Honestly, cheating is the only way to be happy in a relationship. UPDATE: I'm going to abstain

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Im not reading all that but I'll play devils advocate. The person you're with probably agrees with your "clever" little sentiment, which is why you aren't getting any :sas2:. It's hot girl summer after all, women are playing the game just as well, if not better.
 

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Im hopscotching, but you lying to stay in a worthless relationship. :pachaha:

Hopscotching AND making up shyt.

:russ:. Not once did I say this is my personal experience

And worthless to who? You? You don't think cats out are here very much valuing situations where they only getting cheeks and not having to deal with committed relationship responsibilities?

Call it a "relationship" if you want to.
 

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quiet as kept you don't have to lie to straight women either, the idea that you don't have to lie to bi women places all the burden of honesty on women.

If a woman tells you she's bi, at that pont she opened the door to all honesty. If a man lies to a bi women he's totally insecure about himself. Insecure people lie the most.
 

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Hopscotching AND making up shyt.

:russ:. Not once did I say this is my personal experience

And worthless to who? You? You don't think cats out are here very much valuing situations where they only getting cheeks and not having to deal with committed relationship responsibilities?

Call it a "relationship" if you want to.

The topic of the conversation is "cheating" to have a "happy relationship"

Cheating indicates "lying" and you're not "happy", and the relationship must be "worthless".

Men have had side women and main women that knew about each other since the beginning of time. Im not just speaking for myself.

Explain to me why a person can't sit his lady down and discuss a open relationship?
 

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The topic of the conversation is "cheating" to have a "happy relationship"

Cheating indicates "lying" and you're not "happy", and the relationship must be "worthless".

Men have had side women and main women that knew about each other since the beginning of time. Im not just speaking for myself.

Explain to me why a person can't sit his lady down and discuss a open relationship?

Because in the real world it doesn't work like that a lot of the times. And I think deep down you realize that. You just a contrarian.

Usually most females out here want something that's steady and committed. It's the opposite for a lot of dudes out here especially this day and age. Your average guy can't just sit down some chick that he want to fukk and tell her that that's all he want and expect her to down with the program.

Dudes usually have to sell females on the notion of a relationship in order to get what they want. That's why it goes on so much. That's why you got so many single mothers who are bitter and with a bunch of emotional baggage due to that very thing.
 

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Because in the real world it doesn't work like that a lot of the times. And I think deep down you realize that. You just a contrarian.

Usually most females out here want something that's steady and committed. It's the opposite for a lot of dudes out here especially this day and age. Your average guy can't just sit down some chick that he want to fukk and tell her that that's all he want and expect her to down with the program.

Dudes usually have to sell females on the notion of a relationship in order to get what they want. That's why it goes on so much. That's why you got so many single mothers who are bitter and with a bunch of emotional baggage due to that very thing.
They playing stupid to sound like they got it made in real life. Okay we get it, you a 6 cert breh who got yachts out in Versailles and have orgy's with top models :comeon:

nikkas like @Wildhundreds come on here to anonymously brag to anonymous strangers about how great their lives are and call us lames for not buying into this "maybe" idea of them. Like 1) this ain't even what the topic is about so stop projecting 2) I'm really happy for you breh, but idgaf. Make a thread about how great you are with women so the rest of us can continue on with my particular topic.
 

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Because in the real world it doesn't work like that a lot of the times. And I think deep down you realize that. You just a contrarian.

Usually most females out here want something that's steady and committed. It's the opposite for a lot of dudes out here especially this day and age. Your average guy can't just sit down some chick that he want to fukk and tell her that that's all he want and expect her to down with the program.

Dudes usually have to sell females on the notion of a relationship in order to get what they want. That's why it goes on so much. That's why you got so many single mothers who are bitter and with a bunch of emotional baggage due to that very thing.


So here you just admitted MEN fcked up the women in the black community. :pachaha:

Also, are you aware how modern day women try to distance themselves from the women of previous generations, and how they use to let their husband's go out and have numerous women and families? You do understand that right? And the men of those generations weren't 6 figure, yacht owning men.

How old are you?
 

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They playing stupid to sound like they got it made in real life. Okay we get it, you a 6 cert breh who got yachts out in Versailles and have orgy's with top models :comeon:

nikkas like @Wildhundreds come on here to anonymously brag to anonymous strangers about how great their lives are and call us lames for not buying into this "maybe" idea of them. Like 1) this ain't even what the topic is about so stop projecting 2) I'm really happy for you breh, but idgaf. Make a thread about how great you are with women so the rest of us can continue on with my particular topic.

Nah. You must live in the sticks with only a few women around. In a lot of locations with large populations men are in relationships like I described.
 
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My kinda thread :mjlit:



My woman doesn't make me cum from head. Why? She's not enthusiastic about it and she doesn't give it a 10/10 effort.

The side though? She had ya boy ready to climb the walls.

For that reason alone, she should be okay with me having a side. The side aint there to take her place but to help, how shall I say, pick up the slack in areas where she may fall short.
 

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So here you just admitted MEN fcked up the women in the black community. :pachaha:

Also, are you aware how modern day women try to distance themselves from the women of previous generations, and how they use to let their husband's go out and have numerous women and families? You do understand that right? And the men of those generations weren't 6 figure, yacht owning men.

How old are you?

You're hopscashing again and juelzing.

I'm not up for examination here, it doesn't matter what my age is. I'm just telling you the reality of things.
 

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You're hopscashing again and juelzing.

I'm not up for examination here, it doesn't matter what my age is. I'm just telling you the reality of things.

And im telling you what the reality is as well. You're coming from a liars perspective, im coming from a honest perspective.

Some men have women who know their men are messing around.. Some are swingers as well. Some men seek counseling to fix their relationship problems. If that does work, they get a divorce or break off the relationship and move on..

Then there is your type of people. The liars. Why can't you comprehend this? If you can't be honest with others, at least admit you are a liar in regards in your relationships with women.

Why you need company in your way of thinking?
 
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