Paisley Darts
All Star
I agree with the OP. That shyt makes no sense to me. A lot of people are broke because they don't have their priorities in order.
For example, I was at work today talking to my boy...
My boy: I'm going to spend 20k on my wedding
VA:
VA: Me and my girl aren't going to have a wedding we are just going to do the Justice of peace.
My boy:
20mins later...
My boy: These student loans are kicking my ass, I'm going to be in debt forever
VA:
His priorities are clearly fukked up.
Personally, I could pay $20k for my wedding in cash. And other than a mortgage, I have no debt.. But I see no point in it. I'd rather keep that money invested.. So it can work for me and grow. A big wedding won't do shyt for me in the future.
People's perception of what they can "afford" is truly fukked up.
For example, I was at work today talking to my boy...
My boy: I'm going to spend 20k on my wedding
VA:

VA: Me and my girl aren't going to have a wedding we are just going to do the Justice of peace.
My boy:

20mins later...
My boy: These student loans are kicking my ass, I'm going to be in debt forever
VA:

His priorities are clearly fukked up.
Personally, I could pay $20k for my wedding in cash. And other than a mortgage, I have no debt.. But I see no point in it. I'd rather keep that money invested.. So it can work for me and grow. A big wedding won't do shyt for me in the future.
People's perception of what they can "afford" is truly fukked up.