Growing up fatherless is depressing as fukk

[ALonelyDad]

Do the fatherless brehs blame their moms for the father not being there?

No I am glad she left him, dude is an abuser and i am glad she didn't stick around for the kids. I met him 3 times in my life and all those were horrible experiences.

 

[Action Mike]

Pops would get out of work and go to his room or would stay out with his friends

Never really was a father and he lived with us


Always think that was worse than him not being there at all

Yeah it's worse when he's there and no happiness with it

chin up breh, life ain't perfect for no one on earth

 

[KushSkywalker]

Daddy bounced before I was born

fukk him

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

Thread is literally about fatherless nikkas

Not really. Fatherless means you ain't never saw the muthafukka, this more of my father ain't give a shyt after the divorce.

 

[International Playa]

It should motivate u to become a better father.

Dont repeat the cycle

 

[Action Mike]

Not really. Fatherless means you ain't never saw the muthafukka, this more of my father ain't give a shyt after the divorce.

So one is better than the other?

That nikka still ain't shyt

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

So the folks who asserted way back that black families and communities didn't need fathers
in the home and in the neighborhoods were a bit off track, huh?

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

So one is better than the other?

That nikka still ain't shyt

In where did I state one was better than the other?

 

[Wiles]

Id rather have no father than a dead beat one. I wouldn't be able to look him in the eye or hug him. I'd probably change my last name real shyt.

Deadbeat and no father is the same thing

 

[Wiles]

Having a step father is like having no father with at all. They dont dont shyt but complain and simp...

 

[Wiles]

But I thought ladies said they didnt need fatherz to raise childern. Seems like we got alot of brother who wish they mom choose better.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Moms and pops was married before they had me..pops is Nigerian, moms is black American...pop was getting serious money in the 90s, had to go on the run in 97 and that's when I stop seeing him daily at least but we talked and he'd come visit for a few weeks here and there but stayed consistent as far as sending money and keeping me with the latest shyt...then 2003 he got caught and deported back to Africa...haven't seen him in person since 2003 when I was 13...we still talk though and he's been in Toronto since about 2009..I can easily go up and visit but I keep lagging on my passport..think subconsciously its me having a little resentment for losing him...but I gotta get over it and reach out, we not getting any younger

 

[levitate]

Damn man this thread got me about to tear up

I remember when my dad would say he would come pick me up to spend time and he never showed. He'd call a few days later talking about how he was sorry

 

[Turbulent]

 

[levitate]

This thread is sad af.