Have you ever dated someone who had stronger feelings for you than you had for them?

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If you want a man thats more submissive then yeah he should be into the woman more than the woman is into him. Over all most women don't want a man that's submissive until later on in life. Any decent man that's ready to settle down will tell you its hard to mess over a female that is loyal into them, and submissive. Regardless of how she looks....
but they're not ready to hear these types of gems...a lot of women don't want to hear that shyt but it's some of the realest shyt. and ironically it's their greatest weapon to get anything they want from a man (again provided he's a decent man).
 

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I think balance is really the key, I've been on both side and they never work out.

If they feel you more than you feel them, ultimately little things which may not mean much to you may mean the world to them and cause a rift.Which starts the push and pull cycle. You not feeling her too much and shes sweating you, and she falls back cuz shes feeling like you dont care, which provokes you to show you do care, Everything is gucci again until your effrots arent returned and you fall back a bit. To which proveokes her to show you she does care. Cycle repeats.
 

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I think this should be an ideal situation for the average male. Women are more sought after by everyone in the dating game so you can lose your female at any moment and you are back to square one.

Therefore for you to even have a glimmer of hope that your woman will be faithful, amongst other things, she should at the minimum love you more than you love her.

This is not to say things will still be kosher, but it is better than the alternative in my opinion.
Real rap. Contrary to Westernized belief there is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship. It's always someone "chasin" the other. Only a simp mangina would love a woman more than she loves him.
 

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My most recent ex. I was 3 years older than her, and I was her first real adult relationship/boyfriend, meanwhile I had been in a few serious ones by that point. We dated for about 10 months, she told me "I Love You" and I broke up with her a few weeks later cuz I didn't think I'd ever feel the same about her.
 

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And can I add...

I have a theory that a female raised in a household with parents in a healthy relationship are more likely to be better girlfriends?

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Anecdotal but that's been my experience as well.
Nothing is set in stone and you never know who will walk into your life but I'm almost positive whatever woman rears my children will come from a two parent household.
I think witnessing a healthy male/female dynamic growing up is essential.
 
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