How do we help or deal with all the disgruntled young men in the country?

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I wouldn’t be surprised if this kid was momma raised by a Black woman low key scared to check her son.

But if Pops was around he was obviously too preoccupied with what he had going on than to do his primary job.

Young Men must be consistently checked by Older Men
some parents either think the school is supposed to raise the kids, or they working too much to raise the kids. unfortunate situations
 

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some parents either think the school is supposed to raise the kids, or they working too much to raise the kids. unfortunate situations
Yeah some parents especially single mothers see school as surrogate parents.
 

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Because the red pill talking points are saying that supporting men requires that women need to fall back and play a subservient role. The only solutions being offered for male loneliness is that women need to give up more p*ssy like it's an entitlement and go back to the kitchen and make dudes a sandwich. That's not collective or supportive. That's servitude and obligation. No one is obligated to give guys ass or do all of the housework. A lot of the solutions to this epidemic seem to depend on power dynamics returning to the 1950's and that's just not going to happen. So if people really care about this issue, they need to start thinking outside of the box instead of shaking their fists at the sky about the good old days, which weren't that great for many people.
This is why we have seen a pivot to the right with young males of all races. Now look where we are at :francis:
 

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Y’all make fun of programs but that’s they need

Socialization + activity that wears them out and that’s of genuine interest. They need to be constantly challenged mentally and physically. Especially when growing up in a shytty environment, they will crave dopamine due to constantly being stressed out, on edge and uncomfortable. Disruption of the home life and community contributes to it. Saw this said the other day, what white people call “impulsivity” in us is what they call for themselves adhd, and what is “adhd” might just be general restlessness in everyone but on a continuum. Everyone in this country has neurotic ticks especially boys. Stopping the anti social behavior + a feeling of belonging + productive engagement in controlled settings will help. Especially if there is some type of meritability, social mobility and a part of something bigger than them within it to instill a sense of self esteem.

They have to let that anger and angst out. That’s why we love shyt like running and track, it gives us that dopamine and lets us feel like we can escape the bullshyt. Then when our dopamine is fulfilled physically we can utilize our mental capacity better and Vice versa


The parents have to do more than talk there has to be structure and boundaries. There’s having kids and then there’s raising kids. The world is not automatically a daycare when they leave your vicinity.

I was reading vagabond and when Musashi was about to pop his dad his dad was ready and told his ass “I know EVERYTHING about You” and it made me think parents don’t know shyt about their own kids habits or anything.
 
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Y’all make fun of programs but that’s they need

Socialization + activity that wears them out and that’s of genuine interest. They need to be constantly challenged mentally and physically. Especially when growing up in a shytty environment, they will crave dopamine due to constantly being stressed out, on edge and uncomfortable. Disruption of the home life and community contributes to it. Saw this said the other day, what white people call “impulsivity” in us is what they call for themselves adhd, and what is “adhd” might just be general restlessness in everyone but on a continuum. Everyone in this country has neurotic ticks especially boys. Stopping the anti social behavior + a feeling of belonging + productive engagement in controlled settings will help. Especially if there is some type of meritability, social mobility and a part of something bigger than them within it to instill a sense of self esteem.

They have to let that anger and angst out. That’s why we love shyt like running and track, it gives us that dopamine and lets us feel like we can escape the bullshyt. Then when our dopamine is fulfilled physically we can utilize our mental capacity better and Vice versa


The parents have to do more than talk there has to be structure and boundaries. There’s having kids and then there’s raising kids. The world is not automatically a daycare when they leave your vicinity.

I was reading vagabond and when Musashi was about to pop his dad his dad was ready and told his ass “I know EVERYTHING about You” and it made me think parents don’t know shyt about their own kids habits or anything.
I personally think they should start a combat sports league with teams like they have in Eastern Europe and all boys of middle school age should be sent to combat gyms to learn how to defend themselves and discipline.
 

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I always find it odd that people have all that to say all the time but it doesn't stop these dudes from killing.

I really do wonder if his peers, friends, family, and parents knew what he was consuming online.

The dumb and loud American aka TLR regular - just looks at a cat and says, "Oh yeah, I can see X,Y, and Z - ticking time bomb"...
 

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I really do wonder if his peers, friends, family, and parents knew what he was consuming online.

The dumb and loud American aka TLR regular - just looks at a cat and says, "Oh yeah, I can see X,Y, and Z - ticking time bomb"...
I really want to know this. How does this happen? And he's linked to another shooter, but how does this take place? I'm sure mental health issues were at play as well.
 

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I personally think they should start a combat sports league with teams like they have in Eastern Europe and all boys of middle school age should be sent to combat gyms to learn how to defend themselves and discipline.

Gonna have to disagree with this one. Self defense and discipline is one thing, but martial arts/combat sports culture as it is today's principals have changed for the worse.
 

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I really want to know this. How does this happen? And he's linked to another shooter, but how does this take place? I'm sure mental health issues were at play as well.

Why anyone picks up a gun is beyond me, but do I understand how cats can spend hours on end in a super toxic forum, spouting off BS, pushing all types of conspiracy theories, and memes...

:russ:

If you see me on the news, I'm gonna say "The Coli Made me Do It"
 
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