How do you weekend dads do it?

[Dog Based Gremlin]

you know just seeing your kids just on saturday twice a month


my baby momma stay not letting me see our kid if we have fights. she got alot of passive aggression issues

 

[Elfuego]

Have kids with random women brehs

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Have kids with random women brehs

i mean in general

how can a dad really connect with a kid you barely see?

 

[cheek100]

I did it for a number of years. Shyt was slow torture.
The state gives them so much power over u.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

I dunno man. Fight for shared custody brehs. There is only but so much you can do with your legacy on a weekend.

I honestly feel bad for weekend dads because in my opinion, they are robbed of so many important moments of raising a child in a normal way. Homework, school projects, fundraisers, watching games, playing ball after school when there aren’t 10 homework assignments.

Fight for it. Your kids deserve more breh that just every other weekend of masculinity. That type of arrangment also pigeonholes your parenting style. Can’t discipline properly and you are always playing from behind.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

I did it for a number of years. Shyt was slow torture.
The state gives them so much power over u.

yeah man i know, im going through it. people dont understand the slow torture feeling. I used to complain about the baby mama on here but naw, im over it. If she is rude, she is rude but she really only hurting our kid with when im mad at her, i cant see our child

she acts like she would give her up but she never really does

 

[Hersh]

document everything.. take it to judge .. ask for joint or full custody

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Take her to court.

You lose, keep going to court.

Sure, she'll be piss and that may stop the visits altogether until you WIN or whatever the verdict come to but that's BS.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

document everything.. take it to judge .. ask for joint or full custody

she doesn't do it in a direct way

its very subtle so i'd probably lose

I am waiting till she fukk up though to have some ammo to use

 

[LastEmperor2k2]

Im with my little one right now

It would kill me if i couldnt be here 365 for her

 

[Hersh]

nothing females do is subtle breh..

 

[Cheese McNair]

Maybe you can try turning the kid against her? I mean it’s roofless but the game is already dirty for you

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

she doesn't do it in a direct way

its very subtle so i'd probably lose

I am waiting till she fukk up though to have some ammo to use

Cmon breh. Don’t wait. You just gotta do it. There are court appointed attorneys that can help you as well.

Your child’s mom would probably respect you more if you fought for your kids.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

nothing females do is subtle breh..

naw cause she not out right saying "fukk you nikka, u cant see your child"

its like subtle like she wont answer the phone until the end of the day on the weekends or she wont answer texts and then when i get mad, she'll be like "thats why i dont like talking to u, im not always around my phone to answer"

passive shyt like that

 

[cheek100]

yeah man i know, im going through it. people dont understand the slow torture feeling. I used to complain about the baby mama on here but naw, im over it. If she is rude, she is rude but she really only hurting our kid with when im mad at her, i cant see our child

she acts like she would give her up but she never really does

Well I’ll tell u like the cats use to tell me. All that shyt comes back around. Kids pick up on more than u think. I use to think my kids wouldn’t respect me and fall for my bm’s Bullshyt like everybody else. Naaah far from that. They grew up to resent her for keeping them away. They remember all the times they wanted to see me but couldn’t. Even the way she use to backbite.
Just be patient and be a good dad. They WILL remember it.