Had a good date but now she not seeing me where did I go wrong brehs?

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yamanbt said:
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In this day and age, it is imperative that you physically escalate as soon as possible. A kiss is the absolute bare minimum you should get on the first date, and you shouldn't have to ask for it. If you've been escalating physical contact throughout the date, along with playful banter, the kiss should come naturally. Furthermore, you should always be gently pushing the envelope further and further. Don't force anything, but read her body language, and make assertive moves accordingly. I've gotten head on the first date from bytches who swore they never fukked on the first date. That's the mind games women play with themselves. In their eyes, sucking dikk ain't sex. Then, on the second date, they'd fukk. Once again, they can still technically say they didn't fukk on the first date. Online bytches, and bytches in general, have so many nikkas lined up that they will quickly bush you if you don't get to the point.



Preach! He should've declined that karaoke shyt. I had a bytch try that exact same shyt on me last summer. She was texting me all the time, and acting like she was really feeling me. However, she was stalling the meetup. She asked me to come to karaoke with her friends. I really wanted to fukk, so I initially said yes. When I came to my senses, I cancelled that shyt. Furthermore, I bushed her for playing games. I had three chicks I was talking to at the time.



Dinner and a movie is literally the worst thing you can do with a chick you haven't smashed. You can't talk to her in the theater like that. Furthermore, you can't physically escalate with a big dinner table between you. Adjacent bar stools are perfect for a first date. I can't stress enough how important physical escalation is... a touch of the arm here, a hand on lower back there, a thigh touch, etc.
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I can tell from reading this you have some knowledge and experience. The dinner and movie thing is so true. When I’m rusty getting back in the game I use dinner to get in the rhythm of talking to a girl and being out with different ones. Only invite a girl on a movie date if I don’t care and just want somebody to go with.

Yeah he should have either declined karaoke or insisted that he go but they go back to his crib after.

Yeah you have to physically touch girls to get that connection, that’s my problem with the sexiest girls I’ve tried to mess with. I used to get nervous and not stuck to what I know because I’m dealing with somebody really fine. It’s all about experience confidence and knowing
 
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THEN DONT RESPOND TO WHATEVER SHE TEXTS BACK. This will have her in her feelings and you can just
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ALWAYS do this, brehs. Think about how you feel when a chic leaves you on read. It's like she don't even think enough of you to type a message back. think about that sick feeling you get, ego shattering, and all of that

when you do it to women, that feeling multiplied by x1000 is how they feel

I leave chics on read constantly :lolbron: did it last night
 
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The long and short is she is not feeling you, she has someone else. Yeah it sucks because YOU assumed things were going well, best thing to do is just move on and don't build castles in the sky.

If you have already kissed her once why would you now only hug her?
 
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I don't know brehs shyt has me fukked up.

Met this broad on POF she messaged me and she cute so we decided to meet for drinks after work. I was funny and charming the whole time and she was digging the kid :jawalrus:

Get to the end of the date we outside I ask her if she kiss dudes on the first date she say yes so we do that then we go seperate ways

She call me later asking me to come to karaoke with her friends so I'm like alright :obama:

Meet up with her, have a couple drinks, get up there and sing kiss from a rose by seal, the usual :yeshrug:

So I had to work the next day so I had to leave right after singing. We hug and I go.

So then we make a date for Wednesday but she cancels that day saying she sick. Also she not texting me as much and she close her account on POF. I ask her if she still interested and she says yes but she doesn't feel like she should have to explain myself to me after one date and she'll text me when she's feeling better to reschedule. We haven't talked in 6 days now :francis:

What should I do. I don't get it :patrice:
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Where did i go wrong is the wrong question to ask. These bytches are fickle :yeshrug: Throw her in the bushes and move on.
 
