Growing up fatherless is depressing as fukk

[Dzali OG]

A serious issue in our community...

My biological was locked up and I was raised by my step pops.

Here's where it falls on the moms.

My moms made that first mistake and vowed to not make a second. She went and got a man with a sense of responsibility, my step pops. Had two more kids from him. He raised me as his own.

Women have to be smarter in choosing their mates! Women have to realize what the purpose of a man is. Not to love and worship THEM...its to provide the best situation for your children! When women start choosing men better, things will get better.

I often make threads exposing the stupid habits in black people and some posters get mad. The reason is to attempt to correct these wrong behaviors. Not let them circulate in a cycle.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

I said this yesterday.

I know men (not by association) who will literally let their seed starve bc of the mother. Go get with a women who has 3 kids that isn't his and take care of them like it's his own.

Those aren't men those are fukk nikkas

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

Not having kids no way after the shyt I done seen in this world would rather not drag another person through this bullshyt and my dad only came around like 10 times from the ages of 3-5 after that I didn't see him until I was 16 and I haven't seen him since. It sucks when you think about it but you learn to accept it especially when he a lying ass nikka giving promises he know he can't live up to ex: I'ma give you some money this week

I do not want kids for the same reason I do not want them to grow up being depressed and I just don't want to bring anyone into this shytty world

 

[International Playa]

A serious issue in our community...

My biological was locked up and I was raised by my step pops.

Here's where it falls on the moms.

My moms made that first mistake and vowed to not make a second. She went and got a man with a sense of responsibility, my step pops. Had two more kids from him. He raised me as his own.

Women have to be smarter in choosing their mates! Women have to realize what the purpose of a man is. Not to love and worship THEM...its to provide the best situation for your children! When women start choosing men better, things will get better.

I often make threads exposing the stupid habits in black people and some posters get mad. The reason is to attempt to correct these wrong behaviors. Not let them circulate in a cycle.

Black women are guilty of having children with a thug/bad boy then try & find a simp who is responsible to come help them out & raise the child

Dated a single mother like this, her baby daddy was in the streets & didnt help out with the kid, she tried forcing me to marry her. I bailed out, the deal was shyt, she didnt work, couldnt cook, expected to be a stay at home mum while I work. All she brought to the table was good sex.

#cbb choose better brehs/brehrettes

 

[CobaltBlue]

Cant relate

Only time my father wasn't around was when he was deployed

He failed you

 

[Malik1time]

fukk my father he beat my mom when i was younger
i wish that nikka would try that shyt again

i even told him dont ever come around my mom house or he getting a beating

 

[The Mad Titan]

A serious issue in our community...

My biological was locked up and I was raised by my step pops.

Here's where it falls on the moms.

My moms made that first mistake and vowed to not make a second. She went and got a man with a sense of responsibility, my step pops. Had two more kids from him. He raised me as his own.

Women have to be smarter in choosing their mates! Women have to realize what the purpose of a man is. Not to love and worship THEM...its to provide the best situation for your children! When women start choosing men better, things will get better.

I often make threads exposing the stupid habits in black people and some posters get mad. The reason is to attempt to correct these wrong behaviors. Not let them circulate in a cycle.

My mom messed up and never dated again.

At the age of 30 she still messed with a "player/bad boy" got messed over and dedicated her life to her children.


I have the utmost respect for that, because its a completely selfless act. Whatever emotional and physical desires she might have had she killed for her kids.

 

[FukYaFeelings]

He failed you

Nawl

 

[International Playa]

My aunty also had a child with a unresponsible/bad boy/thug dude who bounced real early. She tried dating but no guy took her seriously as a single mum, dudes just smash & jet. She damn near mid 40s & never got married

I have another aunty, had a baby by a playa, dude bounced, she got with a responsible guy & had two more babies by him, she lucky she found a simp to pick up the pieces, sad thing her 19 year old daughter had a baby by a dude who ran off too, cycle never stops

I dont see this epidemic stopping, young women wanna have fun with the d-boys/drug dealers/thugs then wanna settle down with nice guys once they older, sum are lucky to find a simp ssome are not

 

[Karb]

All you can do is break the cycle.

 

[Karb]

My aunty also had a child with a unresponsible/bad boy/thug dude who bounced real early. She tried dating but no guy took her seriously as a single mum, dudes just smash & jet. She damn near mid 40s & never got married

I have another aunty, had a baby by a playa, dude bounced, she got with a responsible guy & had two more babies by him, she lucky she found a simp to pick up the pieces, sad thing her 19 year old daughter had a baby by a dude who ran off too, cycle never stops

I dont see this epidemic stopping, young women wanna have fun with the d-boys/drug dealers/thugs then wanna settle down with nice guys once they older, sum are lucky to find a simp ssome are not

So you're referring to the dude who stepped up for your aunt and helped her raise her children, your cousins, as a "simp"?

People get divorced. Relationships get sour and break up. Some fathers are a$$holes who don't care about their children.

There's no logical reason why single mothers should stay single or why dudes who are comfortable taking on the responsibility of raising fatherless kids should be shamed. This ridiculous "simp" culture where brehs are shamed for taking on responsibility for innocent kids is destructive.

 

[Rawtid]

Black women are guilty of having children with a thug/bad boy then try & find a simp who is responsible to come help them out & raise the child

Dated a single mother like this, her baby daddy was in the streets & didnt help out with the kid, she tried forcing me to marry her. I bailed out, the deal was shyt, she didnt work, couldnt cook, expected to be a stay at home mum while I work. All she brought to the table was good sex.

#cbb choose better brehs/brehrettes

Men choose to be bad fathers. Stop blaming the women.

 

[International Playa]

Men choose to be bad fathers. Stop blaming the women.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, they choose who they let between the legs. Women also have 10 + forms of birth control.Men only have one, a condom. Most times women choose the wrong male to father their kids.

 

[Yaddam Yussein]

I feel your pain brehs

 

[Weaver31]

Yeah I feel u OP but some folks had their dads and their dads still didn't impart and convey a lot of wisdom and life advice and didn't teach their sons how to be a man or didn't teach their daughters what a real man is.