Having kids young gotta suck.

[shutterguy]

I'm 22 & Got in a serious relationship with a single mother w/ a 3 year old about a year ago (not about to get into that discussion) and I feel like I've already aged at least twice as fast within that time period

I work more than I ever used to, don't go out nearly as much as I used to... Hell, I barely even be posting on Instagram anymore

Put all my dreams on hold & multiplied my expenses

At least she's loyal to the soil & cooks for me every night . Truth be told I was probably way in over my head taking all this shyt on but as a man I can't back down from something I knew would be challenging & still decided to take on. I keep my word

But yeah, I sure as hell ain't getting her pregnant. Fatherhood ain't no fukkin joke. Props to anyone who can make it out without being left afterwards

for doing it. Single moms catch a lot of hate on here, I dated one, depends on the situation whether you can handle it or not. If you 2 have a some goals in mind, can get along can, and you get along with the kid, you 2 can make it work.

 

[eastsideTT]

very unpopular opinion but these "its a blessing, god will provide" people who have kids when they arent ready causes a lot of problems not only for themselves but for society as a whole. i worked in a family planning clinic back in the day and seeing 22 year old girls come in their on their 4th - 5th kid living in a shelter waiting for their nycha interview was fukkin sad man. not saying abortion is the answer either but sex education and financial education every year from 4th grade to 12th grade should be mandatory everywhere. that way even if you drop out in the 10th grade the shyt is still beat into your head. but theyd rather see us pass the Regents instead of learning real life skills. shyt is fukked up

 

[HYDRO]

Started my career at 19...can retire at 49...my youngest will graduate by the time I'm 44...still had a blast in my 20s...yall wait til your 30s fools lost

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Started my career at 19...can retire at 49...my youngest will graduate by the time I'm 44...still had a blast in my 20s...yall wait til your 30s fools lost

how we lose? I'm 27 and I'm not worrying about kids until after grad school ( Age 29). How is waiting losing?

 

[RiffRaff]

shyt is wild. about 5 people i know with 2 kids at 21.

idk how yall with a bunch of kids do it.

I went to HS in San Antonio. Having kids before 21 is like a rite of passage over there

 

[Lo-Co]

I went to HS in San Antonio. Having kids before 21 is like a rite of passage over there

 

[HYDRO]

how we lose? I'm 27 and I'm not worrying about kids until after grad school ( Age 29). How is waiting losing?

When u still have a kid in high school in your 50s...you'll understand


Let me clarify a little more...these do nothing ass mother fukker waiting to have kids in their 30s Loss

 

[Blackout]

I feel ya.

My cousin who got kids young gotta go through a lot. Every time I see him I am thankful that I didnt have kids yet.

The only thing he looks forward to these days is tax time.

 

[MWinn]

how we lose? I'm 27 and I'm not worrying about kids until after grad school ( Age 29). How is waiting losing?

Because once you hit your 40's you will still have a child in the home.

When u still have a kid in high school in your 50s...you'll understand


Let me clarify a little more...these do nothing ass mother fukker waiting to have kids in their 30s Loss

Nothing worse than everybody who had kids early taking their freedom back at 40 while those who waited are stressed out trying to keep up with everybody else who's kids are out of the house already. Also, the old parents will still be spending money to take care of their kids while we will be receiving all types of incentives from our grown "out of the house" children.

 

[HYDRO]

Because once you hit your 40's you will still have a child in the home.



Nothing worse than everybody who had kids early taking their freedom back at 40 while those who waited are stressed out trying to keep up with everybody else who's kids are out of the house already. Also, the old parents will still be spending money to take care of their kids while we will be receiving all types of incentives from our grown "out of the house" children.

Right, don't get me wrong...I partied my ass off in my early twenties and you never really stop being a parent...but as long as my kids are doing good and I can afford it...my 40s are gonna be the shyt

 

[Colin X]

When u still have a kid in high school in your 50s...you'll understand


Let me clarify a little more...these do nothing ass mother fukker waiting to have kids in their 30s Loss

This ain't the 1800s anymore breh.


You ain't gotta rush to have kids cause you know you might die soon anymore

 

[mortuus est]

have kids brehs

have stress on your head brehs

 

[HYDRO]

This ain't the 1800s anymore breh.


You ain't gotta rush to have kids cause you know you might die soon anymore

Who rushed? I wanted all my kids...it was always my plan to get the adult part of my life out the way so I can enjoy being old...you're right it's not the 1800s...life expectancy is way higher...I'd rather enjoy having my two year old crawling all over me in my 20s then be too tired in for it in my 30s and 40s...I aspired to be that old ass man rocking khaki shorts, gold chains, expensive tacky sunglasses and socks with chonclas