Have you ever dated someone who had stronger feelings for you than you had for them?

[resurrection]

That's the second reason why I think that it wouldn't work. The first is that the women will probably be taken advantage of.

Yeah.. I never took advantage of that girl though. I was kind and treated her well, but she always wanted deeper levels of commitment, more exclusivity, etc. while simultaneously being so scared of me that she couldn't do some of the simplest stuff I was asking for. Just couldn't work

 

[Docaveli]

I think this should be an ideal situation for the average male. Women are more sought after by everyone in the dating game so you can lose your female at any moment and you are back to square one.

Therefore for you to even have a glimmer of hope that your woman will be faithful, amongst other things, she should at the minimum love you more than you love her.

This is not to say things will still be kosher, but it is better than the alternative in my opinion.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

once.

I never truly appreciated this song until years later when I found myself in this situation.


She was

I was

 

[Hyperion]

Then why did you make this thread ho

She's just trying to flex. Bless her soul. Not sure exactly what proof she wants, even if we told her our experiences, it wouldn't be enough.

As for me... Yes. I did. But because I was 17 and extremely inexperienced, I ended up simping and the tables turned. It was me who liked her, more than she liked me. And it turned her off.. cause that's when the disrespect started happening. I was willing to do so much for her, I was one of the few who gave a fukk about what happened to her. Her mom ain't care all that much, her sisters didn't (Her older one was waaaaay sexier... I deadass wanted to smash, too. But I'm not about that life.) and her dad had just died... so I felt I'd be an a$$hole if I dipped out during that whole point in time. But it got so bad, I eventually had to break up with her... MSN Messenger. But in my defense, she wasn't tryna meet up with me at all, and I'm at least 80% convinced she was cheating.


...That's when she turned psycho and got her friends to threaten to kill me, and her mom *69'd my number and apparently had my address.


Later on, she started fukking with this rocker-type dude who got locked up a few times and ended up having a kid with him. A daughter. But the dude fukked off and basically abandoned both of them but supposedly he was hitting it now and again. (Word to @Emperor_ReinScarf ... What did he tell y'all about single mothers?)

Fast forward to Present Day, she's somewhere in Vancouver homeless. She doesn't have the kid anymore, and I don't even know if she's alive.

Moral of the story? bytches be crazy, and never date a girl who's uglier than her sister.

.

 

[DreadHead P]

The relationship was cool but she was moving quicker than I was ready for so I had to break it off and that was tough on me because I'm sure to her it came out of nowhere

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Well when the women has stronger feelings in my cases...(5relationships,i'm 24) the women liked being submissive. I found it odd at first because I wasn't used to it. My last girlfriend I was in a relationship for 14months. She was mexican,family was close knit, father was a big part of her life. She had no problem doing things for me without the bitterness,resentment that came with chicks i've dated before...(Shocking that the chicks who I dated before who seemed to resent being submissive were raised in single parent home?). My chick was so committed to me and our relationship that was reassuring to me because I had complete confidence I didn't have to worry about her cheating or flirting with anyone. We could both talk to each other,give advice and know that she was 100% hearing you.

I've had 4 relationships that ended horribly,4 that I regret..in those 4 the women didn't have strong feelings for me,and wanted to be dominant in the relationship all the damn time.

My women would drop food to the base while I was stuck on duty and didn't want to eat dat nasty ship chow .A chick who doesn't have strong feelings for her man would not do that. Society today has brainwashed alot of women into believing that the man should do all the worshipping while the women aren't supposed to give nothing in return.



And for the record that relationship ended because I got out the service and moved states to go back home with my mom who was having serious health problems. But we still talk and i'm pretty confident that we'll get back together as soon as I touch down back in Seattle

This is the thing, you all keep saying this, but have never experienced that type of relationship, so how would you know. You have no proof to back up anything that you are saying. It's all talk.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Well when the women has stronger feelings in my cases...(5relationships,i'm 24) the women liked being submissive. I found it odd at first because I wasn't used to it. My last girlfriend I was in a relationship for 14months. She was mexican,family was close knit, father was a big part of her life. She had no problem doing things for me without the bitterness,resentment that came with chicks i've dated before...(Shocking that the chicks who I dated before who seemed to resent being submissive were raised in single parent home?). My chick was so committed to me and our relationship that was reassuring to me because I had complete confidence I didn't have to worry about her cheating or flirting with anyone. We could both talk to each other,give advice and know that she was 100% hearing you.

I've had 4 relationships that ended horribly,4 that I regret..in those 4 the women didn't have strong feelings for me,and wanted to be dominant in the relationship all the damn time.

My women would drop food to the base while I was stuck on duty and didn't want to eat dat nasty ship chow .A chick who doesn't have strong feelings for her man would not do that. Society today has brainwashed alot of women into believing that the man should do all the worshipping while the women aren't supposed to give nothing in return.



And for the record that relationship ended because I got out the service and moved states to go back home with my mom who was having serious health problems. But we still talk and i'm pretty confident that we'll get back together as soon as I touch down back in Seattle

Gospel

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

And can I add...

