Has Fighting For Your Woman (when she’s done) Ever Worked?

[EffYou]

Eh... too much effort. That energy could be spent meeting someone new and kicking things off with that person

 

[J.E.T.S]

That part.

Did it work Breh?

I am gonna use my powers of estimation to say 'no'

I tried it like a mf the first time. Then kinda half assed the second time.. Cause I remembered from the first time.

After that. Fukc it. Have fun Hun. You say you're gone then I take it at face value. Peace.. and I truly mean it. All the best Love. It was great fun.

Cause it really is futile.

Now how do you know when she's done done? Sometimes you'll have a back and.forth thing with a woman who is still on fire for you..

What I'm speaking on is when that fire in her eyes dies. To me it's that icy stare that lets me know she's gone. She just shrugs and isn't one bit agitated. She's annoyed by even talking to you.

Ahhh yes… the good ole cold shoulder, silent treatment, and no intimacy.

I remember this lmao.. shyt hurted. I remember I was trying to “fix” things.. I made reservations to this nice restaurant and she agreed to it. When it was almost time to go, she went out with her cousins instead.

I’m laughing now, but I wanted to kill that bytch for that dirty and hurtful shyt back then lol. Never mind the fact that she was done because I got busted cheating.

 

[J.E.T.S]

I'd like to ask the question if anyone has ever got their woman back this way


I mean I have, but it never lasted fr fr

Yes, after some begging & “talking to the lady”.

Lasted about a year. A year full of a difficult and uncompromising woman, thanks to the lost of respect because of my simp actions.

 

[SwagmundFreud]

Man my “ex” or whatever she is of 5 years got in to a argument with me and told me to leave and I did but I left permanently. She did not expect that but I had to teach her a lesson. I still miss her from time to time but she fukked up. Don’t burn bridges you have to cross, folks.

 

[Ohene]

That part.

Did it work Breh?

I am gonna use my powers of estimation to say 'no'

I tried it like a mf the first time. Then kinda half assed the second time.. Cause I remembered from the first time.

After that. Fukc it. Have fun Hun. You say you're gone then I take it at face value. Peace.. and I truly mean it. All the best Love. It was great fun.

Cause it really is futile.

Now how do you know when she's done done? Sometimes you'll have a back and.forth thing with a woman who is still on fire for you..

What I'm speaking on is when that fire in her eyes dies. To me it's that icy stare that lets me know she's gone. She just shrugs and isn't one bit agitated. She's annoyed by even talking to you.

 

[J.E.T.S]

it's probably some BS tbh but i'm a sucker for love
but he is cool, i think we can still be cool if it doesn't work.

what makes people think they can be friends after a breakup when they couldn’t even be friends within the relationship?

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

No

You're more likely to win the lottery

 

[Ohene]

it seems like as a man you always have to maintain the upper hand in the relationship. as soon as they get it and sustain it it is a wrap. thats why the only way to "win" them back is by not trying at all and just going ghost when they break up. The harder you try the weaker you look.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

what makes people think they can be friends after a breakup when they couldn’t even be friends within the relationship?

don't project your toxic shyt on me. we are friends in the relationship, just there are issues that are not conducive to a romantic relationship. it's not issues i raise my voice or fight over so i'm always cordial, nice, respectful, all that... and i don't burn bridge. an "issue" doesn't always have to be a shyt show.

i tend to be cool with the exes i dont got no beef

 

[WonderCheeks]

My last boyfriend is trying to get me back. We did not have a good relationship. He would say I was too good for him, then ten minutes later I’m too fat. I’m too nerdy. I’m too friendly why is that guy talking to you? He was always showering me with gifts but talking to me like a dog. He ended it because I’m too white acting and he wanted what his friends had. The pretty wives in the right sororities, they go to mega churches and drive luxury cars and have big homes (mind you the same women he called gold diggers or shrill and cold). He liked the optics of what his supposedly miserable friends have and decided he wants that, too. Now he’s trying to come back and apologizing. He’s telling everyone I didn’t fight to keep him (I didn’t, if you want to leave I know there’s no point in trying to change your mind). He “forgot” my birthday last year and in the past month since our breakup I have received four dozen flowers, digital gift cards, edible arrangements, he’s sent my favorite dinners to my apartment several times (I always turn it down so the Uber driver gets a free meal). For Valentine’s Day he sent me a newer model Apple Watch than what I have, I had to sit at an Apple store for two hours yesterday to turn it in because they wouldn’t let me just leave it at the counter. He wants to go live his Hillman, Cosby show, perfect black family fantasy at 45 and all of the women he’s meeting aren’t what they seem. I’m keeping my fat, “white” ass away from him.

