Hip Hop destroyed Dating & Relationships?

Cole Cash

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What's your take?

Since slavery ended, there has never been a time when the white man wasnt trying to destroy the black family. all of our attempts to establish ourselves, pull ourselves up are sabotaged over and over and over. All welfare did was provide a small amount of help to an issue that was already happening. Here in Canada staying on the reserve with my wife, indigenous people have the same problems as black people. Again, look at the conditions that were given and then expected to function like normal when everything from blockbusting, redlining, segregation, institutional racism etc make it so that while a few of us are allowed to make it, the majority stay at the bottom so that whites can dominate.

Anti welfare stances have been going on since the new deal because if people are actually getting their share of the pie as opposed to big business it doesnt bode well for capitalism as a whole. Some a$$hole from the walton family who doesnt do shyt doesnt deserve more than the poor family who cant afford to eat. Period.
 

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Social media messed up relationships.

A woman got hundreds of strange men sliding a woman's DMs everyday,


A woman can have 100s of strange men sliding through her job everyday too. Social media just opened us up to the reality of how real the options are for women. and men. It was going on before social media.

What social media and the internet did do is bring a bunch of outside ideas and opinions into individuals homes. So that probably is more of an influence in people thinking they have more options than they realistically have. An option to get smashed shouldn't be counted as an option. Does the person want to be in a long term relationship with you? More than likely not.
 

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A woman can have 100s of strange men sliding through her job everyday too. Social media just opened us up to the reality of how real the options are for women. and men. It was going on before social media.

What social media and the internet did do is bring a bunch of outside ideas and opinions into individuals homes. So that probably is more of an influence in people thinking they have more options than they realistically have. An option to get smashed shouldn't be counted as an option. Does the person want to be in a long term relationship with you? More than likely not.

Most men sliding through the DMs wouldn't have the confidence to approach in real life.
 

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Definitely social media.
I don't even have social media outside of LinkedIn, and all but 2 of the women I've dated in my life have reached out years later for dikk after they got married.
Married-life unfortunately cannot compete when every person you've ever had a physical or emotional connection with is just a click away.
 

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Was ICP mentioned?

I didn't hear it. I had it on in the background as I read other threads.

It was male hoe babble. :rudy:

It was variations of: Black women want thugs so black dudes emulate that and it's hip-hop's fault. What about all these black squares and nerds that can't get p*ssy? What about all the PAWGers that ain't checking for brehettes anyways?

Really getting sick of all these motherfukkers, a lot of coli dudes included, making this allegation that black males are so impressionable that they'll turn to a life of crime on the streets just to get girls or whatever.

nikkas watch Marvel movies and grew up watching superhero cartoons, but you don't see them out on the streets in costumes like a real-life Kick-Ass.:usure:


nikkas spent time playing FPS video games but most brehs ain't joining the military just because they played CoD. :usure:



But because I heard a dude trashing his opp from some hood in a state I've never been to Imma grab a Glock and start selling rocks to get my paper up?
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