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Rice'N Beckford said:
My nicca you really tried to be too romantic with a dating app chick lol. shyt aint cute its creepy. Just imagine. These dating app joints probably on dates every week and meet different men/personalities. Esp in today’s world, being too friendly/romantic with a woman too early= “he just being nice so he can fukk”

Also, why are you singing? I can picture it you looking corny on stage looking at her n her homegirls singing Seal while they look at you like “this nikka really doing this?:mjgrin::scusthov:”

Also, why are you asking for a kiss? Even more creepy lol. She probably had that asked by every nikka she met off POF. She probably feels like she needs to be nice and do it so the man doesnt get mad and hurt her:ufdup:

You supposed to peep body language on a woman tbh. Or if you really got game, pickup on a keyword or phrase she say in order for you to get intimate.

My current fwb I met a bar. We went out for for drinks late night couple days later. Went back to my whip and was talking. She mentioned somethin bout her nipples or titties being pierced before and that was when I knew it was time for me to say “Lemme suck on em:mjpls:”


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U just gotta not give a fukk man and yeah something active is good for the first meet a few days ago went bowling w this chick our texts had already got to that xrated point so second game I said something like ok winner fukks loser got that grin and was IN later that night . shyt is mostly bout momentum and seizing shyt when it's in front of u not asking permission to do shyt u supposed to do fam
 
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Bigblackted4 said:
I can tell from reading this you have some knowledge and experience. The dinner and movie thing is so true. When I’m rusty getting back in the game I use dinner to get in the rhythm of talking to a girl and being out with different ones. Only invite a girl on a movie date if I don’t care and just want somebody to go with.

Yeah he should have either declined karaoke or insisted that he go but they go back to his crib after.

Yeah you have to physically touch girls to get that connection, that’s my problem with the sexiest girls I’ve tried to mess with. I used to get nervous and not stuck to what I know because I’m dealing with somebody really fine. It’s all about experience confidence and knowing
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One thing I've learned is that if a chick is really feeling you, there's nothing she won't let you do. I try to get real playful and act like I care if a woman is ticklish or not. This leads to informal touching, then I'll do shyt like randomly cover her eyes, poke her randomly, etc. Just real playful silly shyt. It's not that I care for these things but they're useful tools.

This simple shyt let's me know all I need to know. If she's combative in any way she aint feeling me, if she's receptive to my game no matter how corny it is, I'm in.

Informal touching like tickling leads to invading personal space, which leads to her putting her guard down.

Real talk the girl op was seeing was probably more turned off by him asking for a kiss. :what:

Man you take that shyt, it's about being smooth.
 
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yamanbt said:
These^^^

In this day and age, it is imperative that you physically escalate as soon as possible. A kiss is the absolute bare minimum you should get on the first date, and you shouldn't have to ask for it. If you've been escalating physical contact throughout the date, along with playful banter, the kiss should come naturally. Furthermore, you should always be gently pushing the envelope further and further. Don't force anything, but read her body language, and make assertive moves accordingly. I've gotten head on the first date from bytches who swore they never fukked on the first date. That's the mind games women play with themselves. In their eyes, sucking dikk ain't sex. Then, on the second date, they'd fukk. Once again, they can still technically say they didn't fukk on the first date. Online bytches, and bytches in general, have so many nikkas lined up that they will quickly bush you if you don't get to the point.



Preach! He should've declined that karaoke shyt. I had a bytch try that exact same shyt on me last summer. She was texting me all the time, and acting like she was really feeling me. However, she was stalling the meetup. She asked me to come to karaoke with her friends. I really wanted to fukk, so I initially said yes. When I came to my senses, I cancelled that shyt. Furthermore, I bushed her for playing games. I had three chicks I was talking to at the time.



Dinner and a movie is literally the worst thing you can do with a chick you haven't smashed. You can't talk to her in the theater like that. Furthermore, you can't physically escalate with a big dinner table between you. Adjacent bar stools are perfect for a first date. I can't stress enough how important physical escalation is... a touch of the arm here, a hand on lower back there, a thigh touch, etc.
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Damn right. I be takin them hoze ice skating it’s 30 dollars total skate all day. Ice skating let’s you touch em to cause they be scared of falling and shyt :shaq:
 
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