How hard is a real relationship supposed to be?

[An ashy lil fap hand]

I don't know about normal, but it isn't a healthy relationship. Your girl still has issues and you may do too. Y'all should both go get help and try and be drug free. Why are y'all still getting faded? How old are y'all? If you guys have children together, do you still plan on getting faded?

Also, you will never win giving up things for your chick... not for yourself and nort for her. She complained that you didn't see her enough because of work so you leave your job. Then she complains that you don't bring in enough money. You shouldn't have left your job in the first place and tell her to go find a hobby or something.

People may view arguing as normal in relationships, but in my opinion I believe it is verbal abuse and arguing isn't a place within healthy, positive relationships.

Y'all also need to address why y'all do drugs.. most likely some deep rooted issues that y'all haven't healed from.

Well, we live in Vegas, breh. It's just kind of what everyone does. Also, I'm a comedian that produces shows and she's a bartender. We're both in that world.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

My relationship is pretty transparent and I am around my girl a lot. We live together. We've both had problems with abuse and partying. However we met when were both both doing well and secure.

2 years later, things are generally good but sometimes my girl goes off about seemingly nothing. She screamed at me because she had the hiccups the other day. shyt like this happens every other week.

Clown me if you want. She pays most of the billsn while I pay for most of the fun we have. I cook and clean. All this while steadily growing my own business. She finally breaks down and says she needs me to make more money.

Now, I wanna add that even with all the stuff I said I do, I've actually had traditional day jobs here and there that she asked me to quit because I was never around.

Anyway, my girl gets piss drunk and spazzes but when she sober, everything is seemingly ok. She cries when she faded and says I'm too good for her, but straight...constantly tells me im the best bf ever.

Is this normal stuff that I need to man up about, or am I playing myself by staying with her? I mostly know how I want to handle this, but O figured I'd ask for other perspectives cuz all I ever really do here is post goofy stuff.

You need to drop her. Proper relationships do not have these problems. As soon as a bytch disrespect you she needs to go period. She gets one warning and if she does it again she's gone. You are in an emotionally abusive relationship. Don't let no one disrespect you. Love ya self breh.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She ain't ya'll wife. If she needs more money she needs to go make it her damn self. WTF?

 

[Voice of Reason]

Im being honest and i honestly have thought maybe she is bipolar. I have a receptive personality that seems to attract people like that. And part of the reason I agreed to quit those jobs was because it gave me more time to focus on researching, building my brand, and learning to code.[/QUOTE/

What are you trying to build breh?

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

She sounds like an energy vampire. What are some of her positive traits?

She's educated in psychology and medicine, beautiful, has a higher sex drive than me. She's also incredibly loyal. She's my best friend. She's white and enjoys watching hidden colors. On the surface, we are ideal. But like everyone elsen we have insecuritesn large and small.

 

[Stir Fry]

She's educated in psychology and medicine, beautiful, has a higher sex drive than me. She's also incredibly loyal. She's my best friend. She's white and enjoys watching hidden colors. On the surface, we are ideal. But like everyone elsen we have insecuritesn large and small.

Those are all good secondary traits, but if she's not about building you up emotionally and financially first and foremost, then you're just wasting your time imo.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She's white and enjoys watching hidden colors

Oh wait I didn't know you was on that shyt. Nevermind you deserve each other. Stay together so you don't spread that shyt to others.

 

[Blackout]

She's white

 

[DJSmooth]

You asking about relationship advice when it sounds like you need to get your bread up

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

She ain't ya'll wife. If she needs more money she needs to go make it her damn self. WTF?

She's a fulltime student with a full time job.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She's a fulltime student with a full time job.

AND? How does that change what I said? You are not her husband.

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Oh wait I didn't know you was on that shyt. Nevermind you deserve each other. Stay together so you don't spread that shyt to others.

You pretend to be a woman online.

What are you trying to build breh?

My brand as a comedian. Entertainment is hard. However, it seems to working for me. I also have a few ideas for game apps that can double as merchandise.

 

[Guile]

. She's white and enjoys watching hidden colors.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You pretend to be a woman online.

People on the board have met me you dumb ass. They've seen me in TinyChat too. Try again

Now lets get back to your White girlfriend who doesn't respect you and who's snorting away her money so she needs you to make more.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

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