Harvard Study: Biggest Factor for Divorce is Husband's Employment Status

[CurrencyChase]

3.3% to 2.5% is not a big enough percentage difference to write an article about. Really Harvard?

 

[JQ Legend]

What I dont understand is, why bytch about it? Work thru it like everything else in life. You aint about to change nature bruh.

A woman wanting a man with money ain't got shyt to do with nature

If u wanna bring the nature argument up, all it takes to be a provider is making sure the family got food shelter and protection

Are women satisfied if a man is able to bring in just enough money to provide those things?

Where in nature does the female require the male to be able to provide her with anything beyond the bare necessities for survival?

Where in nature does the female look for the male that's able to obtain extravagant gifts for her?

Stop with this nature argument to excuse these gold diggers.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

A woman wanting a man with money ain't got shyt to do with nature

If u wanna bring the nature argument up, all it takes to be a provider is making sure the family got food shelter and protection

Are women satisfied if a man is able to bring in just enough money to provide those things?

Where in nature does the female require the male to be able to provide her with anything beyond the bare necessities for survival?

Where in nature does the female look for the male that's able to obtain extravagant gifts for her?

Stop with this nature argument to excuse these gold diggers.

You should cop some books on psychology and human nature cuz you're totally off.

 

[EndDomination]

Lol naw, marrying a wife from a wealthy background should be every guys goal.

Women feel entitled period, might as well marry one who brings some thing to the table like wealth and connections for your children.

I'd have no problem divorcing a wealthy wife and receiving nothing. My only concern is that my children receive the benefits of having a two parents with connections or at least a mother who has family who are well connected.

Not all women feel entitled. And I want to marry a woman with a strong educational background a good middle-class/upper-middle class background that also gave her solid exposure to reality, I simply cannot deal with out-of-touch women. I also plan on marrying a woman who shares at least shares similar professional aspirations as me, I don't plan on marrying someone who still works retail in their late-20s or who plans on being a stay-at-home mom.

 

[JQ Legend]

You should cop some books on psychology and human nature cuz you're totally off.

Where exactly am I off at?

And the current understanding of psychology is flawed

Theres a reason psychotherapy is among the least successful medical practices

You need to stop believing everything you read in books and stop treating man made books like they're gospel. They are just as subject to flaw and biased opinion as anything else.

And I've studied psychology in college btw

 

[EndDomination]

I'm not saying chicks should go out of their way to look for broke men

But to make that a primary motivation as to who they fall for is not honorable

Prior to women getting rights to work they had no choice but to look to men to be providers but now they proudly exclaim they don't need a man's money and have been screaming that shyt for decades now. Its no secret women only like the gender roles that favor them

It's not a coincidence that women of this era struggle with getting and or maintaining a man more than any other era of women in recorded history

Actually it is. "Keeping a man" can't be quantified.
There was a time when women were considered property, there was a time when women could not break into most professional spheres or go to college, there was a time when women were not allowed to have credit cards (until 1974), and where their adulthood tended to depend on men.
"Keeping a man" means absolutely nothing at all.
The reason I don't plan on dating a broke women is the same reason women don't plan on dating a broke man: they're a liability, and they aren't useful for advancing my life.
I love creative women, but I don't have time for a starving artist.

 

[JQ Legend]

Not all women feel entitled. And I want to marry a woman with a strong educational background a good middle-class/upper-middle class background that also gave her solid exposure to reality, I simply cannot deal with out-of-touch women. I also plan on marrying a woman who shares at least shares similar professional aspirations as me, I don't plan on marrying someone who still works retail in their late-20s or who plans on being a stay-at-home mom.

So u wanna get married but have no clue to who?

U want to spend the rest of your life with someone but have not the slightest clue today who this person is, u just know somewhere out there there's someone you need to complete you?

