How is not having kids selfish?

[Carl Tethers]

And you, who DMs men and threatens them with sodomy, is a paragon of fatherhood. Right?

Man waking his kid up like, "Top of the morning, dikksucker "

 

[Mac Ten]

When u get your paper and finances right, do what u want.

If u don't wanna kids, that's fine too.

Don't let these biiishes guilt you into having a kid because next thing u know, she's gonna get tired of you and then she's going to sic the state on your pockets and next thing u know, your beer money is going to that child.

It ain't your fault that muddafuddas decided that a hour of pleasure is worth 18 years of your life.

 

[Coco Loco]

how you have a kid by accident and not interested in having them? You a bad decision maker?

THIS! You either want them or you don't. I'll never understand stating not wanting kids but not getting a vasectomy to ensure it never happens

 

[ba'al]

Our society/government cannot function at a certain point if no children are born to become workers/taxpayers. We all have to bear the sacrifice of raising children to keep things from descending into chaos.

I agree but I think there's a difference between no children at all being born in the world versus a minority of people choosing to not to have kids.

It’s collective action and those who don’t do it will still reap the benefits when some 20 something is wiping their 80 year old ass at a nursing home.

With this logic we can apply it both ways the 20 something nursing home worker reaped the benefits of the previous generation's contribution to society. My tax dollars paid for their primary school education.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

If you haven’t dealt with your own issues
Why would you bring a child into this unrelenting world
Having a child is a duty
It is not for legacy
It is not for them to take care of you when you’re older
Having children is a higher calling
If you know you aren’t centered or ready to deal with everything that comes with it
Don’t do it
You don’t stop being a parent when they turn 18
It’s for life or until you are in the dirt
It’s better to be selfish than to bring a child into this world and destroy them before they even get started
Let the mistake babies run in here on they moral cop/superiority complex begin

Nah breh u spittin. Not a lie was told

 

[ba'al]

Nah breh u spittin. Not a lie was told

@Kiyoshi-Dono be saying some real stuff. I find I stay dapping and repping his posts.

 

[African Peasant]

Just because I'm enjoying life doesn't automatically mean my kid will enjoy life. Why would I project how I feel onto someone else who's a whole separate person.

Hypocrisy and excuses.

And by whose volition.

Who cares?

He's here and loving it.

 

[Fill Collins]

Mf's (lol) who can't pull out have shytty coping skills

Lets be real you’d make a terrible father

You'd know a lot about that

 

[African Peasant]

OP, your kid also deserves to post on thecoli like you do.
Cats post on thecoli like it's a day job but refuse to allow their kid the same pleasure

 

[ba'al]

Hypocrisy and excuses.

That's not hypocrisy at all. Just because I feel one way doesn't mean my child will feel the same. My mindset doesn't automatically transfer into their head. The child is its own person. That's like saying since I enjoy playing sports my child will too. It doesn't work like that. The parent's interests and mindsets doesn't always reflects the child's interests and mindset.

 

[African Peasant]

That's not hypocrisy at all. Just because I feel one way doesn't mean my child will feel the same. My mindset doesn't automatically transfer into their head. The child is its own person. That's like saying since I enjoy playing sports my child will too. It doesn't work like that. The parent's interests and mindsets doesn't always reflects the child's interests and mindset.

It's not about mindset. You're enjoying life. Share that gift, instead of making up scenario about your kid not loving life.

The probability of him/her loving it are way more superior to the opposite.

Using your logic, you won't share anything with anyone, because they may not love it. Selfishness.

Life is a gift, share it.

Your parents took that gamble, hence you're here enjoying that coli high life

 

[ba'al]

It's not about mindset. You're enjoying life. Share that gift, instead of making up scenario aout your kid not loving life.

So yeah there's a discrepancy here. What you're labeling and spinning as making up scenario. I consider it being considerate. I'm not going to assume because I feel one way that my child will feel the same.

 

[African Peasant]

So yeah there's a discrepancy here. What you're labeling and spinning as making up scenario. I consider it being considerate. I'm not going to assume because I feel one way that my child will feel the same.

Yeah, you're making excuses.

It's all good. No one will force you to. But you're making flimsy excuses.

 

[ba'al]

Yeah, you're making excuses.

It's all good. No one will force you to. But you're making flimsy excuses.

Nah I'm not making excuses. You just can't gaslight me into seeing this topic like you do bruh.

What you're labeling as excuses is just my opinion.

 

[ba'al]

It's not about mindset. You're enjoying life. Share that gift, instead of making up scenario about your kid not loving life.

Also in the post I mentioned mindsets but it's also true for feelings. I can personally feel like life is a gift, pleasurable , and amazing but that doesn't mean the next person will think, feel, and see the world as I do personally. And I accept that rather than trying to shame and gaslight them into seeing things exactly how I see them bruh. But having discourse on various topics like these are good imo.