Have you ever dated a woman who was raped/molested?

[A Woman's Opinion]

LOL, so many simp nikkas repeating white feminist mantras
the modern definition of rape is bullshyt and is of no meaning. Its the same bullshyt definition that they use to throw nikkas in jail. Do you know FBI statistics ACTUALLY try to paint a picture that black male rape of white women is a national epidemic whilst claiming that the white male rape against black women is nonexistant??

I have met plenty of women with "rape stories". They were all full of shyt. Too many dumb hoes watch an afternoon special and suddenly think their ex rape them because he got a little hungry for the p*ssy. Then these same fools will clown a dude for not "wanting it enough" when she invites herself to his house and doesnt give him any play.

 

[MindOverMatter]

Please don't feed or acknowledge it. Just don't.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

I'm gonna stop you right here because I can see the enourmous amount of feelings being caught from people intentionally taking what I say out of context. Not to invalidate the rest of what you wrote because I agree with a good amount

I'm talking as a man to other men who claim most if not all the women they meet have been raped or molested. If that's the case I'm saying where they meet women is playing a bigger part in that that they expect.

It's funny because if these dudes were judging women off of the symptoms of sexual abuse then claiming all they meet are "hoes, gold diggers, thots who chase abusive men" yall would be on some "choose better" "that's cause all yall look for is hoes and you ignore blahblahblah" "this is what you get for chasing ig thots" etc. but instead now nikkas will insinuate that majority of black women are rape victims/damaged just for the sake of disagreeing with me

I'll just drop facts and leave the spinning to you guys

Source https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/fvsv9410.pdf



How are poverty and sexual violence related? | Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape (PCAR)



https://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/22/...-rape-and-sexual-assault-in-america.html?_r=0

I'm not doubting those numbers. But that also has to do with access. I said in my post...

PREDATORS PREY ON SINGLE MOTHERS & PREOCCUPIED MOTHERS.

A poor mother working two jobs to get by, and dropping her kids off at her sisters house to be watched.... The little girls aunts had four sons, and a boyfriend and all her sons friends in and out the house. This is when it happens.

Read my words carefully. If you have a daughter. Do not allow boys/men around her out of your eye sight! It's crucial.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Please don't feed or acknowledge it. Just don't.

Lord have mercy. The scariest thing is it believes what it types.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

You clearly need more than just opportunity to commit these types of acts. You have to have some perverted sense of thinking as well. Your GAF gauge has to be on a lower level.

As a man raising a 9yo daughter whose already developing lm constantly on her about safety/awareness around strangers & honesty and openess between us. I realize many victims never even speak out about abuse because they fear being judged and that fear is real and understandable. I've really come to accept that chances are she'll be an uncomfortable sexual situation some day. I'm just doing everything I can to make sure it's not while I'm alive & breathing, or that she will be mentally & physically prepared.

shyt stressful

The AGE of the perpetrator is relevant too.

For example... a 9-12 year old boy molesting his 6 year old sister. What sense of thinking do they have? They prolly have been pre exposed to something perverted too. Possible molestation. More than likely the easy access they have to porn on phones and tablets.

 

[Kenny West]

I'm not doubting those numbers. But that also has to do with access. I said in my post...

PREDATORS PREY ON SINGLE MOTHERS & PREOCCUPIED MOTHERS.

A poor mother working two jobs to get by, and dropping her kids off at her sisters house to be watched.... The little girls aunts had four sons, and a boyfriend and all her sons friends in and out the house. This is when it happens.

Read my words carefully. If you have a daughter. Do not allow boys/men around her out of your eye sight! It's crucial.

No doubt. After watching that Netflix documentary The Keepers...shyt is real outchea. And the law be getting in on it too Makes me not wanna have a daughter

Maybe a stay at home parent really is ideal

 

[SheWantTheD]

This. Very sad statistic.

So have men. And I can say that most women sexually assault women more so than men.

A lot of women take advantage of their friends or people they know when drunk or on drugs.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Don't know but most likely not.

If these women still have major unresolved issues, they don't need to be dating let alone having sex.

 

[Neuromancer]

I mean, probably.

 

[Neuromancer]

Don't know but most likely not.

If these women still have major unresolved issues, they don't need to be dating let alone having sex.

Why not? Aren't they entitled to happiness?

 

[SheWantTheD]

Why not? Aren't they entitled to happiness?

Can you read breh? They need to resolve their issues to a point where they can have healthy relationships and sexual relationships without destroying themselves.

Did I say they should stay single for the rest of their lives?

 

[J.E.T.S]

Yeah. She said her uncle was 18 at the time and she was 13. He came to stay and used to fukk her for about 3 months until he moved out. Threatened her and everything.

She had alot of emotional hangups. Loved fukking... would take it in the butt and everything...

She would fukk any nikka that she thought loved her. #uglygang and all... her two baby daddies are as fukk.

After I saw them I didn't even want her anymore.

She is cute as hell too. Slim thick. A damn shame and waste for all that finest to belong to the game.

 

[Neuromancer]

Can you read breh? They need to resolve their issues to a point where they can have healthy relationships and sexual relationships without destroying themselves.

Did I say they should stay single for the rest of their lives?

Was being facetious breh, relax.

 

[SuperGrizzy]

I DO NOT want to undermine what these women have gone through and the trauma that they deal wit; if this has happened to you or a loved one I'm really sorry, brehettes.

With that being said, yeah. Most the couple that I have encountered have been really open with me on a sexual level. Probably because I'm come off as non-threatening to them or some shyt . But I've have and they were pretty out there about it.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

man this thread is all types of fukked up


it seems like every black family or at least a high % of us have some uncle or cousin in the family who was either a heavy drug user, or has some history of abuse or have a history of molestiing kids I even grew up and knew of boys and girls when I was younger who experienced this in elementary school


found out one of my eldest uncles was molested when he was younger and I always wondered why my moms always would me mad overprotective of me when he was around, but he never tried anything on me and my sister EVER despite that happening to him.


but at least 6-7 out of10 women I come across have been molested And dealing with them on a intimate level is a real challenge.