Has Fighting For Your Woman (when she’s done) Ever Worked?

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

only way to get a broad back is thru “no contact”. All that standing outside in the rain throwing pebbles at her bedroom window is just Hollywood dramatics.

When I say “no contact” I mean no text, no email, no phone calls, no hanging out etc. She gotta see what life is like w/o you and ain’t shyt out here but Spain but without the “S” and she gotta feel that.

This recently worked for me as I had a breakup in late December and she just hit me up this month about hanging out and her message was the most respectful she’s ever been during the relationship. For me she was flagrant in the breakup, so I can’t take her back. But for you brehs who had more amicable breakups then this method works but only if you were a decent guy.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Nope.

 

[Chrishaune]

The side effect of going too hard and doing it to early. Give them space, so they can fantasize.

Women are what they are.

You can still find women that want stable relationships though.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

A girl broke it off with me because she found out i was watching porn on her son's computer while he was at school and she was at work.

The next day, I went up to her job in my business suit and told her I been on 2 job interviews already and about to go on a 3rd.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I'd like to ask the question if anyone has ever got their woman back this way


I mean I have, but it never lasted fr fr

i wouldn’t even want her back.

 

[MoveForward]

Nope… She has to come crawling back but remember it’s only because she got smutted out and realized the streets weren’t for her.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

worked on me.

stopped fukking with my man for a minute last year cuz he .... had a lot going on
but he made several grand gestures NYE. we back

idk if i was really "done" though. def was in love with him but my brain/ego wasn't going to continue on without some major changes
good thing he is smart and figured it out, idk what i'd do without him

 

[Ohene]

Never



not even once in human history

lmao
seems like the answer is a resounding no. and its a damn shame. lord knows ive learned the hard way

 

[Ohene]

worked on me.

stopped fukking with my man for a minute last year cuz he .... had a lot going on
but he made several grand gestures NYE. we back

idk if i was really "done" though. def was in love with him but my brain/ego wasn't going to continue on without some major changes
good thing he is smart and figured it out, idk what i'd do without him

i hope that it isnt short lived and works out for yall

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i hope that it isnt short lived and works out for yall

it's probably some BS tbh but i'm a sucker for love
but he is cool, i think we can still be cool if it doesn't work.

 

[Hyperion]

If I have to chase, that implies she's running. And if that's the case, why pursue someone who doesn't want you? I'd rather save the energy for something else.

Plus if I have to "fight" for it, now we're just playing mind games instead of communicating how we really feel. I'm not a circus lion, why am I jumping through hoops? If it's done, then it's done.

 

[MJ Truth]

I did it when I was 18, and yeah we hooked up a few times but we never got back together

But now I could never.

It worked for me before, in a sense, a couple of times. But all it really did was just prolong the relationship and we ended up breaking up later anyway, pretty much for the same shyt, so essentially I just wasted my time.

 

[Ohene]

it's probably some BS tbh but i'm a sucker for love
but he is cool, i think we can still be cool if it doesn't work.

i dont know yall business but to be honest it doesnt have to be bullshyt. over time yall will either regress to the mean and break up for the same reason yall did originally. Or, yall will change, compromise and keep the relationship going. Hopefully its the latter. Just remember it takes two and you cant get everything you want in one nikka

 

[MJ Truth]

If I have to chase, that implies she's running. And if that's the case, why pursue someone who doesn't want you? I'd rather save the energy for something else.

Plus if I have to "fight" for it, now we're just playing mind games instead of communicating how we really feel. I'm not a circus lion, why am I jumping through hoops? If it's done, then it's done.

Chasing doesn’t imply she’s running. What chasing does imply is that you’re below the level she’s at, whether she’s running or she’s just standing there. That may or may not be real life true, depends on the situation (as we all know sometimes a woman just THINKS she’s at a higher level, but her belief influences the dude to believe the same), so therefore the chase may or may not be worth it (plus the ego hit).

 

[Ohene]

It worked for me before, in a sense, a couple of times. But all it really did was just prolong the relationship and we ended up breaking up later anyway, pretty much for the same shyt, so essentially I just wasted my time.

exactly. i think thats why most people are saying it doesnt work.

i find that there are two types of people. 1) the type who run as soon as they are discontent, and 2) the type who have a long term vision and understand the ebbs and flows or give and take of a relationship and aim to learn from or work through discontent

every time a girl got on some questionable wishy washy shyt early on and i reassured her, she just ended up having the same concerns down the road and breaking up. The whole "its not you its me" thing might be a cliche, but in reality its very true a lot of the time.