years ago. i went on a couple of dates with a chick who told me her grandmother told her that her first marriage should be for money, and that the second time u marry should be for love.
when you grow up being fed this type of foolishness by those who were ur elders, u grow up actually believing this is the right thing to do. u grow up completely numb to the pain u could be causing to the person who's money u''re taking.
thats why when i hear of a man doing a woman dirty (unless i know the woman personally and can vouch for her good nature), i dont feel bad at all.
i say all this to say to u youngins out there, in ur dealings with women, u better stay very sharp. the best measure of a good natured woman is to see how selfless she is FOR YOU! what is she doing for u???? is she cooking? when u got sick, did u have to ask her to do anything for u or did she do it on her own accord? is she happy just being around u no matter what u two are doing or is she always wanting to be doing sh1t or being in public where she can satisfy her thirst for attention from other men????