Guy Explains Why Men and Women Can't Be Friends

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He's mostly right :yeshrug:I say something like this all the time, but I say women want "stuff" (attention qualifies as "stuff" to me :mjlol:)

Women and men can be friends if there's no attraction or desire in either direction. But it's difficult because men always want sex and women always want stuff
 

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We all this is true but only a idiot will tell every woman he’s trying to smash that’s he’s trying to only smash. That’s where having rosters come into play and just play the we cool role and if you’re not a totally lame you will be able to hit:yeshrug:
 

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Men and women can only be friends if neither person is attracted to the other.

It took me getting punched in the face by a chick I had no attraction to who claimed had no attraction to me to realize this. :pachaha:

Long story short I hooked up with a chick I met at a party. Friend was there and had a meltdown and tried to fight me. Talking bout I choose everyone over her :mindblown:

I felt like a dope :shaq2:. Should’ve seen it coming but lesson learned.
 

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Men & women can be friends, but both can't be attracted to each other. Both should understand that if one or both date other people then the people they are dating will get priority over the platonic friend.

It would be best that men and,women know their role or position with one another should the decide to establish and/or maintain a platonic friendship.


yep, which is why attractive dudes actually don't get friendzoned. and if they are it's more of a "your up next" type of thing.
 

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He's not talking about friendship. He is talking about people who lie and pretend they want friendship in order to maybe one day get pity sex.

Some people are mature enough to have friends of the opposite sex and some are not. I wish men who only see women as sex objects would just claim it instead of trying to put their lack of maturity on the rest of the sex.
 

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He's not talking about friendship. He is talking about people who lie and pretend they want friendship in order to maybe one day get pity sex.

Some people are mature enough to have friends of the opposite sex and some are not. I wish men who only see women as sex objects would just claim it instead of trying to put their lack of maturity on the rest of the sex.
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women are JUST as immature, but with different traits ( for lack of a better word). Plus lets be really real... If it weren't for men "pretending to want friendship in order to get sex" a lot of you mothafukkas wouldn't exist. Yes I said it... some men had/have to manipulate women into sex and relationships.

This is just nature....(the ugly parts) but still nature.

Always keep i mind, the only true variance in human beings that exist is not race/ethnicity . It's male/female.
 

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He's not talking about friendship. He is talking about people who lie and pretend they want friendship in order to maybe one day get pity sex.

Some people are mature enough to have friends of the opposite sex and some are not. I wish men who only see women as sex objects would just claim it instead of trying to put their lack of maturity on the rest of the sex.
Yeah but sometimes that falls into the grey area where u wanna be friends with the person you're attracted to before u see if u really wanna be in a relationship

It's like when u just come to a woman, introduce yourself, and ask her out. Sometimes she's like I don't even know u and u wanna take me out?

So guys go ok aight I'll be friendly first then later ask but by the time they ask the woman out, she says oh I didn't even know u liked me like that lol
 

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yep, which is why attractive dudes actually don't get friendzoned. and if they are it's more of a "your up next" type of thing.

IMO, there are some advantages to having platonic female friends. Said friend may have a gang of attractive or decent looking single friends, so she could hook her homie up with one or a few of them.

But, to your point, an attractive man probably would not deal with a platonic homegirl, especially if he has a steady roster of women he is dating/mating.

I think true platonic friendships make more sense with people you grew up with or known since childhood, college, etc.
 

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testosterone.


women are JUST as immature, but with different traits ( for lack of a better word). Plus lets be really real... If it weren't for men "pretending to want friendship in order to get sex" a lot of you mothafukkas wouldn't exist. Yes I said it... some men had/have to manipulate women into sex and relationships.

This is just nature....(the ugly parts) but still nature.

Always keep i mind, the only true variance in human beings that exist is not race/ethnicity . It's male/female.
1. I said people are immature in the post you quoted

2. It's usually men who claim they can't be friends with women because they can't see past their dikks. Women have no problem being friends with the opposite sex

3. Please claim your inability to see women as anything but sex objects and stop trying to put that on humanity. There are plenty men with female friends; you just aren't one of them

4. Yes it's a maturity issue. People including women have a lot to give outside of sex.

5. The sentence condoning being a liar and manipulating in order to get sex is creepy
 

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Yeah but sometimes that falls into the grey area where u wanna be friends with the person you're attracted to before u see if u really wanna be in a relationship

It's like when u just come to a woman, introduce yourself, and ask her out. Sometimes she's like I don't even know u and u wanna take me out?

So guys go ok aight I'll be friendly first then later ask but by the time they ask the woman out, she says oh I didn't even know u liked me like that lol
That's called dating. That's not friendship.
 
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