It's the woman's choice to have the child or not
How can we really blame a man for being deadbeat when women make the final decision on sex?
- Thread starter Chris.B
- Start date
does she pay you child support?
Data-Hawk
I have no strings on me.
And the week before that. And likely all weeks before that as well.We literally had this same exact thread last week.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-do-yall-talk-bad-about-single-moms-but.185830/
Yes single mothers hold part of the blame. Problem is, most of the time they be wanting sex just as much as us. But when things go wrong, its so easy for the dude to catch ghost and leave her with the package. Which is wayy more p*ssy than her giving it up on the first night. So I agree and disagree...
Nope.
Girl ended up so psychotic I had to bounce during pregnany as much as I didn't wish to.
My child was taken into child protective services at only 3 days old because they showed up at my child's mother's place and it was a dump (smh)
I had to deal with those for protective people for some months just to prove I ain't crazy as she is.
Now I'm in the process of receiving legal full custody (as my child is already in my care).
I won't be asking for no money. If anything I would like home girl to get her mental issues in line.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Women are only the final decider because men never refuse sex
B/c one of the laws of the universe is that you are responible for what you create/contribute to the creation of. You don't like it? Take it up with whatever God you pray to.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
He is jacking my thread but just flipping it around for the Coli men.We literally had this same exact thread last week.
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-do-yall-talk-bad-about-single-moms-but.185830/
thanks for the legit lovedamn that's rough.
Good luck
having a kid makes all that BS minuscule
y'all don't even know how crazy it is having a mini me
No one is more to blame than the other....SHARE THE RESPONSIBILITY!!!!! She is a fool for having a baby with someone she knows ain't shyt and he is a loser for not taking care of his child regardless of his "ain't shyt" status. Its that fukking simple!!!! Always trying to blame other people for the decision YOU make, man the fukk up!!!!
Yes...the focus from society at large is aiding the child, and giving him or her as good of a quality of life as possible, to help mitigate whatever bullsht the parents be on because its not their fault. They're innocent. Thats why these conversations that are trained strictly on the mother are improper in the grand scheme of things.
Anyway, good looks on stepping up to the plate, taking responsibility for your actions, and raising your seed. Thats whats up. Dont know your racial category, but if you're black we need more like you, and not these bytch ass manchildren who wanna give a chick that big belly, and then dip.