Have you ever been cheated on?

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

I'm sorry but

How did she fall off, but you ended up being cheated on?

p*ssy is the easiest thing in the world to slang. Toss that shyt like a boomerang, some nikka is going to follow the scent back to it's home and run up in it.

 

[Remote]

Yep. I was blind sided. We were seriously talking about getting married. I had no idea until I caught him slipping on some "butt dial" BS. Heard the whole convo so I rolled up over his crib and sure enough...

He begged and begged for me to come back. But I didn't have any respect for him as a man.

Wow. What a way to find out.
That sucks.

 

[Seea]

Yeah. We're not together anymore but he probably still thinks I don't know.

 

[DuncanWebayama]

wow, "toss that p*ssy" jesus christ yall don't respect females?

 

[Pursuit & Seduction]

Yeah. We're not together anymore but he probably still thinks I don't know.

Wow! I would never cheat on a girl like you. I think you're awesome. Your posts is the best.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

wow, "toss that p*ssy" jesus christ yall don't respect females?

Reality ≠ disrespect. As we've all been told, the oldest profession in this world is what? Here you had a woman wanting to give it away. Of course someone is going to fall into that. It's a no-brainer.

 

[DuncanWebayama]

Reality ≠ disrespect. As we've all been told, the oldest profession in this world is what? Here you had a woman wanting to give it away. Of course someone is going to fall into that. It's a no-brainer.

lol so every girl deserve to have their p*ssy tossed? Fasho, how bout your daughter?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

Yeah, got divorced because of it.

how did you find out she is cheating? how did she find dude? work? how is co parenting coming along for the sake of the child?

Yep. It was blatant and messy. Ironically, we are still together.

what happened?

Thick rican jawn in 2010
She told me that she wanted to be exclusive and settle down
I went with it
We were friends for 2 years before we started dating and getting serious
so i thought that she would NEVER do me dirty like that
well, we were 2gether that whole summer, going on dates, etc..
her friend was even saying she is happy for us etc..
shyt was getting serious
then every sunday we were supposed to chill, she just stopped hitting me up and telling
me when to come over
we went on a few dates and then one night, i found a picture of another nikka in her phone
stalked her facebook and noticed theyve been interacting a lot
i swear -- one night after a date i think she called him and was acting like it was her girlfriend
i dropped her off, tried to go inside but she said no because her step-dad would cockblock
looking back, i think he came over or she went to his crib that night
and i out here paying for fukken dates and shyt

these hoes aint shyt but at least im happy now

did she cheat? or were you hoping she cheated?

Got much worse before it got better. It was over 8 years and it just started to bother me much less. I cheat subconsciously now. Not proud of it but shyt happens.

how do you cheat subconsciously?

yeah. it sucked. and i was dumb enough to continue dating him for 2 more years.

never again.

how did you find out?

Yes, once when i was 22...i figured out her FB password and went through them messages

I could of murdered somebody that day

what did the messages say? who was she communicating with?

ya i just look at it like this aint shyt i can do bout it nor am i gonna sweat it and try too find out
it is what it is ( dont get me wrong if shyt is blatant obvious then i will get dirt and just expose her after i dip and take everything from her when she aint home with only her shyt left and note with pics or texts of what she did)

if I'm doing right by her and she does it sure its gonna hurt but i can say i did right by her and treated her well and thats her lost not mines so she can kick rocks and try to replace a guy like me but she won't

did she ask for her stuff back? what did the messages/pics say?

its worst when they give u the password and they still do it and you read all that shyt like then then

wtf? she made is seam she was not cheating, but was cheating? what happened?

i found out through a keylogger one of the two times ive been cheated on in my life

what did you find?

I am not ashamed but I didn't find out the details until she was already pregnant. Like I said messy.

what details did you find? how was it messy?

Did you ask them why they took him back?

I only took him back cause he was the only constant thing in my life at the time. I was mad young I didn't know any better, I didn't understand what a healthy relationship was supposed to be like. A lot of people are fortunate enough to see that with their parents and I didn't, I had nothing to base it off of. Plus emotionally, physically, and mentally I was cut off so he went and looked for that somewhere else.

did you cheat?

 

[AlreadyKnow]

Yeah I could see that. I guess I have seen it.
Really disappointing stuff though, but I guess if people aren't happy...

I mean I would just wish that a girl would come at me directly and just say stuff instead of scheming and discussing with her friends about where our relationship should be at, or should be heading.

Women are talkers. We like to rationalize and feel supported. If its to the point where she wants out, she's done her own version of trying to talk to you and felt it didn't work. I'm speaking generally.

 

[Remote]

Women are talkers. We like to rationalize and feel supported. If its to the point where she wants out, she's done her own version of trying to talk to you and felt it didn't work. I'm speaking generally.

I can understand that.
But I think I'd take a small beef with the part above that says "she's done her own version of trying to talk to you..."

I feel like that's a childish game. Own version? There are no versions of your feelings or the truth. Just be direct. If I am in a relationship with a woman and she doesn't love me anymore, just say that. No matter what, feelings are going to be crushed. But I'm just too old, or lacking in patience to have to deal with a woman trying to let me down gently by coming up with some winding, weird excuse. It's patronizing. Or condescending. Or...I don't know what the word is.

And I understand that a lot of women are talkers. Check that. A lot of people are talkers. Men and women. But this "I've made up my mind but I want my friends to co-sign my feelings under the guise of advice" is just garbage.

 

[Elle Driver]

did you cheat?

No.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

No.

why not? its really fun when you dont get caught

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

No.

Good. treat relationships as the way you want to be treated.

 

[Elle Driver]

why not? its really fun when you dont get caught

I'd cheat on you.

 

[AlreadyKnow]

I can understand that.
But I think I'd take a small beef with the part above that says "she's done her own version of trying to talk to you..."

I feel like that's a childish game. Own version? There are no versions of your feelings or the truth. Just be direct. If I am in a relationship with a woman and she doesn't love me anymore, just say that. No matter what, feelings are going to be crushed. But I'm just too old, or lacking in patience to have to deal with a woman trying to let me down gently by coming up with some winding, weird excuse. It's patronizing. Or condescending. Or...I don't know what the word is.

And I understand that a lot of women are talkers. Check that. A lot of people are talkers. Men and women. But this "I've made up my mind but I want my friends to co-sign my feelings under the guise of advice" is just garbage.

I said own version because I realize I'm on a male dominated website. The impression I get from here is talking= nagging. Or being too needy or needing to shut up. So it's my impression that there seems to be different views of what "talking" is and how it's executed. Hope that made sense.

I feel when mentally sound people (not psychos or any other extreme exception) in relationships look for co-signers, it's because they are questioning themselves and their boyfriend or girlfriend is not providing the security needed to make them feel comfortable.