Guys, when you ask a girl out

[Desirous]

I guess I should say just turning a guy down period. Not just when being asked out.

For example:
I met this one guy that was 4 yrs younger than me. I decided he could have my number when he asked cause I didn't really have a reason not to and I don't mind finding new people to be cool with. So we started texting the next day telling each other about ourselves. He kept asking me to chill which I'm not cool with cause I'm not gonna take time out of my day for someone I don't know if I'm gonna even like, plus I'm not going to no guys house.
So the first thing this guy really says about himself is that he is a weed head. I'm thinking to myself wtf? I've never had anyone introduce themselves basically and straight off say they were a weed head like it's something to be proud of.

That right there let me know he was some bum ass nikka. Most guys try to find a thing to brag about. I appreciated his honesty but I'm not into weedheads. I told him I won't tryna be friends. He cursed me out.
Typical

Weeks later he hit me up trying to talk to me again. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and I was somebody who just got the number he said "no you're not I know you remember me"

It was 4 am and he was probably high

So I blocked him from my google voice number

lol when a guy asks for your number, he's trying to smash - and maybe go out with you, butttt not to just get to know you as friends. Shouldn't have given it to him! I've made that mistake in the past though, too.

 

[Heretic]

I guess I should say just turning a guy down period. Not just when being asked out.

For example:
I met this one guy that was 4 yrs younger than me. I decided he could have my number when he asked cause I didn't really have a reason not to and I don't mind finding new people to be cool with. So we started texting the next day telling each other about ourselves. He kept asking me to chill which I'm not cool with cause I'm not gonna take time out of my day for someone I don't know if I'm gonna even like, plus I'm not going to no guys house.
So the first thing this guy really says about himself is that he is a weed head. I'm thinking to myself wtf? I've never had anyone introduce themselves basically and straight off say they were a weed head like it's something to be proud of.

That right there let me know he was some bum ass nikka. Most guys try to find a thing to brag about. I appreciated his honesty but I'm not into weedheads. I told him I won't tryna be friends. He cursed me out.
Typical

Weeks later he hit me up trying to talk to me again. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and I was somebody who just got the number he said "no you're not I know you remember me"

It was 4 am and he was probably high

So I blocked him from my google voice number

I must be different because I'm nothing like that. My biggest issue is some girls seem to really have a hard time trusting me or something. I have to prove myself or maybe I give them the vibe that I chase all females when I'm really not that way.

 

[MikelArteta]

Pass up honest black men brehettes.

It's not a matter of being too good it's a matter of knowing what kind of company you want to keep.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

Well, I said that to someone today and he was like "usually girls say they have a bf or husband - but you're just not interested? That hurts my feelings"

So I said "Well, do you want me to lie or be honest?" and he said "Lie"

I wasn't mean about it or anything either.

"Can I buy you a coffee sometime?"
"No thank you"
"Why not?"

I mean...why ask why not?

I GUESS IT'S JUST AGE. I DON'T CARE ENOUGH TO ASK WHY.

 

[KinksandCoils]

lol when a guy asks for your number, he's trying to smash - and maybe go out with you, butttt not to just get to know you as friends. Shouldn't have given it to him! I've made that mistake in the past though, too.

Oh trust me I know. That's why I told him right away that I won't even tryna fukk with him like that! He won't bad looking so at least he had that going for him.

 

[Remote]

I must be different because I'm nothing like that. My biggest issue is some girls seem to really have a hard time trusting me or something. I have to prove myself or maybe I give them the vibe that I chase all females when I'm really not that way.

These hoes aint friendly



Your struggle is real breh

 

[Desirous]

I GUESS IT'S JUST AGE. I DON'T CARE ENOUGH TO ASK WHY.

Pretty much. He wasn't that young though. I think it's just personality.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I must be different because I'm nothing like that. My biggest issue is some girls seem to really have a hard time trusting me or something. I have to prove myself or maybe I give them the vibe that I chase all females when I'm really not that way.

Fukk u gotta prove for what??

Fukk em if they don't trust you

 

[KinksandCoils]

I must be different because I'm nothing like that. My biggest issue is some girls seem to really have a hard time trusting me or something. I have to prove myself or maybe I give them the vibe that I chase all females when I'm really not that way.

If she isn't naive she isn't gonna trust u. It might not even be you but the fact that you're a guy. Depends on what u have been saying as well.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

I guess I should say just turning a guy down period. Not just when being asked out.

For example:
I met this one guy that was 4 yrs younger than me. I decided he could have my number when he asked cause I didn't really have a reason not to and I don't mind finding new people to be cool with. So we started texting the next day telling each other about ourselves. He kept asking me to chill which I'm not cool with cause I'm not gonna take time out of my day for someone I don't know if I'm gonna even like, plus I'm not going to no guys house.
So the first thing this guy really says about himself is that he is a weed head. I'm thinking to myself wtf? I've never had anyone introduce themselves basically and straight off say they were a weed head like it's something to be proud of.

That right there let me know he was some bum ass nikka. Most guys try to find a thing to brag about. I appreciated his honesty but I'm not into weedheads. I told him I won't tryna be friends. He cursed me out.
Typical

Weeks later he hit me up trying to talk to me again. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and I was somebody who just got the number he said "no you're not I know you remember me"

It was 4 am and he was probably high

So I blocked him from my google voice number

and this happens a lot?

Do you have a tongue ring or white ink tattoos on your forearms or something? If this happens a lot you gotta switch up ur energy.

 

[#1 pick]

Not interested. Not even a question. Saves me and you time. The minute you say you got a man, it can end or it can go from causal to sexual quick to see if the interest is there.

 

[Heretic]

These hoes aint friendly



Your struggle is real breh

I get all kinds of yeah rights and I bet u tell all the girls that or my personal favorite, what would your gf think or something to that effect

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

lol when a guy asks for your number, he's trying to smash - and maybe go out with you, butttt not to just get to know you as friends. Shouldn't have given it to him! I've made that mistake in the past though, too.

Off course were trying to smash..why else would we talk to y'all





@Raul habibi help me out

 

[KinksandCoils]

and this happens a lot?

Do you have a tongue ring or white ink tattoos on your forearms or something? If this happens a lot you gotta switch up ur energy.

Naw it doesn't happen a lot but it's happened enough times for me to notice that younger guys or immature ones tend to get nasty when they get rejected.

 

[Remote]

Off course were trying to smash..why else would we talk to y'all





@Raul habibi help me out

Tell her you're cousins with Kobe Bryant.

In there like swimwear.