I'm lost at the fact that some of the brehs in here talk down to the women who cheated but turn around and post that they cheated too. Both of you are wrong, it doesn't matter if you used a p*ssy or dikk to cheat it's still fukked up.
Have you ever cheated or had an affair?
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Do I think I would be with the guy NOW honestly, no. Would I probably have left my man for him if he wouldn't have showed his colors....sadly...yes.
That's why I said in an earlier post that he did me a HUGE favor by breaking my heart... It would have been a huge mistake.
In the words of Kevin Hart.
Did i cheat on her, yes.
Do i wish i could take it back, no
Did i cheat on her, yes.
Do i wish i could take it back, no
Do you even love your husband? Damn
Everything from your husband point of view, is he sees what he got in me. He didnt wanna lose me. But you really was in love with the next man. Deep down sounds like you just settled. ....
You mean the type of pull that makes you a "side bytch"?Doesn't that make it sadder that I have that kind of pull?
My shirt is crispthe irony
She was just FUkKING around she was gonna come right back
Only reason the next man felt "sad" is he gave up that easy, cheatin, single momma (at the time not married) p*ssy.
Nope 
I can't speak from my husband's point of view. The only thing I can go by is what HE said to ME.
Back then he treated me like shyt and those are the times that we are speaking of in this thread. But there have been MANYYYY different instances where I have sang his praises on the Coli. Since we have been back together he's shown me that he is capable of changing and has been busting his ass to make up for where he once went wrong.
Please believe I don't need to "settle" for anyone. If I wanted to be somewhere else then I would be and I sure as hell wouldn't have attached myself more by marrying him.
People are capable of change and people CAN fall out of love and then eventually find it again with the same person. I love my man. There's no one else on Earth that will do what he has done for me. I know that now and so does he.
I can respect that.
Just a few questions..
So if the sex was better - and he made you feel more comfortable than your own husband is this an indication that something may be wrong in your marriage? you said you did things you thought you never would etc...
Why does it sound like you have an ego - Your side dude looked sad - you husband knows what he got etc.. it almost seems like you see yourself above your husband.
If your husband cheated now what would be the outcome?
I respect the honesty to an extent though..
I can respect that. To each his own.@Bliss was cool peeps and was one of the people I first talked to when I joined up. Didn't find out until later that people were saying unpleasant things about her but I was
because regardless what she identify as she was nice to me and we had shyt in common
Do you think you'll cheat again?