GMB..... raise ungrateful step kids

[Cowboyz89]

Yall only say this when it puts women in a negative light

I'm not even saying this in a bitter women hate way.

Because we assume that women are angels, because of both social conditioning, and because they are physically smaller and weaker, so we assume their vulnerability means they'll act altruistically

Great post.

and this story is an example why I would never marry or even seriously entertain a woman with kids.

You will be expected to act as a father with all of the financial and emotional burdens, and then the second they feel like it, "You arent my real dad/They arent even your kids".

 

[DaRealness]

"I'm not the stepdad, I'm the dad who stepped up"

I wish this man all the best, but a lot of these dudes are gonna be in for a very rude awakening.

The fruit doesn't fall far from the tree - I wouldn't fukk with the girlfriend either. She seems just as vindictive as her trifling mother. You been warned.

 

[King Poetic]

Stopped reading after seeing she already had 3 kids

one kid is a limit and that’s even tough depending on the situation

 

[Originalman]

FUKK!!! If that isn't THE cautionary tale against stepdaddy simps, I don't know what else is. Put that story in the same file as the PJ Washington situation.

Have to disagree breh. I seen this same shyt happen to fathers who had biological kids. The common denominator is a no good trifling mother/wife who doesn't teach the children to respect the father for what he does for the children/family.

OP be glad that old girl your ex. If you have to pressure a woman to respect and look out for her father that has treated her well. Taken care of her siblings, mom, cloth, feed and protected them. Then that really ain't a woman you want to be involved with or her family if they also treats their father/husband bad.

If you a man you don't want to be involved with a woman who treats her father bad (if he was a good father who took care of her). Like wise if you a woman you don't want to be involved with a man who treats his mother bad (if she was a good mother who took care of him). Cause if they treat their parents bad they will most likely treat you the same or teach the kids you have with them to treat you bad as well.

These are selfish people so stay away from them.

Oh and like others have said. The mother and your ex siblings ain't worth spit. And they money hungry folks and users. They the type of folks who would have all had secret life insurance policies on the step dad then when he died they would have celebrated and spent all the life insurance money up on material shyt. If you want to be happy in life....keep money hungry people and users out of your life. They are some of the worst people to be involved with on a personal level.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Stopped reading after seeing she already had 3 kids

one kid is a limit and that’s even tough depending on the situation

Yeah, one is a limit and maybe 2 depending on the situation (same father and clear moving on between mom and the father)

But it's obvious she still had feelings for homie while still in jail. Him comin out swole, securing a good high paying job... Mannnnn.

Meanwhile homie done got fat and putting hands on ole girl. But if he had started to put hands on ole girl AFTER he found out or suspected she was creeping... I understand.

If there's any inkling a broad still has feelings for her ex and you cuff, you ain't playing the percentages right homie

 

[Rekkapryde]

Have to disagree breh. I seen this same shyt happen to fathers who had biological kids. The common denominator is a no good trifling mother/wife who doesn't teach the children to respect the father for what he does for the children/family.

OP be glad that old girl your ex. If you have to pressure a woman to respect and look out for her father that has treated her well. Taken care of her siblings, mom, cloth, feed and protected them. Then that really ain't a woman you want to be involved with or her family if they also treats their father/husband bad.

If you a man you don't want to be involved with a woman who treats her father bad (if he was a good father who took care of her). Like wise if you a woman you don't want to be involved with a man who treats his mother bad (if she was a good mother who took care of him). Cause if they treat their parents bad they will most likely treat you the same or teach the kids you have with them to treat you bad as well.

These are selfish people so stay away from them.

Oh and like others have said. The mother and your ex siblings ain't worth spit. And they money hungry folks and users. They the type of folks who would have all had secret life insurance policies on the step dad then when he died they would have celebrated and spent all the life insurance money up on material shyt. If you want to be happy in life....keep money hungry people and users out of your life. They are some of the worst people to be involved with on a personal level.

My nikka. Gospel.

Mufukkaz stay ignoring the signs.

