Guys, when you ask a girl out

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*This is in no way an indictment of all women.


I prefer people in general to be upfront. The "I have a boyfriend," retort is basically the same as a not interested, but it changes when she lingers and makes a concentrated effort to continue the conversation.

Human nature is ugly, but the reality is *a lot of females, particularly in my age group,* will still entertain you if she's feeling you, even if she's in a relationship, especially those long distance relationships. Less so if the pairing still has that new car smell and hell - she might even actually be loyal - but she isn't giving you that line and walking away/deading the conversation unless she's repulsed by you or the guy she's dating really did find a diamond in the rough.

You can typically read body language and tell whether or not someone is genuinely into you. She'll give you that line so she won't feel like a complete hoe and can have somewhat of a clear conscience as she texts you later in the week and you schedule a meet up. Others won't say a thing about him at all, but when people are truly attracted to each other physically, the concept of right and wrong flies out of the window.
 

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Fukk u gotta prove for what??

Fukk em if they don't trust you

I don't mean like I literally set out to prove something, it's more like they make it seem like I have to

If she isn't naive she isn't gonna trust u. It might not even be you but the fact that you're a guy. Depends on what u have been saying as well.

Yeah that's the frustrating part. I'm actually a nice dude but it seems like I'm an alien for actually being that way. But it's like girls I'm not interested in bend head over heels to do whatever I want. They be attractive females too but there may be a quality or something that makes me uninterested I guess.
 

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Naw it doesn't happen a lot but it's happened enough times for me to notice that younger guys or immature ones tend to get nasty when they get rejected.

i dig it. yea i noticed that the super young guys are weird like that too. i try not to mess with folks unless they can handle the truth.
 

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I don't mean like I literally set out to prove something, it's more like they make it seem like I have to



Yeah that's the frustrating part. I'm actually a nice dude but it seems like I'm an alien for actually being that way. But it's like girls I'm not interested in bend head over heels to do whatever I want. They be attractive females too but there may be a quality or something that makes me uninterested I guess.
Well of course someone who is interested is gonna do more for u. That's how it goes. Appreciate them.
 

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i dig it. yea i noticed that the super young guys are weird like that too. i try not to mess with folks unless they can handle the truth.
To answer your question about the tongue ring and stuff.... No I don't have that. I just have a nose ring. It's a loop.
 

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Well, I said that to someone today and he was like "usually girls say they have a bf or husband - but you're just not interested? That hurts my feelings"

So I said "Well, do you want me to lie or be honest?" and he said "Lie"
:mjlol: sucka
 

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"Santa mustve come early this year, cause you were first on my Christmas list" works decent....iono ya win some ya lose some
 
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