Honest Q - What's the deal with Gen Z BW?

[cyndaquil]

There is no solution. Ignorant people will continue to be born, reproduce, and create the next generation of ignorant people. So there is no over all solution for this, but there is a personal solution you can enact for yourself and your family. You can choose your mate well through veting, listening, and being perceptive. You can raise your children well together. And your children continue a cycle of living lives that are rejections of the ignorance that is broadcasted in media.

That solution is the one my family has taken, and there are many others who have taken this path in our community. The real truth about the situation is that the loud ignorance being broadcasted is not the totality of our people, it is not the totality of our culture. So you can choose to live better, surround yourself with better, and have a positive self-image and image of our people. For me and mine, the alternative is not acceptable.

Problem here is you see how frustrating it is for people to deal with other people who are into the ignorant shyt? Its a real stressor and can be very isolating.

 

[TEH]

breh I read this dumbass post then looked at the username and I was surprised
You're a better poster than this breh...

Things aren’t as complicated asyiunmake them out to be. People are animals. When animals basic needs aren’t met they get angry.

You want to make it complex but it really isn’t that …

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Gen z women are pretty cold with men in general(excluding the ones their attracted to). Black women are just more extreme with it because our community has people like that chubby negro on the first page that excuses & waives off their behavior.

They just socially awkward
Women under 24
They no different then males under 24

Covid fukked them
They missed out on the college experience

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Unfortunately a high percentage of young black women only seek thugs or white men. Neither situation is good. This is what happens when getting an education and talking proper is conceived as corny.

 

[kaldurahm]

Don't give weirdos attention. A lot just say wild shyt for attention

 

[thefloorislava]

Most are normal if you talk to them in real life, but there’s a growing number of self haters and femcels who bought into divestor rhetoric and love dumping on black men.

 

[3rdWorld]

They feel all powerful now with the likes shytting on Black men, but they're going to experience very hard adult lives till they die if they think Black men are the devil and White boys their White knights in shining armor.

When the hard realities of real life away from social media manifest, many will be confused and commit suicide.

 

[BigMan]

If this is the case then they do in fact have regular black male examples. We have to let go of the idea that a black man MUST come from an inner city background to be normal.

I agree with you —- but if you talk to younger black women they usually dismiss these men as nerds, only wanting non black women , or they say that these men are full of them selves if they are doing well academically/financially

I cannot tell you how many young black women who grew up in the burbs in two family middle class homes I’ve seen chase after the crashouts and criminals. It’s how many of them are wired and pushed by media and peers to pursue


Another thing I’ll say is the fact that there is almost no platform created by black women that celebrates or portrays black men in a positive light is telling. The women that don’t hate black men for some reason stay quiet

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Its not just young women, the dudes are weird too.

Influencer University shows just that.

Young people just need guidance

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Gen Z looks like they started it because they use the internet the most. But it was really started generations ago by bitter baby mommas long before gen Z even existed. They were raised by women who talked down on black men.. and that gen was raised by women who talked down on black men.

Gen Z isn’t the ones who spearheaded this type of shyt. They are just now the face of it because they are the most visible.

Look at Kevin Samuel’s videos of 40+ year old women talking down on black men while raising black sons. That says it all.

I'm not saying you're wrong,


But are gen z women actually dating? If they are dating, that means you can't use the bitter baby momma rhetoric excuse.

At some point people learn the truth on their own.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I think the fact of the matter is Gen Z as a collective don't have the solidarity that that the silent generation had, the boomers and even Gen X and millennials even though that is where the cracks started showing.

Gen Z have been essentially lived most of their lives online. Young men don't see a future for themselves so they don't have the optimism that the previous generations have had. So they are abandoning education and really rejecting the 9-5 society that has been a part of America for the better part of a century.

Whether we want to admit or not Black women have been using their resources that they have gained in part through the over correction of feminism especially in the work place. Black women have way more resources available to them when it comes to job and educational opportunities and it shows in the slowly closing earnings gap and employment rate. The other thing their expectations for their partners have not really changed. To say nothing of the constant gender wars and brain rot they are exposed to.

What changed in the last 20+ years?

I went to racially diverse schools with lots of Blacks, whites and Latinos but the teachers were mostly white women between ages 25 and 55.

"Girl Power" was a thing back then and boys....especially Black & Latino, got in trouble more frequently just for existing. We knew there were challenges but we also knew how to navigate. What opportunities are Gen Z missing that Xers/Millenials had?

I'm talking about young Black men specifically. What's stopping our young brehs NOW that wasn't stopping them in 1994 or 2004?

 

[africngiant]

Seeing all these threads where young bw are denigrating black men on social media with hundreds of thousands of likes has me feeling a type of way. I know not all black women are like this. In fact most of my experiences with black women are generally positive. However, it kind of dawned on me that most of these positive experiences are with black women my age or older. The energy a lot of gen z bw give off is just off. There is no sense of solidarity. None of that brother/sister comradery you get with older generations. It saddens me that things are like this now.

Has social media really cooked so many of our people's minds? It isn't just a bw thing either. I feel like this generation is off in general. The state of the culture feels off. Am I tripping or do I need to take my ass outside more?

i just matched with this heavy divestor anti bm type of bytch (i found her twitter). she was so devoid of a personality.. you can’t do shyt with a girl already coming with that type of negativity. she was so dry you could already see where the convo was gonna end. she left me on read yesterday while i was being nice & flirty. bytches like that choose to never get anything out of life.

calling me hun and babe but can barely be bothered to put in any actual effort.

“black men” tho

 

[O.T.I.S.]

When it comes to relationships with young bm, it’s probably cooked.

Their heroes are Meg The Stallion, Candace Owens (just for being a bw fukking a wm), Sexy Redd, Streamers, TikTok “content creators”, feminism, LGBTQ (which is funny, their main comeback against bm is being gay) etc…

 

[BigMan]

What changed in the last 20+ years?

I went to racially diverse schools with lots of Blacks, whites and Latinos but the teachers were mostly white women between ages 25 and 55.

"Girl Power" was a thing back then and boys....especially Black & Latino, got in trouble more frequently just for existing. We knew there were challenges but we also knew how to navigate. What opportunities are Gen Z missing that Xers/Millenials had?

I'm talking about young Black men specifically. What's stopping our young brehs NOW that wasn't stopping them in 1994 or 2004?

Algorithmic Social media

 

[Shadow King]

I agree with you —- but if you talk to younger black women they usually dismiss these men as nerds, only wanting non black women , or they say that these men are full of them selves if they are doing well academically/financially

I cannot tell you how many young black women who grew up in the burbs in two family middle class homes I’ve seen chase after the crashouts and criminals. It’s how many of them are wired and pushed by media and peers to pursue


Another thing I’ll say is the fact that there is almost no platform created by black women that celebrates or portrays black men in a positive light is telling. The women that don’t hate black men for some reason stay quiet

Then the issue isn't a lack of example or exposure of normal black men. The issue is the same that they've had for about half a century now: attraction to hypermasculinity which in modern civilization is usually criminal or unable to assimilate and perform in society at large.

As far as media portrayals, that's their general mentality towards what/who we are. And Black media is ran by Gen X/Millennial women. This is why the notion that young black women "aren't put on game" is laughable to me. They are, they're just taught a different game from other women.