 

[Umoja]

I wouldn't put much stock in him being an abusive husband by the way.

I would say it is why you need to act with complete caution and consideration when dealing with women. They will look for one act to justify a series of fukked up things they have done.

If he was putting paws on her, I doubt she would have the audacity to tell him that he was insecure whilst going on dinner dates with her ex and driving around in a car he purchased.

Getting thrown across the room in response to the affair would have been a straight up ass kicking.

They lawyered up, so that moment of frustration becomes to defining story.

(Assuming this isn't ducktales of course )

 

[Methodical]

what a fukked up story and sad story

 

[Originalman]

My nikka. Gospel.

Mufukkaz stay ignoring the signs.

Breh my sister in law homegirl went through similar shyt. All her life her momma treated her dad like shyt. Dude literally worked himself to death. My sister in law home girl never understood why.

Sometime after her dad died she finds out the truth. Her mom had a side man who she wanted to marry, but he had a woman he wouldn't leave. Her dad was basically the fall back guy who she met and would marry cause she knew he was responsible and would do the right thing.

So her dad and mom gets married. While the mom is married she is still having the affair with the other dude. Over the years her father and mom have her 2 siblings and her. All this time her mom was still having the affair. Her father worked off shore on a oil rig so he was gone 2 weeks each month so the mom is able to conduct the affair while the husband is gone.

Well fast forward to my sister in law homegirl going to college. Her freshman year her father dies. Her mother gets a huge life insurance payout and within a year blows the entire amount on material shyt. like blows 500k worth of money. Now in the fathers will my sister in law homegirl is suppose to get 50k for college, but her mom hides this information from her which she finds out some years later.

Now here is the kicker. My sister in law homegirl finds out about 10 years after her father died. That not only did her mom spend all the money from her dads insurance. She gave thousands of it to the man she was having an affair with for decades and that most likely she wasn't really her father's biological child and that she was most likely the mans child she was having an affair with.

So now my sister in law homegirl is truly done with her mom and doesn't even mess with her now. Not because of the lies she has with held from her. But because she feels that what her mom did to her dad is something that just can't be forgiven. From the long time affair, possibly conceiving another mans child and passing it on to her husband and spending all his life insurance money in about a year after his passing.

Once again man selfish and money hungry people man. Them folks be the worst.

 

[General Mills]

I’ve never hit a woman. But I hate as soon as somebody says the man hit her then he is trash and deserves what he gets. A lot of the times it’s mutual combat or she strikes first. Not saying we should not have self control but women know how to play the game. Pop shyt then turn into little girls when shyt gets real.


Or they know how to push a mans buttons verbally and they knowingly cross his line.

 

[Strapped]

It's a cold world sleep with one eye open , stay sober & strapped

 

[MaxPain]

Keep wifing up single moms and playing stepdaddy then keep it up.


This is your fate. Or don’t listen to me then.Dumb motherfukkers

 

[MaxPain]

No excuse for putting his hands on her.
He should’ve left the situation if he felt a type of way

I doubt he put hands on her she just used that as an excuse to make him seem like the bad guy. And all the kids followed thru with the narrrative.

My bytch aunt did the same thing & now she’s on her deathbed with cancer again. I made a thread on it.

 

[Methodical]

I assure you it’s not. The domestic violence issue is what broke the camels back. Apparently it wasn’t the first time he put hands on her too.

Oh I see now since you didn't put that in your opening story. Now, it all makes sense why they didn't fukk with him

 

[Methodical]

My pops dealt with being a step father came into my then step sister and step brothers lives when they were 9 and 13.

Treated them like his own, gave them money, literally treated the step daughter like a princess bought her whatever it is she wanted, even worked 16 hour days to provide for them and his other kids.

Until 7 years later when he found out his wife was cheating on him and he left her, you’d think they would at bare minimum have respect for him but no they trashed his house stole his ps4 and games.

And the daughter left numerous voicemails cussing him out and telling him he was never her father and she never liked him.

Never ever raise another mans kids because you will always be expendable and 9/10 the kids deep down resent you.

Damn!