I have a theory that a female raised in a household with parents in a healthy relationship are more likely to be better girlfriends?

 

[The Mad Titan]

If you want a man thats more submissive then yeah he should be into the woman more than the woman is into him. Over all most women don't want a man that's submissive until later on in life. Any decent man that's ready to settle down will tell you its hard to mess over a female that is loyal into them, and submissive. Regardless of how she looks....

 

[Tae]

Nah wasn't speaking from experience.

I've never approached or pursued a woman ever.

Just sit back and wait

Why is this a good position for men to take but not a good position for women, according to some coli brehs? Or do you agree that women should also wait and be pursued instead of being aggressive and going after a man?

 

[MikelArteta]

Why is this a good position for men to take but not a good position for women, according to some coli brehs? Or do you agree that women should also wait and be pursued instead of being aggressive and going after a man?

i dont care what people do

just speaking for myself.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I don't play with the word "Love".If I dont mean it,I'd definitely Int saying it.Just gotta be upfront.A woman can't force you to be in a relationship with her.

 

[MikelArteta]

She's just trying to flex. Bless her soul. Not sure exactly what proof she wants, even if we told her our experiences, it wouldn't be enough.

As for me... Yes. I did. But because I was 17 and extremely inexperienced, I ended up simping and the tables turned. It was me who liked her, more than she liked me. And it turned her off.. cause that's when the disrespect started happening. I was willing to do so much for her, I was one of the few who gave a fukk about what happened to her. Her mom ain't care all that much, her sisters didn't (Her older one was waaaaay sexier... I deadass wanted to smash, too. But I'm not about that life.) and her dad had just died... so I felt I'd be an a$$hole if I dipped out during that whole point in time. But it got so bad, I eventually had to break up with her... MSN Messenger. But in my defense, she wasn't tryna meet up with me at all, and I'm at least 80% convinced she was cheating.


...That's when she turned psycho and got her friends to threaten to kill me, and her mom *69'd my number and apparently had my address.


Later on, she started fukking with this rocker-type dude who got locked up a few times and ended up having a kid with him. A daughter. But the dude fukked off and basically abandoned both of them but supposedly he was hitting it now and again. (Word to @Emperor_ReinScarf ... What did he tell y'all about single mothers?)

Fast forward to Present Day, she's somewhere in Vancouver homeless. She doesn't have the kid anymore, and I don't even know if she's alive.

Moral of the story? bytches be crazy, and never date a girl who's uglier than her sister.

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she was white?

 

[Turbulent]

I have, My Ex fiance had way stronger feelings for me than I did for her, she even changed where she planned on going to school, where she was going to live and all of that. And Initially I didn't appreciate it like I should have, if I did we'd be married and together now. We got into a falling out one day, and I told her I needed to clear my mind and needed space. I told her over and over this wasn't a break up but give me a bit of time to process things, I wasn't cheating neither was she. I wanted to understand what I was getting into and the responsibility I was taking on again over and over I told her this wasn't so I could run around and play games and I just wanted to let her know what was going on if I seemed more distance than usual. This probably took more no more than 2 weeks in which we keep contact and everything the entire time.


I then started to try and show her more and more how much I appreciated her in my life. Of course the more my feelings grew the more she became blase, funny how that works out. Of course she is in a terrible situation now and wishes she would not have took me for granted. Last time I spoke with her, she told me that she can't get serious with guys because of how high I raised the bar.



Its much better for a woman to be infatuated by her man,more than the other way around. Sure men can abuse that power, but it makes for much better relationships when done right. Regardless of what a woman say's I haven't come across one that really enjoy there man being into them more they are into there man.


A man that knows how to show you attention is one thing, a man thats always up under a woman. Calling and texting, and whispering you sweet nothings is another, eventually it gets old. And become's simpish...

exactly, that's how i see it too. which is why i said in the other thread "it's better as long as the dude isn't a sociopath" the part that conveniently got ignored. meaning i personally believe that if the dude is a good man, balanced and is wise enough to lead a relationship, it's better in my opinion if the woman is more into him. because if he's more into her and is the leader of the relationship, than he's leading with his feelings first (a recipe for disaster). if the woman chose the right man, she can actually afford to be more into him cause she's not the one in the driver seat. not to say she can completely fall asleep cause she still needs to know where she's going. but at the same time she can relax more.

as far as the thread question, yes i have been in a relationship where the chick was more into me. probably my best relationship, lasted 6 years. I won't get into details but our break up had nothing to do with that. as far as if i ever rejected a girl or whatever, it has nothing to do with rejecting. TS completely missed the point cause she only sees it as ego and having the upper hand in a situation. the ex that was more into me, i didn't reject her or make her feel less cause she was more into me. I didn't make her feel like a fool for loving me. matter of fact i wanted to do right by her cause of how down she was for me. i wanted to honor what she was putting in. but i understand a lot of people on here don't want to learn from other people's truths. they just want to 1up eachother in this endless battle of the sexes...

 

[Flay Mayweather]

If you are not still with them, then it didn't work out, which proves my point. Those types don't work.


You took advantage of how much she liked you?

It doesnt prove your point.