GMB..... raise ungrateful step kids

[MaxPain]

Black men. Have respect for your manhood.

No p*ssy is worth playing daddy for some b*stard kids imo.

nope these stupid motherfukkers are gonna keep doing it over and over again. And argue with YOU teeth & nail over “not all single moms are bad”

Let these clowns rot. I stopped feeling bad for dudes like this along time ago.

 

[Controversy]

The step daddy needs to cut EVERYONE off and focus on his happiness

he needs to pretend like they don't exist

fck a reconciliation

 

[MaxPain]

I’ve never hit a woman. But I hate as soon as somebody says the man hit her then he is trash and deserves what he gets. A lot of the times it’s mutual combat or she strikes first. Not saying we should not have self control but women know how to play the game. Pop shyt then turn into little girls when shyt gets real.


Or they know how to push a mans buttons verbally and they knowingly cross his line.

I doubt he even hit her bc if he was the abusive type she would be scared to pull this off.

She said that to garner sympathy. My aunt did the same thing to her ex husband. Never even see him raise his voice at her but alla sudden he’s an abusive monster that’s why she’s cancer stricken now and on her death bed not too long after she pulled her stunt. Don’t feel bad for her at all

 

[Lamar Givens]

This is why I always say if a man is going to get with a woman that already has a ready made family (kids) the father of the children has to be DEAD, not in jail/prison, not in another country, not divorced and on “good terms” etc, he has to be DEAD!!!

Otherwise you leave a door of opportunity open for possible foolishness.

 

[General Mills]

I doubt he even hit her bc if he was the abusive type she would be scared to pull this off.

She said that to garner sympathy. My aunt did the same thing to her ex husband. Never even see him raise his voice at her but alla sudden he’s an abusive monster that’s why she’s cancer stricken now and on her death bed not too long after she pulled her stunt. Don’t feel bad for her at all

I also have seen it too from different couples. Brehs not even violent. One argument when she pushes him and he pushes her back. All of a sudden he is labeled as a domestic abuser and she turned into a delicate flower. Ruined the brehs life. He lost his job and has it on his record.

Now she has flipped it into a low key career talking to kids and mothers about domestic abuse. When they were together her MOUTH was atrocious. She would verbally destroy him and put hands on him. The one time he pushed her back she made sure to call the cops and it was down hill for my breh from there


That karma hit your Aunt. When you play nasty like that you have to know it’s coming

 

[CoryMack]

I assure you it’s not. The domestic violence issue is what broke the camels back. Apparently it wasn’t the first time he put hands on her too.

then he did it to himself.

and I felt bad for him reading your op. but if he was putting hands on her the children saw it growing up but were too little to do anything. makes sense they don’t fukk with him now.

i have a cousin who married a woman with young sons and raised em and had a daughter with their mother. He used to put hands on his wife too. When those boys were old enough they beat the hell outta him.

 

[Steel]

then he did it to himself.

and I felt bad for him reading your op. but if he was putting hands on her the children saw it growing up but were too little to do anything. makes sense they don’t fukk with him now.

i have a cousin who married a woman with young sons and raised em and had a daughter with their mother. He used to put hands on his wife too. When those boys were old enough they beat the hell outta him.

I don’t want to make it out to seem like he was a domestic abuser. From what I was told they had violent arguments/ fights which sounds like mutual engagement. But I do know for a fact he put hands on her when she confessed to cheating.

 

[Astroslik]

I doubt he even hit her bc if he was the abusive type she would be scared to pull this off.

She said that to garner sympathy. My aunt did the same thing to her ex husband. Never even see him raise his voice at her but alla sudden he’s an abusive monster that’s why she’s cancer stricken now and on her death bed not too long after she pulled her stunt. Don’t feel bad for her at all

If it isn’t “physical abuse” they’ll say it emotional or financial abuse.

A lot of women are manipulative and full of shyt.

 

[number21]

I’ve never hit a woman. But I hate as soon as somebody says the man hit her then he is trash and deserves what he gets. A lot of the times it’s mutual combat or she strikes first. Not saying we should not have self control but women know how to play the game. Pop shyt then turn into little girls when shyt gets real.


Or they know how to push a mans buttons verbally and they knowingly cross his line.

So many of these cats have an binary mindset. So, the nuance you're adding will be lost with them.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I feel like I need to tell the story of my exes family it’s semi long and fukkkery filled.