Crazy how this desperate line of thinking is what people go out into the dating world with and wonder why most marriages don't last

 

[JQ Legend]

Actually it is. "Keeping a man" can't be quantified.
There was a time when women were considered property, there was a time when women could not break into most professional spheres or go to college, there was a time when women were not allowed to have credit cards (until 1974), and where their adulthood tended to depend on men.
"Keeping a man" means absolutely nothing at all.
The reason I don't plan on dating a broke women is the same reason women don't plan on dating a broke man: they're a liability, and they aren't useful for advancing my life.
I love creative women, but I don't have time for a starving artist.

Could've sworn I said all that in the very post u replied to

And women complain about not being able to keep a man

How is that not able to be quantified?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Yep went through this with an ex. Dude lost his job and then refused to help around the house. I would come home to a dirty house, no food and my dogs not walked or they had gone to the bathroom on themselves b/c they could no longer hold it (which he wouldn't clean up). So I was paying all the bills, cleaning the whole house by myself and on top of that the sex wasn't good. That's not partnership and no that is not what I signed up for. I can do bad all by myself and I don't need you around running up the bills and eating the food. Life is easier/better without him.

I swear ya'll men love to demonize women b/c we expect more out of a partner than dikk. shyt is so stupid.

 

[JQ Legend]

Yep went through this with an ex. Dude lost his job and then refused to help around the house. I would come home to a dirty house, no food and my dogs not walked or they had gone to the bathroom on themselves b/c they could no longer hold it (which he wouldn't clean up). So I was paying all the bills, cleaning the whole house by myself and on top of that the sex wasn't good. That's not partnership and no that is not what I signed up for. I can do bad all by myself and I don't need you around running up the bills and eating the food. Life is easier/better without him.

I swear ya'll men love to demonize women b/c we expect more out of a partner than dikk. shyt is so stupid.

This is something completely different to what I'm talking about

U were right to lose interest and or walk away from that situation

I at no point said a woman should take care of a man especially one who does absolutely nothing to contribute

I'm talking about specifically looking for a dude with an excessive amount of money and or giving up on/not giving a chance to a man who's at least trying but happens to be in hard times at the moment

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This is something completely different to what I'm talking about

U were right to lose interest and or walk away from that situation

I at no point said a woman should take care of a man especially one who does absolutely nothing to contribute

I'm talking about specifically looking for a dude with an excessive amount of money and or giving up on/not giving a chance to a man who's at least trying but happens to be in hard times at the moment

But you have no idea under what circumstances those marriages were in to say that that was the case. Lack of money is stressful and shows you the true character of someone. You're being too black and white when relationships are very complex and multifaceted.

 

[EndDomination]

So u wanna get married but have no clue to who?

U want to spend the rest of your life with someone but have not the slightest clue today who this person is, u just know somewhere out there there's someone you need to complete you?

Crazy how this desperate line of thinking is what people go out into the dating world with and wonder why most marriages don't last

??? Are you sure you're responding to the right post? None of what you are saying has anything to do with what I'm saying.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

My broke, unstable ass is so happy to be free of the burden of female tyranny. I can, again, live my life for me. I no longer have to feel less than or inadequate. I no longer, have to chase and be at the mercy of some shiftless hiring manager and go through hoops for some shyt I don't want to do for my entire life. I'll be a starving artist. . Keep playing and eventually I'll hit the jackpot. Long as I can contribute to my son's well-being then I'll sleep better. Motherfukkers don't check on me. The selfish, focused and heartless win at life.

 

[mcdivit85]

He was married with two kids...

His dream was detrimental to the commitment he made... He should have kept his dreams a hobby until it was profitable

Would you feel the same way if the situation were reversed? Would you clown a female family member for doing the same?

Peace

 

[JQ Legend]

But you have no idea under what circumstances those marriages were in to say that that was the case. Lack of money is stressful and shows you the true character of someone. You're being too black and white when relationships are very complex and multifaceted.

Where did I say that's the case with all these marriages?

I fukkin agreed with u and u still arguing

I clearly stated where I'm coming from. It's one thing to lose interest in a bum anf something totally different to give up on someone because they're struggling at the moment

??? Are you sure you're responding to the right post? None of what you are saying has anything to do with what I'm saying.

U are planning a future marriage with someone who as of right now is a complete stranger