How do women react when you take them on a first date for coffee or walk in the park?

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Do they get big mad?:mjlol:

Great way to weed out users who want free meals and see if you and a girl can actually connect without spending any real money. The cheaper you act the better.

If you have a vibe then guess you could up the budget on the next outing :ehh:
 

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It depends.


For me myself - it is rather strange i'm sure.
You see, I don't like to drink coffee.
So we meet for coffee and she gets hers and I don't have anything.
I just sit down and watch her drink it to see if I like how she drinks stuff.

If she drinks funny, she's dunzo.
 

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It depends.


For me myself - it is rather strange i'm sure.
You see, I don't like to drink coffee.
So we meet for coffee and she gets hers and I don't have anything.
I just sit down and watch her drink it to see if I like how she drinks stuff.

If she drinks funny, she's dunzo.
:mjlol:

You cant get a peppermint tea or something
 

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You're not wrong that you'll weed out the users, the problem is you'll also weed out some decent ones who themselves are trying to weed out low quality guys.
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Hmmm.... So coffee date automatically = low quality?

If were both dating multiple people she cant expect a man to be wining and dining all of them surely.

I'd rather get with a woman who thinks I'm broke tbh and then gradually I reveal that I'm comfortable as we get to know each other.
 

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“Coffee dates” are very practical. Some women don’t like it but they truly are good at weeding out people very quickly and moving on.

Very little time was wasted and both people can continue on with the rest of their day. If they’re feeling each other they can progress to an actual date
 

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“Coffee dates” are very practical. Some women don’t like it but they truly are good at weeding out people very quickly and moving on.

Very little time was wasted and both people can continue on with the rest of their day. If they’re feeling each other they can progress to an actual date
You a real one.

But a lot of women would disagree with you.
 

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Nothing wrong with coffee or a walk if you know then already IMO.

you can do a cheap restaurant or outing for those you are blindly meeting
 

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You're not wrong that you'll weed out the users, the problem is you'll also weed out some decent ones who themselves are trying to weed out low quality guys.
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facts.

Y'all actually like coffee or walks in the park that much? Honestly bruh I'm not surprised some women are turning their nose up to it. At least get a damn drink.

Listen. When I factor in the cost of a date. I'm only counting what I spend on THEM. I spoil myself. But why would I want to spend my time doing something I don't really enjoy?

If you prefer drinks, tell her meet you for happy hour(I got a spot that does happy hour till 8pm for the late birds). Most women will only drink once from my experience. That's one $6 margarita. Maybe a plate of chips and queso for $7-$8 or($4 since I'm only counting what I spend on her). If y'all hate each other :yeshrug: you spent $10-$15 on her and you didn't do something boring.


I live in NYC though. My first dates range from $40-$100 depending on what I want to do. Sometimes I'm hungry so we eat. Sometimes I just want drinks. Sometimes I want to go to a second spot before taking them back to mine :mjlit:

shyt if you're doing a first date a picnic is a good cheap idea and chics love picnics and she'll be happy to bring something herself. Tell her bring a blanket and some chips. You'll handle the food and wine. Warm weather, wine, some sandwiches and chips on a blanket in the park. She's definitely coming back to yours after the last 3 nikkas tried to take her out for coffee :mjlol: Bruh y'all really can't be this sad.
 
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