Ok my exes mother is a very sweet lady. But she did do her ex husband foul. She met her ex husband after she already had 3 kids all girls. Hard working dude. Together they had 1 more daughter (my ex).

Her Baby father ended up doing hard time for attempting murder and robbery. He never had much interaction with his kids because he was in jail most of their childhood and college years. So the ex husband basically raised all the kids from toddlers through college even payed for two weddings.

Things turned left when the baby father (biological father) was released from prison. His family owned a construction business and he worked for them and became a pretty successful contractor. He started reaching out to his kids to begin a relationship. He started reaching out to his BM.

One day the ex husband comes home and finds a brand new bmw in his driveway with a bow on it. Baby father bought his wife a brand new car. They argued about it because he thought it was out of line but she argued back by saying “it was a gift for raising his kids” and called him “insecure”.

A couple weeks go by and he finds out his wife has been going to dinners with her baby father. Once again they argue she calls him insecure. Until one night dude comes home from a night shift and his wife isn’t home. He had her location on his phone and she’s in a hotel downtown. She comes home, they argue and she confesses she’s been sleeping with her baby father. They get into a heated argument and he threw her across the room.

She called the police and he was locked for domestic violence .

Now the kids are all upset about it because he’s a man who put hands on their mother supposedly. They all yapping and telling the mom she need to leave him etc.

Now ex husband can’t go back to his house, his step kids and his blood daughter (my ex) are refusing to talk to him. The wife files for divorce and basically is given the house and brehs military retirement.

The Baby Father then moves into ex husbands house Smashing his now ex wife and hanging out with his kids.

The second youngest daughter is getting married. She doesn’t invite him to the wedding. This is the same daughter he put through college and raised since she could walk. That one really hurt Breh. I was at the wedding and her Bio father walked her down the aisle

Now the ex husband only has contact with his biological daughter and me. It even took a lot of convincing from me to get my gf to speak with her father who now lives alone in a one bedroom apartment. I went over there one day with her and he broke down in tears. He spent the last thirty years of his life building a family that abandoned him. Spent hundreds of thousands he won’t recoup and they won’t allow him to see grandkids.
Breh caught covid and was on his deathbed they still ain’t call him .

Now I’m not gonna lie the bio pops is a cool dude for an ex felon. He’s also paid because of family business. He’s making up for lost time and is always on the go. Him and his BM always taking trips and buying luxury stuff her ex husband couldn’t afford. His kids love him too. But I could never shake how bad I felt fit the ex husband. He’s become a recluse and a hoarder now. I had to lend him some money and he was too ashamed to ask His daughter. This took place during the 6 1/2 years we were together. He also did a lot of SIMP shyt to try to win her back.

GMB and wife single moms brehs.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Yeah idk details but he mentioned she was given part of his retirement.

he can definitely lose a portion of his military retirement. Up to half.

 

[ShackZilla89]

3 kids

That would be a hard pass for me.

 

[KingFreeman]

Have to disagree breh. I seen this same shyt happen to fathers who had biological kids. The common denominator is a no good trifling mother/wife who doesn't teach the children to respect the father for what he does for the children/family.

OP be glad that old girl your ex. If you have to pressure a woman to respect and look out for her father that has treated her well. Taken care of her siblings, mom, cloth, feed and protected them. Then that really ain't a woman you want to be involved with or her family if they also treats their father/husband bad.

If you a man you don't want to be involved with a woman who treats her father bad (if he was a good father who took care of her). Like wise if you a woman you don't want to be involved with a man who treats his mother bad (if she was a good mother who took care of him). Cause if they treat their parents bad they will most likely treat you the same or teach the kids you have with them to treat you bad as well.

These are selfish people so stay away from them.

Oh and like others have said. The mother and your ex siblings ain't worth spit. And they money hungry folks and users. They the type of folks who would have all had secret life insurance policies on the step dad then when he died they would have celebrated and spent all the life insurance money up on material shyt. If you want to be happy in life....keep money hungry people and users out of your life. They are some of the worst people to be involved with on a personal level.

Agree except for that first sentence. A woman who has not one, not two, but three kids with another man is common sense off limits. You will never ever have a fraction of the same connection as her and that other man. That is signing up for a big fat L. Marrying a single moms gives her access to your assets and why would you as a man want your resources to go to another man's kids?