Guys, when you ask a girl out

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Well, I said that to someone today and he was like "usually girls say they have a bf or husband - but you're just not interested? That hurts my feelings"

So I said "Well, do you want me to lie or be honest?" and he said "Lie"

I wasn't mean about it or anything either.

"Can I buy you a coffee sometime?"
"No thank you"
"Why not?"

I mean...why ask why not?
 

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Bet that attention made you feel good eh :sas1:




Well, I said that to someone today and he was like "usually girls say they have a bf or husband - but you're just not interested? That hurts my feelings"

So I said "Well, do you want me to lie or be honest?" and he said "Lie"

I wasn't mean about it or anything either.

"Can I buy you a coffee sometime?"
"No thank you"
"Why not?"

I mean...why ask why not?
 

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Yo what type of dudes be asking you out?! I can't imagine doing this or why you'd ask someone out that you don't even respect.
I guess I should say just turning a guy down period. Not just when being asked out.

For example:
I met this one guy that was 4 yrs younger than me. I decided he could have my number when he asked cause I didn't really have a reason not to and I don't mind finding new people to be cool with. So we started texting the next day telling each other about ourselves. He kept asking me to chill which I'm not cool with cause I'm not gonna take time out of my day for someone I don't know if I'm gonna even like, plus I'm not going to no guys house.
So the first thing this guy really says about himself is that he is a weed head. I'm thinking to myself wtf? I've never had anyone introduce themselves basically and straight off say they were a weed head like it's something to be proud of.

That right there let me know he was some bum ass nikka. Most guys try to find a thing to brag about. I appreciated his honesty but I'm not into weedheads. I told him I won't tryna be friends. He cursed me out.
Typical :sas2:

Weeks later he hit me up trying to talk to me again. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and I was somebody who just got the number he said "no you're not I know you remember me":merchant:

It was 4 am and he was probably high:snoop:

So I blocked him from my google voice number
 

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All I know is if he is a young guy. You will be called a bytch or some other derogatory name .
lol this guy was nice - but I heard him yell out "You don't know what you're missing" which I don't really understand cause if I cared to know I would have said yes, but okay.
 

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All I know is if he is a young guy. You will be called a bytch or some other derogatory name .
So the first thing this guy really says about himself is that he is a weed head. I'm thinking to myself wtf? I've never had anyone introduce themselves basically and straight off say they were a weed head like it's something to be proud of.

That right there let me know he was some bum ass nikka. Most guys try to find a thing to brag about. I appreciated his honesty but I'm not into weedheads. I told him I won't tryna be friends. He cursed me out.
Typical :sas2:
:patrice:
Sounds to me like age had nothing to do with it. Dude was just a dirtbag
 

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So your to good for a guy who smokes marijuana?


I guess I should say just turning a guy down period. Not just when being asked out.

For example:
I met this one guy that was 4 yrs younger than me. I decided he could have my number when he asked cause I didn't really have a reason not to and I don't mind finding new people to be cool with. So we started texting the next day telling each other about ourselves. He kept asking me to chill which I'm not cool with cause I'm not gonna take time out of my day for someone I don't know if I'm gonna even like, plus I'm not going to no guys house.
So the first thing this guy really says about himself is that he is a weed head. I'm thinking to myself wtf? I've never had anyone introduce themselves basically and straight off say they were a weed head like it's something to be proud of.

That right there let me know he was some bum ass nikka. Most guys try to find a thing to brag about. I appreciated his honesty but I'm not into weedheads. I told him I won't tryna be friends. He cursed me out.
Typical :sas2:

Weeks later he hit me up trying to talk to me again. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and I was somebody who just got the number he said "no you're not I know you remember me":merchant:

It was 4 am and he was probably high:snoop:

So I blocked him from my google voice number
 
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