Has your intelligence ever affected your relationships?

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I understand what you saying but i disagree.

The shyt im into takes a certain level of intelligence to speak on. And I refuse to dumb myself down to talk to anyone seriously. We can chill have fun and all that but i cant be serious with a chick that i have to explain everything to...you are not my fukkin child.

Its personally the biggest issue i have with females i might fukk around and start talking about the Syrian Regime or parlay with my nikkas about war tactics or some shyt while she might sit there like :wtf:

Everybody isnt into everything but if im not learning from her and she not learning from me then the relationship is fukked from jump.

The problem is being "smart" isn't the cool shyt among the ethnic communities (sans Asian). I'll sacrifice being colloquial with 80% of the population if it means i get a chick thats EXACTLY what i want mentally...

i mean hell, the fact that people are debating shyt on the Coli (in most cases) objectively places you in a cut above the average nikka. Most ho's cant even articulate why they like meek millz

I dont need to dumb myself down. I just showcase another aspect of my personality. Also my girlfriend was born in China so alot of times im educating her on various concepts of speech, ideas and grammar. Shes sharp but the woman who is as sharp or sharper then me is a cold bytch who is going to get on my NERVES! I dont need a challenge. I just need someone who can call me out when im doing something wrong or making a bad financial decision. My lady has an accounting degree so im covered. I dont need her to break down Inception for me.
 

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I dont need to dumb myself down. I just showcase another aspect of my personality. Also my girlfriend was born in China so alot of times im educating her on various concepts of speech, ideas and grammar. Shes sharp but the woman who is as sharp or sharper then me is a cold bytch who is going to get on my NERVES! I dont need a challenge. I just need someone who can call me out when im doing something wrong or making a bad financial decision. My lady has an accounting degree so im covered. I dont need her to break down Inception for me.

i dig, like i said i understand the feeling....idk i just like a chick that I can trade barbs with....I might spend fukkin 25 minutes talking about Game Of Thrones and the nature of its dialouge...a chick that can hang with me on that type of shyt is sexy as hell to me.
 

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i dig, like i said i understand the feeling....idk i just like a chick that I can trade barbs with....I might spend fukkin 25 minutes talking about Game Of Thrones and the nature of its dialouge...a chick that can hang with me on that type of shyt is sexy as hell to me.

You do realize you're going to marry an ugly woman right?
 

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I couldn't date anyone , seriously or not, who didn't have at least above average intelligence. We just wouldn't vibe. Our conversations would be pretty limited and I'd be :what: in my head.

All the women I've ever loved have been cool, overachieving nerdy chicks who just had a natural thirst for knowledge.

how do you measure intelligence?
 

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:ooh:

can't lie that was a good one........


But not really, i actually been coming across a lot of em in my life. (at least to my standards)

So meh.

Ugly or cute but bat shyt crazy. Women with a high level of intelligence who are fly are typically neurotic and or bossy. You honestly should pray that she is ugly because at least this way she will be humble.

*looks into my crystal ball*
*gasps*

I see a lot of dishwashing, laundry and castration in your future.
 

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not so much intelligence. the greatest differences i've experienced or had to deal with were cultural differences. it seems like every woman i've been with i've never had to alter my "intelligence" level or dumb down myself nor have i ever felt that they've had to dumb themselves down either. it's more like we'd both have to open ourselves up in a way where we were trying to be conscious and understand exactly what we would say to each other...

Yeah that's been mine. And it can be a struggle.
 

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Ugly or cute but bat shyt crazy. Women with a high level of intelligence who are fly are typically neurotic and or bossy. You honestly should pray that she is ugly because at least this way she will be humble.

*looks into my crystal ball*
*gasps*

I see a lot of dishwashing, laundry and castration in your future.

crazy i can deal with lol :smugfavre:
 

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I've been guilty of dumbing myself down around women at times, I guess I'm a little scared of coming off as a nerd. :laugh:

But I try not to do so.
 

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yeah my intelligence is very high and i have a very low tolerance for stupidity so it affects a lot of my relationships
 
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