I'm an ex. 
I'm a father, that's all.
But this thread is about relationships ..... and I make my son's learn things but def my daughter will def find a man she'd wanna serve and then serve her husband. ... and not be considered a bitter unmarried bytch.. my sons will be providers
I was with until you said you want someone who is slightly less smarter than you and make less money than you.Everything.
I want someone who is slightly less smarter than I am, who's really chill (i.e. cool with me taking the lead), quiet, needs his on space like I do, virginal, makes slightly less than I do, strictly moral, and someone who'll be my best friend. Also,I want someone who I want to bang ferociously
Why does everyone have a problem with that?I was with until you said you want someone who is slightly less smarter than you and make less money than you.
because its fukking weird and lets us know you're crazy with control issues
Because it indicates that you either a control freak or insecure by a man's superior intellect and his ability to attain more wealth than you can acquire.
eww
this thread is disgusting.
Because it indicates that you either a control freak or insecure by a man's superior intellect and his ability to attain more wealth than you can acquire.
OMG yall are something else, and how does that make his girl look silly? I bet she has NO problem or complaints.. and it aint like he said, he put his foot down and she submitted. he wasn't bragging to make his girl look bad, desperate or whatever, it was to say how he has what some of yall say, are ridiculous or unattainable. He was showing how what he has is normal to him and most, and shouldn't be looked at as a negative thing..
Lazy, difficult, and selfish is having someone cook for you and clean up your fukking mess while they go home, and do the same for themselves. He's an adult with a job he should be able to do those things for himself. You all sound like children. You want to be leaders, but you don't provide shyt. No one would have said anything if they were living together, and she was doing that, and he was paying most of the bills. No she goes to work pays the bills at her own place then goes, and cooks and cleans for him at his. That is the height of desperation, and I'd be willing to bet any amount of money that he will not marry that poor woman. Disgusting. You notice how he mentioned that, and I didn't get defensive. You dudes are illogical, and why some American black males are looked down upon. Entitled to the core. The dude isn't even providing for her, but it should just be normal for her to be Suzy Homemaker.I have been trying to say this all day, but I knew if I was that blunt she would have got super defensive..
fukk it, I'm a say it,, yall are lazy, difficult and selfish, but its cool be close minded, biased and everything else all you, want..
Where does this logic come from? everythging you said was an assumption, none based on facts, what if its not like that, what if she is just nice and like doing that for him? what if he is providing for her in a different way, then what?Lazy, difficult, and selfish is having someone cook for you and clean up your fukking mess while they go home, and do the same for themselves. He's an adult with a job he should be able to do those things for himself. You all sound like children. You want to be leaders, but you don't provide shyt. No one would have said anything if they were living together, and she was doing that, and he was paying most of the bills. No she goes to work pays the bills at her own place then goes, and cooks and cleans for him at his. That is the height of desperation, and I'd be willing to bet any amount of money that he will not marry that poor woman. Disgusting. You notice how he mentioned that, and I didn't get defensive. You dudes are illogical, and why some American black males are looked down upon. Entitled to the core. The dude isn't even providing for her, but it should just be normal for her to be Suzy Homemaker.
Lol providing for her in another way? His response to the question about marrying her said it all. If she wants to do that then good for her. A few years from now hopefully she won't look back on it with regret. That's all I really care about that some poor woman is possibly being taken advantaged of.
Did you not note the "possibly" in that bolded statement. She could full well be perfectly happy with what she is doing. I don't agree with it, but it's her life. Those clothes would stay right where they were. I wouldn't nag either. After he sees a huge pile of clothes that he made either he'll clean it, or it will remain there. I'm not looking to be my partner's mother. It's clear that's what some of you want a mother. As for messes I didn't make I'm not cleaning that either. That is what maids are for. I've stated numerous times that I will have a maid.
There is so many things wrong with this mindset,... again good luck finding this unicorn that will put up with that..