 

[WonderCheeks]

what makes people think they can be friends after a breakup when they couldn’t even be friends within the relationship?

I am 40 and just learned this lesson a few years ago. More people need to hear this.

 

[EffYou]

it seems like as a man you always have to maintain the upper hand in the relationship. as soon as they get it and sustain it it is a wrap. thats why the only way to "win" them back is by not trying at all and just going ghost when they break up. The harder you try the weaker you look.

Facts, power corrupts and women tend to be abusive. If they have the upper hand then you’re in for a rough ride. That 50/50 shyt don’t exist

 

[J.E.T.S]

don't project your toxic shyt on me. we are friends in the relationship, just there are issues that are not conducive to a romantic relationship. it's not issues i raise my voice or fight over so i'm always cordial, nice, respectful, all that... and i don't burn bridge. an "issue" doesn't always have to be a shyt show.

i tend to be cool with the exes i dont got no beef

oh ok. Well y’all good then. Good luck to you two.

 

[Billie Jean]

My last boyfriend is trying to get me back. We did not have a good relationship. He would say I was too good for him, then ten minutes later I’m too fat. I’m too nerdy. I’m too friendly why is that guy talking to you? He was always showering me with gifts but talking to me like a dog. He ended it because I’m too white acting and he wanted what his friends had. The pretty wives in the right sororities, they go to mega churches and drive luxury cars and have big homes (mind you the same women he called gold diggers or shrill and cold). He liked the optics of what his supposedly miserable friends have and decided he wants that, too. Now he’s trying to come back and apologizing. He’s telling everyone I didn’t fight to keep him (I didn’t, if you want to leave I know there’s no point in trying to change your mind). He “forgot” my birthday last year and in the past month since our breakup I have received four dozen flowers, digital gift cards, edible arrangements, he’s sent my favorite dinners to my apartment several times (I always turn it down so the Uber driver gets a free meal). For Valentine’s Day he sent me a newer model Apple Watch than what I have, I had to sit at an Apple store for two hours yesterday to turn it in because they wouldn’t let me just leave it at the counter. He wants to go live his Hillman, Cosby show, perfect black family fantasy at 45 and all of the women he’s meeting aren’t what they seem. I’m keeping my fat, “white” ass away from him.

That's some serious lovebombing

Wishing you the best!

 

[J.E.T.S]

My last boyfriend is trying to get me back. We did not have a good relationship. He would say I was too good for him, then ten minutes later I’m too fat. I’m too nerdy. I’m too friendly why is that guy talking to you? He was always showering me with gifts but talking to me like a dog. He ended it because I’m too white acting and he wanted what his friends had. The pretty wives in the right sororities, they go to mega churches and drive luxury cars and have big homes (mind you the same women he called gold diggers or shrill and cold). He liked the optics of what his supposedly miserable friends have and decided he wants that, too. Now he’s trying to come back and apologizing. He’s telling everyone I didn’t fight to keep him (I didn’t, if you want to leave I know there’s no point in trying to change your mind). He “forgot” my birthday last year and in the past month since our breakup I have received four dozen flowers, digital gift cards, edible arrangements, he’s sent my favorite dinners to my apartment several times (I always turn it down so the Uber driver gets a free meal). For Valentine’s Day he sent me a newer model Apple Watch than what I have, I had to sit at an Apple store for two hours yesterday to turn it in because they wouldn’t let me just leave it at the counter. He wants to go live his Hillman, Cosby show, perfect black family fantasy at 45 and all of the women he’s meeting aren’t what they seem. I’m keeping my fat, “white” ass away from him.

nothing worst then your partner directly/indirectly letting you know you’re not good enough for them.

it’s sad. Like, why even get serious with this “unworthy” person to begin.