How is it that women are able to move on so quickly?

[Mac Brown]

I don't know that women overall move on any quicker than men
But

If we do I think there's 2 main contributers

1. Women seek out/want to be in relationships (generally speaking)
2. It's easier to meet attract men as a woman than it is the reverse (generally speaking )

A third thing that also probably contributes is that as women we aren't shamed or shunned for showing our emotions and have the opportunity to get support and shoulders to lean on from the moment it happens. We can cry, break shyt, make voodoo dolls whatever and no one will think badly of us for it.

The the real MVP!

 

[TheNig]

Becuz bytches aint shyt. Stop overthinking this shyt.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Men love hard
Women love often

Plus, women are checked out mentally a loooong time before things are officially over

Lots of people who you think have moved on quickly, do not. They probably never loved you in the first place and there's nothing to move on from or they are using their rebound relationship as a band-aid to feel better. Either way, you are not together any more and what they do shouldn't matter anymore.

 

[MillionMills]

Lots of people who you think have moved on quickly, do not. They probably never loved you in the first place and there's nothing to move on from or they are using their rebound relationship as a band-aid to feel better. Either way, you are not together any more and what they do shouldn't matter anymore.

You're telling me this because?

 

[The Mad Titan]

I don't know that women overall move on any quicker than men
But

If we do I think there's 2 main contributers

1. Women seek out/want to be in relationships (generally speaking)
2. It's easier to meet attract men as a woman than it is the reverse (generally speaking )

A third thing that also probably contributes is that as women we aren't shamed or shunned for showing our emotions and have the opportunity to get support and shoulders to lean on from the moment it happens. We can cry, break shyt, make voodoo dolls whatever and no one will think badly of us for it.

Your husband is a winner

 

[CinnaSlim]

You're telling me this because?

Because you posted on a public forum and the option to reply is available.

 

[Rawtid]

Lots of people who you think have moved on quickly, do not. They probably never loved you in the first place and there's nothing to move on from or they are using their rebound relationship as a band-aid to feel better. Either way, you are not together any more and what they do shouldn't matter anymore.

The same dudes hollering "men love hard" rant and rave about mains and side pieces.

 

[Mac Brown]

I see what you're saying. I just think it's a good idea to review what went wrong.
What you want or need to be different, how if at all you contributed to the relationship failing. It's good for the long term. Plus are you actually emotionally settled already?
These things actually effect your likeliness of being willing and commited.
Date or go out if you want sure.

I hate to see someone get hurt further by rushing in
And I hate even more for some poor person who is in the right place get hurt by that someone who was in a rush.

You know?

You do realize that a lot of women aren't taught to truly take time to self reflect on there own personal flaws when it comes to relationships.

But I still agree with you!!!

 

[Reginald Noble]

Cause Women end relationships in their own head long before they communicate dissatisfaction with a Man.

Never trust what a Woman says, watch how she acts.

A lot of yall post about bytches giving you tude and shyt and then wonder why they come "out of the blue" and say it's over.

The bytch was giving you signs all along that shyt was heading down south nikka.

Nip that shyt in the bud or move on.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Men love hard
Women love often

Plus, women are checked out mentally a loooong time before things are officially over

This. Verbatim. Arguably my best friend is a female, and she's told me as such herself. Women generally detach emotionally and all that before actually calling shyt off. She told me that at minimum, she gives a relationship 10-12 months. By that time, she feels knows what she has or what she doesn't, and she goes from there.

This is why, in my estimation, the one thing you can do to "win" if you're trying to do a chick dirty is to break up with them before they are ready. For some of these chicks, you'll fukk their mind up QUICKLY with an ambush bushing.

 

[Poitier]

This is why, in my estimation, the one thing you can do to "win" if you're trying to do a chick dirty is to break up with them before they are ready.

Have to disagree.

The ones who do what you describe usually are the ones on POF in their 30s scrambling.

 

[Reginald Noble]

This. Verbatim. Arguably my best friend is a female, and she's told me as such herself. Women generally detach emotionally and all that before actually calling shyt off. She told me that at minimum, she gives a relationship 10-12 months. By that time, she feels knows what she has or what she doesn't, and she goes from there.

This is why, in my estimation, the one thing you can do to "win" if you're trying to do a chick dirty is to break up with them before they are ready. For some of these chicks, you'll fukk their mind up QUICKLY with an ambush bushing.

Get with Women who put an arbitrary time limit on human interactions brehs

This is to make up for their poor ability to choose a Good Man from the jump. It really shouldn't take that long. As a Woman she should know before you even think about getting serious with a Man like that.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Have to disagree.

The ones who do what you describe usually are the ones on POF in their 30s scrambling.

Fair enough.

Get with Women who put an arbitrary time limit on human interactions brehs

This is to make up for their poor ability to choose a Good Man from the jump. It really shouldn't take that long. As a Woman she should know before you even think about getting serious with a Man like that.

Not how I would personally go about things (I date with intent to marry) but apparently that process works for her, so who am I to judge?

 

[Elle Driver]

@Elle Driver

Never made a successful voodoo doll.

 

[Swirv]

Some women be on some bullshyt. An ex I have just recently told me that she hasnt moved on from me yet. She dumped me in 2010 got married and had a kid in 2013.