How did you overcome that trauma from your youth that makes you freeze with a woman you actually have romantic interest?

[Outlaw]

Yall really let this nikka cry about being an incel for 10+ years. I thought this was an old thread. You live in the USA, you couldn't get motion in all this time?

He’s autistic I think, give him a break

 

[Outlaw]

I’m not an incel nor do I want to be promiscuous. You’re an idiot

I gave you the answer, if you ignore my post then you aren’t truly looking for the path

 

[Rozay Oro]

It’s a numbers game. Talk to every broad you see. Even the ugly ones. The main objective here is to get use to being rejected to the point you don’t give a fukk anymore. You’re going to get rejected a lot but someone will eventually feel you. Take it from there.

Taking things too seriously. That broad you thirsting off just farted and has dried up piss in her panties but you talking about "what to tell her?". Unless you're trying to be the mack and go home with dry dikk, keep the conversation going and you will practically fall into the pu$$y.

dayum breh…. You ain’t got any outgoing friends that can take you out and smush you up against some women? might be your best bet.. other than that you could try to set up a coli meetup in your city maybe the guys will come thru. Nothing wrong with throwing the lifeline out… we all need help sometimes. But at the end of the day… it’s just coochie. You gotta put it on the right level for your life and expectations. Don’t build it up to some unreachable level.

Do you nikkas not know what romantic interest means? I’m not looking for hook ups, degenerates

 

[1LurkerChick9]

You've got to overcome your negative self image
It's very possible with effort

 

[Rozay Oro]

That’s your problem, you’re too fixated on a relationship. Desirable men don’t want to be in a relationship until they’re convinced to be in one by a woman they truly click with.

Focus on building up a rotation of dating multiple women you find attractive, it’ll solve your oneitis syndrome that you display which completely repels women.

It’s feminine energy to want to “nest” and “settle down” allow the woman handle that while you focus on becoming the most attractive version of yourself by achieving and accomplishing your personal and professional goals

fukk!
Anyway I can do this without dating multiple women?

 

[Rozay Oro]

You've got to overcome your negative self image
It's very possible with effort

That’s the conundrum, it’s not easy. I went to a life drawing session yesterday and spoke with people. I’m trying to get away from people who just turn up and think about sex all day like these fools hating on me.

Just trying to be a normal nikka with a wifey until the day I die

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Are you confident talking to men or women you don't have romantic interest in? You mention general social anxiety / other issue that to me seem like they'd affect all communication, but then you're focused solely on talking to women.

 

[Outlaw]

fukk!
Anyway I can do this without dating multiple women?

Why are you against dating multiple women? And by dating I mean go on “dates” with multiple women. I don’t think you should be a “boyfriend” to multiple women.

When you’re “dating” you aren’t in a commitment

 

[Fani Willis fan]

I’m not an incel nor do I want to be promiscuous. You’re an idiot

You are literally the classification of an idiot in the bible, since you wanna quote scripture


Youve squandered your father's inheritance and operate from a mindset of lack, but you got the nerve to talk spicy to me ? im not gonna pacify you like these other nikkas. You're weak.

 

[Savvir]

A black man needing to be tutored how to talk to bytches….

There’s NO WAY you grew up in any type of real black community. nikkas would have roasted you into an extrovert by middle school

 

[Rozay Oro]

Why are you against dating multiple women? And by dating I mean go on “dates” with multiple women. I don’t think you should be a “boyfriend” to multiple women.

When you’re “dating” you aren’t in a commitment

Many of these women are smokers, drinkers, have no accountability and selfish. Despite their looks. The women at work find me attractive and they may look good. I don’t like their personalities and bad habits.

 

[Rozay Oro]

A black man needing to be tutored how to talk to bytches….

There’s NO WAY you grew up in any type of real black community. nikkas would have roasted you into an extrovert by middle school

You’re a fukking idiot. I was bullied by my cousins in middle school and highschool for being a nervous wreck.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Are you confident talking to men or women you don't have romantic interest in? You mention general social anxiety / other issue that to me seem like they'd affect all communication, but then you're focused solely on talking to women.

Yes I am but when I have feelings for a girl and she reciprocates. It’s tough, I really tried to give up but this one girl gave me hope. Only to crush me. I want a child

 

[Rozay Oro]

You are literally the classification of an idiot in the bible, since you wanna quote scripture


Youve squandered your father's inheritance and operate from a mindset of lack, but you got the nerve to talk spicy to me ? im not gonna pacify you like these other nikkas. You're weak.

The Prodigal Son returned to his Father

Read the Op it’s about my nervous system not trying hook up with women. Clown

 

[TL15]

If you’re having issues with women, shoot lower than you would normally so you can build confidence.

Go out and find a few women and talk to the one that normally is not the one getting the action and you can develop game that way.

If you’re looking for a partner within your range, do things that will naturally bring you confidence like work on your ideal body, make/stack some bread, expand your education, etc. so you’re naturally more attractive. It’ll be something you carry with you

Good luck breh