How is it that women are able to move on so quickly?

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We prepare for the breakup before the actual breakup. Most people know when the relationship is on its last leg. So by the time the relationship is over. It's a relief to actual stop trying to make something that no longer works, work.

Also women tend to be more in touch with their emotions and have more practice processing them then men do who tend to hold on to stuff much longer than is healthy.


That's not even close to true.
 

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Like others said...women usually check out months beforehand.

If a chick dumps you it's very likely that she was planning to for weeks to months. So by the time it happens she's already emotionally checked out, whereas the man is usually caught off-guard. If the man initiates the breakup it's usually spur of the moment.


Not saying it's ALWAYS like that, but it's typical. We just don't have that natural deviousness that women have :yeshrug:
 

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Women are always plotting their next move. There was a study from a year or two ago that said 1/2 of MARRIED WOMEN had already picked their backup plan. 1/5 MARRIED WOMEN have already talked about it with the other brother! Now, imagine how many GFs out there are gassing some dude at work on the side. They might not make a move, but they're always leaving doors open. The BBD is real

Second, I can't find the article from about 10-15 years ago but married women are also squirreling away money so they can buy shyt without their husband's approval or walk out. My moms bought my first car (nothing special) with money she had hidden away cause my dad said hell no!

By the time your woman comes to you talking about leaving, she's already had the plans in motion for months or years. Might as well let her go and hope she doesn't take too much with her.
 
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because they all hoes:yeshrug:
because life without validation from men is an empty depressing and lonely one for the female human being:yeshrug:

they won't admit it but we don't need them to confirm the facts:yeshrug:

they can't be alone... :yeshrug:

she will always be talking to other nikkaz whether you want to believe it or not:yeshrug:


this is more like 100%:mjlol:
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women are always keeping those friend zoned guys at bay or their inboxes flooded with thirsty as dudes who are ready and willing to fill that gap with the quickness. Most guys give up their females just for one and it doesn't work in the end and you know like I know how dry it gets when you don't have someone and try to get at females...there's always games and when you're in a relationship there's females ready and waiting. smdh:martin:
 

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All the women I dealt with moved on hella quick had a dude on call, previous girl told me she was talking to a dude but he was just to keep her company cause we stopped talking . .. made a brotha feel good :whew:
 

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Men love hard
Women love often

Plus, women are checked out mentally a loooong time before things are officially over

I have a woman I used to know in high school I ran into at a party few weeks back who has a boyfriend and she's decided to leave him in March. But is already checked out. She texts me to smash, and from our convos, she has a couple of dudes beyond her bf she's smashing.

Yep, men love hard. Women love often. By the time your world comes crashing, she's already panicked inside and line up her options to swing to the next branch.
 
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