his deathbed they still ain’t call him .

Now I’m not gonna lie the bio pops is a cool dude for an ex felon. He’s also paid because of family business. He’s making up for lost time and is always on the go. Him and his BM always taking trips and buying luxury stuff her ex husband couldn’t afford. His kids love him too. But I could never shake how bad I felt fit the ex husband. He’s become a recluse and a hoarder now. I had to lend him some money and he was too ashamed to ask His daughter. This took place during the 6 1/2 years we were together. He also did a lot of SIMP shyt to try to win her back.

GMB and wife single moms brehs.

Sucks for him

I could understand wifing a chick with 1 kid nowadays... but 2...

3 is a hell naw

 

[SheWantTheD]

Let’s take a moment of silence for #GMB

I don’t see how the kids would turn on him too, maybe their relationship with their step father was strained?

 

[SheWantTheD]

Just say females aint sh!t op , she broke up a happy home for gifts & lust but he was wrong for putting hands on her . He should of calmly walked away & filed for a divorce

He would still have gotten fukked over the same way.

You don’t know what you might do in the moment. Especially since you’ve been calling your wife you held down out on her BS and she called you insecure! Then you find out you’ve been right the whole time and it wasn’t insecurity.

You also don’t know what happened, said or done. Women can say some down right mean shyt that makes you wanna put hands on them.

Not saying I condone it. Plus OP said he pushed her. Wasn’t no punch or anything like that.

 

[Ozymandeas]

SMH. That’s all I can say.

 

[JBQH]

*Raise Step Kids? This is how I read the title.